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What's good y'all like I said 18 yr old unkissed virgin here looking for some advice.
Weight: 187 lbs
ZERO experience with girls, approached like 11 got 2 numbers but got ghosted both times.
I've been working out for like 3 yrs now (incosistently) and seen pretty good results. I look good to a lot of girls but I never have the balls to go and talk to them. It's just that I got very low self-confidence and I always talk myself out of any oppurtunities cause I don't want to be hurt.
So anyways about the pictures: feel free to be bluntly honest and don't hold back. I've been using dating apps for a while but no results.
General advice for me losing my virginity and feedback about the picture is greatly appreciated.
Let's start by saying you're easily attractive enough to get girls. You're a bit on the skinny side, but since you're only 18 you can expect to fill out a bit over the next few years. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Also, it's normal to not have women figured out at your age. Most guys are just getting started and you'll make sense of it with more experience.
You're height is generally an advantage, but none of your pictures show your height because there are no other references in the pics. I'd work on getting a pic with a few guy friends because that will clearly show the difference. Having a pic with shorter girls might make you look just a little too tall, but that's just speculating.
The only pic I cared much for was #4. (smiling and looking off camera) The image quality is decent and you have a good smile. The 1st pic has some potential (good location and shows some of your style) but it's zoomed out too far so the details are lost. Having a closer face pic is good, but I think you can do better than the one you shared. Start taking lots of pics in different situations and you'll end up with a few good ones just from luck.
In general, I aim for each:
full body pic (clothed)
social pic with other people
pic doing a hobby (sports, music, hiking, or pet)
Ima disagree with the other guy. It looks like youre in Europe, girls love the tall skinny look. Cut your body fat% down but keep hitting the gym. Make sure you have a 6-8 pack.
Dude, talk to 5 girls every day. This is how you do it:
say hi, i noticed you i just wanted to say whatsup. have a normal conversation about whatever for 1-3 minutes, then say, well it was nice talking to you, i have to get going. Want to go out this weekend? (if its the weekend, ask her, want to go out tonight?)
Do this for a MINIMUM of 5 girls, 7 days a week. Drop this online crap. then come back here when you have some dates lined up for the next piece of advice.
Trust me, you can absolutely slay and kill it if you just follow our advice. If I knew of this place when I was 18 my body count would be 400
@Win Big Thanks a lot for the reply. It's just that all my peers have had at last SOME experience with girls and I feel like I deserve that because I'm better looking than them. But that's not how it works I gotta approach. You're right about the pictures with friends too thanks a lot.
@Riyy Thanks, you're right online dating hasn't worked for me at all sadly. Just gotta get over the mental block of "being too scared to talk to girls" I can definetly do it if I really want to. Thanks a lot I will follow your advice. And yes I'm in germany btw
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