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I have a question. Technically I am not a virgin anymore but close to it. Since I am becoming more honest, I wonder if it is counter-productive to tell the truth about the inexperience should a girl ask for that. Not saying that I would mention it from my side but if they are asking.
From my limited experience, talking with girls about how experienced/unexperienced you are in the bedroom is counterproductive.
If she doesn't ask, don't say anything about it.
EDIT: Just re-read the question. In the past, when a girl would ask me how many girls I slept with I'd just say "It's not important". If she insisted, I'd ask her to try to guess and would answer "maybe" at all of her answers until we changed subject.
I'm sure there's better ways to handle the question though.
According to my experience in the matter at hand, it's counter-productive to talk about it if you don't know her properly. I did reveal the fact if the girl asked and I felt comfortable with her, and at that point it makes no difference. If it's just a one night stand or whatever, don't tell.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
"I am asking if it is ok to be honest about it with future girls or if I should conceal that fact."
No, you should fix that fact right now. As in, frame it to yourself like this:
"I don't need to worry about telling them, because it's something I'm right in the middle of changing."
Not sure if that's the best way of explaining what I mean, but do you see the distinction I'm trying to make?
You're worrying about something that will not be an issue in 2 or 3 months. It won't even matter after you've slept with 1 or 2 more girls. So don't stress about it too much right now.
If a girl brings it up just tell her the truth. She’ll probably think it’s cute and may be excited about “being your first”. It’s certainly not gonna harm you unless the girl is a total cunt.
Any girl that you’d need to tell this to already likes you, because at this point she’s already back at your place hooking up with you.
She already likes you if she’s at your place.
And like Andy said, this is literally only going to be an issue one or two times. After that you WILL have experience so it doesn’t really matter in the long run, or even the medium run. This is a very short term problem and isn’t a big deal.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
First of : do what you want
Yes it's OK to tell her.
If it's Just about being honest and you feel no problem, or slightly about this then you don't need to worry about that she doesn't need to know
In fact, SHE DOESN'T NEED TO KNOW.
However, if because of your lack of experience, you feel a real hinderance in your interactions with women, then yes, my advice is to be sincere about that.
Not for her, but for you.
If you can not get physical or intimate with any girl because of that, then tell her.
Maybe she'll be mean, it May happen in that case screw her, or she'll probably be nice with your feelings.
It's not about her but you.
Just let it out if you feel like it.
The first girl I fucked it took me around 10 to 20 minutes to say it out loud when it became clear that we both wanted sex.
I made weird facial expressions lol you know I was operating right within the nerve of my shame.
The release. I was free to be me, it was on the table, I was comfortable with myself and spent quite a good time.
Before I slept with her I perceived her a "mature and experienced" and too cool for me girl.
After, what an annoying bitch.
That being said, if you feel no hinderance about any of that, or very few, or feel like you can (honestly) go around that, yes do it. Once you've done it once the burden fades away
The only reason you are still a virgin after being in GLL for more than 4 years is because you are not trying to fucks girls.
I have only fucked one new girl this year, and the only reason for that is because I haven't tried to fuck more girls.
Unless you are fucking disfigured, 100lbs+ overweight or super autist there is no other reason for your virginity.
Make a plan dude, I'll give you the plan I followed to lose my virginity 5 years ago.
1. Dress in your best clothes, put some cologne and go to a bar or nightclub and talk to as many girls as neccesary until one gives you her number.
2. Text her the next day to ask her out, if she agrees she is into you if she disagree repeat step 1.
3. Take her for drinks so both of you relax. After a few drinks start touching her and kiss her.
4. Invite her over to your house (if you don't have a place, take her to the back or your car or invite yourself to her house it doesn't matter if she likes you she will comply), if she agrees escalate as far as she lets you and repeat steps 2 - 4 until you put your penis in her vagina. If she disagrees repeat step 3.
That's it, as simple as that. The most important thing to remember is that sex is the most normal thing, it is in fact a biological urge for both men and women EQUALLY. the only reason you and I and everyone exist is because humans love and crave sex as much as food and shelter. You may have a different opinion on this, I sure did, but then you'll gain experience and realize sex is normal.
How do I know all of this, because I have fucked 10 girls in my life, yeah I'm such a pussy slayer.
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