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I've helped a couple guys in literally the same position as you - in their 30s,virgins, a million insecurities/mental hurdles. By "helped", I mean "gotten them laid and worked through their mental issues". Hit me up for coaching if you want, just bare in mind I'm expensive these days:
I'm happy to negotiate a lower price if you need it (email me). If not me, then see a therapist. Your issues seem to be deep and the way you beat yourself up isn't helping.
I'd also recommend a book, "You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought".
I think I get it now why some people here set themselves goals like approach x amount of women a day. Time flies and I'm making excuses. It's crazy when I think about it. It is like I'm waiting for something, but I don't know what it is. I made a commitment to try my best to lose my virginity a couple weeks ago. And what am I doing? Wasting time...
Dude, I'm not the most experienced guy on the forum but take fucking action, watch Chris's video on the Secret to the Universe. If you really want to lose uyour virginiry you'll do it. It doesn't have to be with a super pretty girl, but just do it.
Personally how I got started with this was with Online dating. I reccomend you looking at Andy's Tinder guide and trynna make complete use of it
Finish second year of art school
Have a threesome
Write and Draw a Graphic novel
Not doing online dating any more. And real dating sucks because of covid. I think I'll have to be patient for now and focus on my "career". I'll probably make the first woman who sleeps with me my girlfriend.
What Cilindric said, and he's right, is that you've gotten help from a bunch of members and you haven't taken their advice at all, it's like our help is beneath you. If you feel like that's the case, then that's fine but verbalize it and post it here, just say you don't want help and want your log to be left alone and then nobody will (try to) help you (which by the way is the point of this place).
Saying "I'll take action when the circumstances allow it." is also a bad excuse and a nice way to rationalize your lack of action. Do current "circumstances" prevent you from putting together a solid plan (Bastard told you to do this like a month ago) for when "circumstances allow" taking "action"? Nope. Do current "circumstances" forbid you from posting pictures (which I told you to do almost 2 months ago)? Nope.
All current "circumstances" do is provide you with a convient way to lie to yourself. Go to the gym, get better stye, learn to pose, learn how to take pics, learn basic photoshop editing, work with a coach, learn to mediate so you can relax and stop hating women. All of those you can do with or without covid.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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