TOPIC: Help me lose my virginity... pls?

Hey Guys!
I can’t see my last posts anymore so I’m gonna give you an update on what happened during summer.
After Date #9 I was still dating girls when I met a fat girl on POF. Well I wasn’t particularly happy with her because she was a fatty, ugly and had bad breath. But hey! I was in bed with her tough I couldn’t keep an erection I got her an orgasm with my fingers.
After that I was pretty ashamed of myself because well… fatty… you know… and that I couldn’t keep an erection. But I was in bed with a girl! SO CLOSE!

After that I went on vacation to Hungary with my friends. I don’t know why but I somehow found myself in a strip club. Well to make it short I think I kinda banged one of the hookers there? I’m not sure because it was dark and I was a bit drunk and I didn’t feel any pleasure. So I’m not sure if I really lost my v-card or not. Regardless of that I did a lot of approaching there I’m still in contact with a girl form Hungary and maybe I can invite her to Austria. We’ll see about that.

The really cool news is that today I got a second date! The second date with No. 9 “V”.
We met in the city and went for Ice Cream. We talked about our vacation and so on. I tried to touch her as much as possible. (arms, shoulder hands). When I took her hand to long she explained she is not sure about us and what she is looking for. I didn’t take it bad and said its ok. I touched her after that again trough the evening. She said she doesn’t know what she wants and she has bad experiences with her male choices. I just told her its ok and just let’s have fun.
It was a nice evening and when we parted. We hugged and I ponied up and went for the kiss! She became quite red and smiled and giggled a bit. Then I had to get my public transport. We may meet again during the next month.

My plans for the future will include approaching some girls in my evening college. I want to keep dating and I also want to date less desirable girls. I would be happy to find average slim girls but I somehow manage only to get fatties really going after me. xD

Any recommendations or feedback for me?

Wow it's been a long time since the last time I wrote here. A lot happened in the meantime and I think you guys deserve to know all of this. First things first: I AM NOT A VIRGIN ANYMORE! YES!

In the beginning of 2017 I met this girl on Tinder and we met up. She was really interested in me and well… we became a couple and had sex multiple times. It was a beautiful time and for the first time in my life I enjoyed being me and loving my live. Sadly, she broke up with me last summer. Its still hard to recover because I had deep feelings for her, but I guess its normal that your first never stays to be your only.

Well recently I am recovering from all that. My question now is what to do next? What would you guys recommend me to do? AA-Programm? Online-Dating?

I know that I have to go out there and meet women, but I don’t know how to proceed. Yesterday I had my third date since the relationship ended but it seems that was a deadshot.

Even if no one responds I just wanted to let all the virgins here know that it is possible. Sex is no miracle and not something world breaking.
Just do the things Chris has laid out on this website and you’ll be fine. Thanks again for this Chris, you really changed my life.

Congrats on losing your virginity.

There's general advice we can give you, such as max out your looks, approach program, and do more online dating (you should do all of them at the same time). What exactly do you want though? Your goal was to lose your virginity; you've accomplished that. What's your new #1 goal? Be as specific as possible.

Hmmm, I guess my new goals would be:

- get ripped (plan on going to gym again)
- better pics for Online-Dating
- sleep with 10 girls
- one Asian girl in my life and maybe a Milf

Guess that would break down my sex life goals for now. I don't really need high digits I favor quality over quantity.
Is that a start?

so you were 26 when you lost it? if so, congrats!