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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 01:47 #282187

So I'm 22 and I literally just lost my virginity to a hooker. I wanted to finally get over my hump without having to awkwardly fumble around with a woman I meet online or whatever.

It was a Chinese massage parlor and the girl was pretty cute. Though I had some issues. I did not get any pleasure from her sucking me off or fucking her. Absolutely none. It took a while for me to get hard and when I did I fucked the shit out of her for 5 minutes. As soon as I got bored to change positions, my dick went limp. Everything was good except for my dick.

She sucked me off a billion times, I did not get off. I'm thinking my dick is fucking numb from all the jerking off I've done. It's fucking with my head. What should I do about it?

Anyways I got this part of my life out of the fucking why. I know what a woman's body feels like and what its like to fuck her. Now I want to hit online dating really fucking hard.

I'm going to focus on perfect my profile and getting some good pics. I think it should be inevitable that I'll go on dates.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!

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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 03:27 #282199

blood transfusions maaaaan i got enough shit to worry about now i gotta worry about that too lol

Yo what did you do to get sensitivity back. This chick was sucking me off and wanking me off to no end. I fucked her hard too and still I felt NO pleasure doing so at all. It felt like a fucking chore . You ever went through that dude?

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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 05:15 #282205

Considering you were with a lady of the evening, I'm assuming you had a rubber on for the entire event. Intercourse and suckey suckey.

The aforementioned rubber could've played a part in your erectile difficulties.

As beneficial as condoms are, man they can be a boner killer.
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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 09:32 #282207

Sounds about normal for one's first time. Maybe it's in fact a good thing that you did it with a hooker since the second time will probably be better. I didn't even get hard on my first time.
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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 16:09 #282218

You probably kept losing your boner because there was no real emotional investment in this chick. You paid money to have sex and so it was strictly business....not very stimulating imo

But now it's out of the way you can focus on improving yourself and taking steps everyday to become a better man
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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 15 Apr 2017 21:46 #282234

Hey man,
I went through exactly the same thing. The first time I had sex, it felt like shit. I could barely feel anything, to the point I wouldn't even notice when my dick would slip out, and I kept losing my boner.
What worked for me was to cut off completely (as much as I can) porn and fapping. Also, getting a condom that isn't too tight and foreplay helps.
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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 16 Apr 2017 05:56 #282250

Thanks. You guys are fucking awesome.

Yeah I was researching this and there's a whole bunch of people going through this death grip. I'm going to abstain from jerking off for a month. Which is going to be painful, but I can't wait to fuck the shit out of a girl and actually have fun doing it.

And yes Jaded Zombie, the condom made it horrible. She kept switching condoms it was fucking annoying.

But yeah I'll focus on online dating now. I tried it before but my pictures sucked, so I'll up the effort this time and finally fuck a girl for real. B)

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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 16 Apr 2017 08:22 #282254

Hi bro

Fair play for loosing it to a hooker the first is way overrated.

In terms of not feeling anything give up masturbation! it took me 60 days before the sensitivity was fully returned.
It also could be lack of experience and lack of connection but hitting the online dating will sort that out.
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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 13 May 2017 05:24 #283762

That's normal and common for a lot of beginners

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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 22 May 2017 21:32 #284287

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I did about the same a year and a half ago. It was terrible. I had an existential crisis and I thought: "Is this what I've been chasing for all this time?".
Emotional investment is very important, indeed. That's the conclusion I've gotten after banging about 6 whores, so it's my next milestone - to fuck a girl I care about.
What a funny coincidence that I have now been 20 days without cumming and I am so horny that I have edged all day. I almost decided to order a hooker to my place but luckily my roommate is home so I save my hundred for now.

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lost my v to a hooker...thoughts? 23 May 2017 16:07 #284337

It's already done. Can't do anything about it now.

I mean it would've been nice to lose it normally but mine wasn't any better and to be 100% completely honest without sharing the details of losing my V card, I wish I did it with a hooker.

Move on, don't talk about it and start approaching to get what you want.

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