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I was able to identify with a lot of what you describe. I have felt and still feel a lot the same way mindset-wise. But guess what? That hasn't been stopping me getting laid. You don't have to be able to imagine women liking you - all you have to do is just put in the action and let the women decide that for themselves. You might have to do a ton of approaches and really hit the numbers online, but you will get laid. That's just a matter of fact. Otherwise humans would've been extinct a long time ago.
The main point I'd like to drive home is that you're not that different from the rest of us. You're not a special snowflake. It's completely normal to develop those kinds of inferiority complexes and women-hatred given your history. But it's also just as normal to start getting laid. Pissed off about having to do all the work? That's fine, you're allowed to be pissed off, but do it anyway. I wish random women would just arrive at my door to have sex with me too, but it just doesn't work that way.
You don't even have to believe in yourself. Let us believe in you instead and just focus on taking the necessary action.
Since you're here, you already know what to do. Now go do it!
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Yesterday I messaged a couple of girls. With one chubby girl I exchanged a couple of messages, basically had to convince her that I find her attractive. That was stupid but I hope I can make a date with her this week. Was my first time ever talking to a girl over text with the intention of a date. Would also be my first date if it happens. Not really my type but I just need to constantly remind myself that I need practice. This online thing is probably the easiest way but I still feel it is
exhausting. It feels like work. Stupid thoughts on my mind, like "is it really worth it"?
Yesterday I got a phone number but the conversation came to nothing. I think I need to take a more professional approach.
- schedule my time on apps
- pay for premium
- track my stats
- push for dates
- more and better pics
The amount of excuses in my head is unbelievable. I need to focus on my goal!
imo no one should track stats unless that's for motivation to make drastic change every 100/1000 swipes that don't go as well as hoped. Tracking stats for online apps (unless you're a girl or ryan gosling) is for depression.
Regarding paying for premium, which apps are you on?
Tinder banned both my numbers, I don't know why.
So I was on badoo (I think this is quiet international) and on lovoo ( which is a german app).
They are both different because you can basically search for women in your area. But lovoo
gave me nothing, there is a feature in which girls can livestream and basically earn money.
They are not even looking for real dates or anything, this is absolutely stupid so I deleted the app.
Well on badoo I had 3 days premium, which you get offered when you are about to delete the app.
When I got premium suddenly there were a lot of visits and some likes on my profile. Some girls
on badoo you can message without them liking your profile. I did that with around 30 girls. Couple
of them responded. But I have to admit none of them I really find attractive. This is becoming soooo
depressing, basically girls I like don't like me and vice versa. I think this will be my destiny...
I'm on 4 different drugs because of my depression, yet I still need to drink to feel better.
I'm such a loser... fuck fuck fuck
Good on you hardcore. Live up to your username and have at it!
By all means see escorts as long as it is legal and affordable. As one who lost my 'virginity' (can men really be called 'virgins' technically?) to an escort I can say its likely your first time not paying for it will be no less memorable or special.
Have you tried opening a new Tinder account? You can get a free number from google voice (I did that to set up a 2nd tinder account a year ago).
I've heard good things about badoo so might be worth trying the premium. Let us know how that goes if you do it.
I feel like you're being rather impatient. This is your 1st week going hardcore right? And you had improve your pics as one thing to do so keep in mind you could be doing way better if your pics were way better (of course I have no idea what they look like now but there's room for improvement for most of us).
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