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So my name is jose I got raped by a male cousin when i was a little kid i repressed the memory for most of my life until i turned 19. Before that point I was afraid of girls/women and never even tried i was a shy kid/guy. I got really fat after highschool and played league of legends eventually by the time i was 23 i got in shape(sorta) fixed my appearance but at 19 i started shaving my head because i knew my hair was falling out so i was already used to being bald. Ive been told im attractive but idk man. now im 26 i had my first gf last year she was as hot as i always wished for my whole life but she was asexual and a bitch we dated for a year i lost all of my practice that i built up and now im back to square fucking 0 again wondering if any women i find attractive will ever find me attractive. Im in college so theyre all at this point like 7-6 years younger than me and i feel like im being rejected due to being bald. I wish i had a friend i could hang out with who could help me but i know thats not happening. ive done so much to fix my life and sadly that was all thanks to gll i say sadly because my life was not going anywhere before finding this website. I know im rambling but i just needed to get this out of me. i feel so powerless. I feel like im better looking and have a better body than most of these faggots who arent getting rejected left and right and the only thing i can attribute it to beside me being a shy pussy is being bald. ive worked so fucking hard to get where i am but i cant fix the bald even if i can fix being a pussy. fuck. someone help me please im sad and dont know what to do and idk
if i wasnt so old i could join a frat and fuck so many of this girls so easily but thats not happening and i refuse on giving up on fucking this sexy college bitches i have this remaining year of school and i want to fuck them before i leave sigh.
Man big ups for going through what you went through as a kid and still, trying, to get past it.
NSA is right in saying you get better help with showing a pic. I have. That being said. Im balding but just got a hair cut while having patches of bald spots in my scalp and really really, TOPIK is the way to go.
Find your hair color and blend it in, not sure if its black or blonde, then spray hair spray on it for it to stick. And itll last a good while. Get the applicator cause it blends it in better.
They have have a bunch of material on hair dealing wuth hair loss. Use it. It helps, man.
"It is better to nut and lose a girl, than to never nut at all."
Im not super photogenic but this is an ok pic. I have a good professional camera but i havent had any free time with school to take any good portrait shots
I should mention i dont plan on doing anything to cover up being bald. Genetics fucked me and life literally fucked me over I'm just pissed off. If anything i would get plastic surgery to look better bald but i am who i am
To be honest, even if you weren't bald you'd still have a lot of areas to improve in. I don't even think that being bald puts you at a disadvantage because you look ok.
Other people can probably give you better advice, but if I were you, I'd ditch the glasses and start hitting the gym asap and not even worry about being bald.
I dont see myself ever losing glasses althought i am getting new ones. I love glasses i think they're sexy in general and i like having them. And im doing good on making my body nicer i actually recently came off my first steroid cycle althought im going for well built athletic not heavy body builder because i like wearing nice button ups and after a certain point the muscle mass starts to look bad to me.
Hate to break it to you, but bald and glasses is not the best criteria to start with. You should 100% definitely get contacts for going out and approaching women. Glasses are not a plus to women even if you are going clean cut with buttonups which i do alot
You definitely have potential. We just need to turn you into a douchebag
Lose glasses, shave beard down to stubble (or slightly longer), get an edgy/sexy shirt (check out the GLL style guides), add some accessories like a necklace and earrings, and get tan, and you'll immediately jump up several points in attraction.
if you haven't already. Be that edgy bad boy. If that's so foreign to you it seems impossible, I felt the same way when I got started (in a different time, I was a nerd... now I'm a bro with nerdy interests and a nerdy well-paying job, big difference). You'll get used to it.
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