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27 Year old virgin, thought I'd never lose it. I started wearing more fuckboi attires at clubs and dressing edgier. black v-neck + tight pants with holes in them and just focus on physicality and approaching. Finally happened at a club. You rule man.
Sure. Thanks. Honestly, I don't feel like I made too many changes besides making the conscious effort to pursuit sex and dressing better.
My past experience with women was literally non-existent. I only kissed a girl once, an ugly girl, on a dare.
I think there were a variety of factors that contributed to lack of experience. I was a lover, expected that love is something that naturally would happen. Plus, I was too anxious to ever go out, or hit on girls. Like even in high school, I wouldn't go out with a girl that I was sure was interested in me because I had a crush on someone else. Honestly a lot of my days were in a faze.
I graduated with a crappy job. And a lot of times I told myself "I'll find a girl, but my job is not good enough to find someone". Then I made a change in career, and literally I could not ask for a more perfect opportunity. Making 6 figure salary in a large city, I have the right "environment" set out for me. I actually almost lost it last year but was actually too afraid to pull the trigger. Did everything but sex. This was through tinder.
I would go to clubs and tried to approach girls, but I always found my approach anxiety would get the best of me and that I would have very short conversations. I realized that my path was not working for me, so that's when I did Chris's approach anxiety program. I did 3 weeks of it. I started to see how much of things was based on the girl and how harmless it was to talk to random girls.
I also did a one week bootcamp with Todd V. I saw dramatic improvements in my game through the following:
a) Lecture on style told me how shitty my hair look and I got a decent haircut
b) Bought new clothes to fit in w/ other PUAs
c) Learning proper escalation.
Honestly, one of his best drills was to approach w/out talking. I actually saw awesome results because I have a tendency to shoot myself in the foot when talking. Like girls were putting their hands on my chest I learned how to get physical with girls at clubs in proper doses.
After the bootcamp, I was able to get a make out at a club and grind with a girl. Other nights I had no luck. Finally one night, went with a girl who was sexually available af. Very easy pull. She asks If I'm into guys or girls. I say guys just to fvck with her. She's legit looking for someone for her gay friend, but I think she's hitting on me. We made out with w/in only a few seconds of knowing each other. I lead her to get drinks. She say she needs to leave, but she'll be back. I just figure she abandoned me, so I go back to the dance floor thinking the night is over. I see her again though and we start making out again. She's touching my butt and pulling my shirt. I start grabbing her boobs, massaging her nipples. She says we need to go someplace more private. We talk a bit go back to her place and fuck.
Its weird because going through this whole journey, I'm like "that's really all I had to do" and I didn't think it took much skills. But I don't think I would have been that sexually aggressive a year ago.
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