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My advice to you is to not think about stuff too much. A hand on her leg, or arm or "safe spots" first then escalate. If she responds positively (doesn't move away, slap you, etc) you're doing good. Don't worry about her approval, just do what you want and see how it goes.
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I struggled with this last week with my Whole Foods date and did not kiss her. She is no longer responding to me what a surprise. My favorite dates are like parks or anything outside or that permits or makes touching less awkward like salsa dancing. At any setting if you can isolate you can start touching and flirting or dancing then just go for it or do the old "close your eyes" or tell her "shhhhh" technique that Chris showed us. I have no interest in boring dates like the Whole Foods one I had last week. It was my first date ever with no kiss as far as I can remember. Bowling, the park, dancing, pool, the bar and a few others have all worked out for me in the past as far as being able to touch and kiss her at the end. Hope this helps.
Some venues are obviously more difficult for escalation than others.
Two things that will guarantee that she is feeling you - laughter and comfort level. The first one is obvious and easy to spot, the latter becomes more obvious as you gain experience throughout multiple dates. If you get a girl comfortable, she will almost always accept a kiss or advance at the conclusion of the date, whether you are able to be physical during it or not.
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