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I tried before to lose my virginity (see join date), it didn't work out, I got distracted with other things in life, years went by, I will spare you the details and just focus on where I am now.
I'm 5'7, 29 years old, 25% bodyfat. I'm living away from my parents for the first time in a big city (Toronto) until next year when I will have to move back home. Staying here for a year long work/coop term. Here's my pof: www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=183224079 Last time I hired a photographer to take pictures and i built a bot which messaged girls for me. I would get some okay looking girls to reply and not much trouble setting up dates, now I can't even get that. I suspect it's a combination of getting older, having slightly worse profile pics and from moving to a bigger city. Currently following a diet/exercise routine to lose weight/bodyfat while maintaining as much strength/muscle as I can. Given my current situation, should I continue to focus on losing the fat before trying to lose my virginity again? I've primarily been focused on online dating. Haven't done any cold approaches in years.
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Pics are absolutely awful.
You're not a bad looking dude but those pics just scream "sad and lonely guy". You could do SO much better. Take some INTERESTING photos of yourself - doing hobbies, at work, with friends, etc. Hell, just go to a bar and take a selfie - that'll be a better photo than what you currently have. The aim is to show that you have a life and are an interesting person. If you don't have much of a life, then just FAKE it for a few photos to get the ball rolling. Post some more pics and we'll keep giving you tips to improve. You'll improve them slowly over time. Lose bodyfat too. Andy / 32yo / Australia
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Lower your standards and stick your dick into anything before you become a Wizard. Try using only the professional photo. 1 pic profiles are not the best but it can work.
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I agree that you're fully capable of losing your virginity now, but it WILL be difficult. That doesn't mean you can't do it, it just means you'll have a ton of go-nowhere conversations and girls flaking before you find one that fucks you.
If you stick with it, you'll get rid of that v card before 2019. But definitely get better pictures, that last one is the only remotely acceptable option, and it's still not good. You also gotta completely overhaul your style. Don't follow the GLL style guides or wear dogtags, they're super outdated and out of fashion. Look at instagram and pinterest for insight. In general don't wear printed T's or flannel or hoodies (flannel is the least-bad, but it's hard to pull off). There are some exceptions, but all of those things look pretty average. Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
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I'm in agreement with the above guys' posts and what BIB states here. One thing: don't spend a lot of money on a new wardrobe. You should be losing weight so rapidly that any thing you buy will be too big in a short while. Go minimalist. Also, if you're in this for life, you'll never be at +20% bodyfat again (preferably, never above 13-15% as that's the highest you'll bulk to). Don't expect those clothes in your new wardrobe to be with you for very long. Your wardrobe (for now) should be some kind of athletic street style with elastic instead of a belt and / or buttons. Temporarily unavailable as I need to focus on other areas of my life. Only focusing on no more than two goals at once. Best of luck to you guys.
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