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Getting her from the date location to your place with the least amount of time and resistance possible is the key I have found. Find a location that is VERY close to your place, and make this your number 1 date spot. Every date from now on, go here. Make your small talk, chat, whatever, get a drink (or coffee) do some touchy feely shit, then just take their hand and leave with them. Don't even say lets go back to my place for a drink or anything as that can set off the slut defense. I literally try to just operate under the assumption that they ARE coming back to my place with me and I don't need to offer an explanation. It works a decent amount for me and completely eliminates the flakiness you will experience by trying to trick girls to coming to your place for "netflix and dinner" or whatever when you both know it means you want to fuck.
First date, show up, small talk, touch, kiss if you can, take their hand, leave the place and walk straight to your car. Nowhere else. Drive her back to your place while continuing to chat like nothing weird is going on, and simply walk into your place and they will follow suit a lot of the time. Keep the chatting going continuously like this is normal and not weird and a lot of the time they won't question it. One of the main things I've learned since starting this is if you give a girl the opportunity to jump ship, they more than likely will a lot of the time. If you ask if they wanna come back to your place, they will most likely have an excuse on the first date. To loophole this, simply DON"T give them an alternative. Just use actions, and don't verbalize anything. Once you get back to your place sit down on the couch and offer them a drink or whatever and push for the lay. This has been what has got me all of my first date lays.
It is absolutely key to have somewhere logistically close to your place. Meeting a girl in a different city for coffee 45 minutes from your house simply won't lead to anything more than a kiss at the door of her car and then you two parting ways and you being unsure if you will ever see her again.
Username wrote: I have lost a shit load of girls by inviting them over for "ice cream" on the first date lol
Maybe try "candy" next time? Lol
Anyways, it's always important to touch the girl whether it's at a bar/coffee shop/your place/her place. If the girl complies with your touch. Blood is in the water. It's time for you to lead the girl to somewhere private so you can get laid.
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