TOPIC: 31 year old virgin - it's about time!

Hi there, I'm 31, never kissed a girl.

Well, I have a lot of issues, my main one is beeing ugly. I'm not fat or anything, but I just have an unattractive face. That lead to low confidence and a weird personality over the years. I also didn't take a lot of action, although I was part of a big social cirle in my early twenties. Now I live in a very rural place, I like it, neverbeen the big city type. I can't really play the numbers game, or maybe I could but never really tried. I think I did everything I could lookswise, like growing a beard to hide my weak jawline. But over the years I developed a quiet big inferority complex. That makes it difficult for me to even think of a woman liking me. Been in therapy but didn't work to be honest. I'm at peace with my looks at the moment, yet women don't like me.

Tried a bit of online dating but I don't think it is very rewarding in my country/region. I don't want to go to a prostitute, although it is legal in my country and wouldn't be a problem. I feel like the whole love and sex thing is hindering me in other areas, like beeing creative and pursuing a career. I feel like if just one woman (whom I find attractive) wantsto have sex with me, would really jumpstart my whole life. But I guess that will never happen, I have a hard time imagining a woman feeling sexually attracted to me. I developed quiet a lot of hate against women, especially hot ones. It shouldn't be so hard to get laid. I sometimes feel it is below my dignity to approach a women, I feel like I have to do all the work, it really pisses me off. As I said, I will try online dating and probably go out a bit more. I hope this misery ends soon, it is time to take some serious action.*

Cheers guys, I really appreciate this site, wish me luck

*not a native english speaker so pardon my grammar

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You should work with him if you really want to take care of yourself killyourinnerloser.com/coaching/

He's a moderator on this forum and showed more than enough proof he completely went from a loser to someone Who gets laid on a regular basis, with à healthy view on women and healthy realtionships with them.



I personally advice you to go loose your virginity with a hooker asap.
That Being said, if you would be willing to pay for sex I suggest you use this money to pay him for coaching.

Do you have cystic acne all over? Terrible scarring all over? An actual facial deformity (read not "weak jawline"; example: cleft palate/lip).

If the answer is no to all of the above then it's more likely you have an unattractive mindset than face.

Other items to check off / improve
- hair/hat style
- style (clothes)
- body (gain muscle / lose fat)

Read this:
www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/fundamenta.../you-arent-that-ugly

I can't do hookers and I can't do ugly girls

Now I'm on 2 different dating sites, so far not much activity.

hardcore wrote: I can't do hookers and I can't do ugly girls

Now I'm on 2 different dating sites, so far not much activity.

Do you really want to loose your virginity ?
Because it doesn't look like you do.


How about the other suggestions ?
Did you consider having a Skype call with the link provided in my previous answer.
He mentored clients over 30 to loose their virginity, That's why I repeat the suggestion.



What about you posting pics of yourself on the forum. You would get feedback and guidance from us.

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Yes I'm serious about it.

And I know killyourinnerloser.com, read Andy's story. My situation is different and I live in Europe.
Would like to met him in person but I'm not doing skype calls.

Maybe I post pictures in the future but for now, no.

hardcore wrote: My situation is different and I live in Europe.
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What does it mean concretely ?

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Hookers don't count anyway.

@OP, besides mindset, not being in a major city is going to make things HARD. It could be your photos for online suck but it could be that they're great and there's hardly any girls in your area.

Are you close enough to a major city you could do weekend trips?

Also what dating sites are you on? Tinder seems to be still pretty popular in Europe. I've heard Hinge hasn't caught on there yet but might be worth a try in case that changed in the last few months.