TOPIC: Need to lose my real virginity. Help!

I appreciate your post Gaston

But, I must say after fucking 100s of prostitutes around 400 or so I don’t think I ever want to remain committed with just 3 fuck-buddies. I could do with a combination of one night stands, fuck-buddies, and harems. I might have to travel to Asia if I somehow fail to achieve my goal. My goal is to have sex with at least 100 non-hookers. So in any event none of the paid sex counts, but the non-paid would count and be thought of as “put in validated work” for the 100 or so. I wasted 10 years of my life from age 19 to 29, paying for sex because I thought it would have helped me sexually in the bedroom, which I think it probably has, but my game is still weak that needs fixing. But regardless, I kind of agree that I suppose I’m not a virgin, just a virgin to non-paid sex.

I can understand how you could not enjoy a paid prostitute, because it was only 1 and probably mechanical at best. If you had 400 or so encounters it might be different - the variation and all. Perhaps people are wired differently I don't know. It’s the same thing with me saying non-paid sex sucks if I only had 1 lousy one (0 currently at the moment), but I can theorize and understand that some non-paid sex as well could suck or be phenomenal, and I would not knock it from one bad experience. That’s why if I have many non-paid sexual conquests I can be an expert in both the game world and prostitution world, and have a large enough sample size to make comparisons.

Having said all that, I don’t think my sexual experience sucks but I just have extreme views and extreme self-esteem issues that I need to work on. I agree with you.

I’ll do my best with both online and real life. A few things about my sexual experience first: I’ve cum in escorts without condoms, their mouths, pussies, asses, facials, cumming on tits, ass, etc. Squirting, maybe they faked it but it seemed real for many of them I paid to try that on. So you see having all those experiences, I will certainly sure as fuck will not say “sex is overrated” if my first unpaid bang happens to suck. I will also agree that one can have apocalyptic mind-blowing next-level experiences fucking their fuck-buddies, girlfriends, harems or whatever + having a deeply emotional bond to enhance the physicality (even though I’ve never had any of those). Although, honestly I’ve always been more about the physical than anything, even though sex is mental. If anything “sex is underrated” and I need to fuck a woman for free this year. Like I mentioned, a 4 or above will do. So I’ll keep miserably failing in the meantime while my virgin penis tries to fuck a woman for free.

Gaston wrote: And stop saying that you are a virgin, cause you are not. With that attitude you'll never score!

See:
www.dictionary.com/browse/virgin

noun
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.

So you had sexual intercourse. YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN

I was overly confident, and figured I’d seal the deal that week and didn’t want to feel “needy”. But no response, nothing.

Forget that about being needy. When she likes you, you are not needy. You can call her anytime you want. What you have to avoid is being a total idiot that gets mad when she doesn't reply the messages.

The thing is I did not get mad when she didn’t reply. I said fuck it, there are millions+ of bleeding holes out there available maybe 1 will fuck me due to my dysgenic aura at some point in terrestrial relative time. It’s that bad in terms of no woman wanting to fuck me. Am I that much of a dysgenic failure to the human species? I wonder if it’s because I’m doing a half-ass job with all of this. I never gave a damn about the chase so that probably all has to do with it, but I realize it’s necessary in order to prove to the world and your warrior self that you fuck women for free and can beat your chest triumphantly afterwards like a maniac. I want that validated gorilla chest beating feeling because I sure as fuck feel like a dysgenic creature when I can’t get my dick wet for free.

The thing, the secret about fucking not prostitutes women is simple. You need two willing persons. So, it doesn't depend on you, it depends on the women you chose. When a girl likes you, she will fuck with you, it doesn't matter if you have a problem or two.

That's what Chris always says, its a numbers game. Even tough my body is not really muscular (I'm skinny) I have managed to fuck two women because I was attractive enough (I guess). And I could fuck another two or three more maybe, but I wasn't really interested or I didn't have time.

After having great sex with one of these women I mentioned, I have changed my mind about wanting to fuck 100's. She lives pretty far from where I live, and I see her each two or three months. But the thing is that I didn't really want to fuck a lot of women, I just wanted to feel wanted. Like a hard proof that I'm not a genetic failure destined to never have the right to engange in sex and reproduction. It's not that I don't want to fuck a lot of pretty women, but that was the main problem. Also I was looking for validation, not only sex.

I'm not saying that you will think the same way as I do after fucking a girl, but consider that your thinking might change. So, for now, focus only in having sex with one chick. It's great that you're lowering the standards. For example this girl I mention is 6 or 7 / 10, but I really enjoy fucking her. Its not all about the looks, like Chris says.
Focus in getting the first chick, online, in real life, whatever. Get one. Try it, get experience, try to fuck her regularly if you can / want. Then you'll see what's next.

For me, it was enough. My head is clean about wanting desperately to fuck and test myself, and I can do other things that now I consider more important. Also I'm confident that if I have the chances, I'll do a fine job trying to fuck a girl, so that's another relief.

Your experience fucking escorts sure counts. You know that you wont have erection problems or anything. You'll be more calm fucking a girl than if you were a virgin.

You offer some great advice Gaston when I read more.

I don’t see the point in fucking one woman regularly if I fucked 100s of prostitutes so many different ways. Once I get my one night stand I will transition into non-paid BDSM domination (me being the dominant one obviously) which I have experienced with prostitutes.

That’s fine but my goal still stands with at least 100 non-prostitute women + non-paid BDSM partners + swinging women - any additional fuck buddies or whatever is just a added bonus but I might get sick of the drama. I’ll be fine with that. But let’s just start with one woman and then I can go from there once I’m done with her.

Before all of this when I was still a genuine virgin in all senses of the word, I wanted to fuck 1000s of women, now if they happen to be mostly paid, and decent chunk unpaid I’m fine with that. What I’m not fine with is if they’re all paid. That’s what I’m not fine with. But in grade school I wanted 1000s and still do want 1000s and I will achieve this goal of mine.

BDSM is what extremely interests me in the moment besides doing this with some prostitutes. In Germany, you can to act out all these wildest fantasies on them if you pay the right price.

I’m not knocking you, but some guys are fine not wanting extreme validation. But congratulations for feeling content and satisfied.

Obviously, no one has been responding to my thread and realizes I am not a virgin. I guess that’s it, don’t help me on this forum. I’m out of here and will probably just hire a guru, thousands of dollars out of my pocket to take care of this nightmare.

I 100% agree most people should be dark triad and not help others such as myself. That’s the way the world works, should work, and has always worked. Suffering endured.

Congratulations. Just proves I am dysgenic and inferior. Well done, well done.

Help the truly desperate, as you can see my life is going down on a downwards spiral and will just keep getting worse. But who gives a fuck in the grand scheme of things. Help out some other crippled soul.

Lycanthrope wrote: Obviously, no one has been responding to my thread and realizes I am not a virgin. I guess that’s it, don’t help me on this forum. I’m out of here and will probably just hire a guru, thousands of dollars out of my pocket to take care of this nightmare.

I 100% agree most people should be dark triad and not help others such as myself. That’s the way the world works, should work, and has always worked. Suffering endured.

Congratulations. Just proves I am dysgenic and inferior. Well done, well done.

Help the truly desperate, as you can see my life is going down on a downwards spiral and will just keep getting worse. But who gives a fuck in the grand scheme of things. Help out some other crippled soul.

Stop being an emo. I don't know your case, but I don't think you need a guru. Get a 6-7/10 chick from anywere, fuck her, and then you'll continue your chase. Remember, baby steps. You can't fuck 1000 if you didn't fuck the first.

I don’t see the point in fucking one woman regularly

I prefer to fuck women regularly than once. You should try and see what happens. It's nice to semi-love somebody and care about her, when at the same time you fuck her brains out. But that's experience and personal taste, and you will decide for yourself.

All that I'm saying is that you should aim for one girl, fuck her, that is, a doable goal, right? After you're done with that, try fucking the second, and go on from there. In the meantime keep fucking the first girl if you can, because its cool and its free.

If you set your goals too high you'll feel bad because it's not so easy to be done in one step.

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Lycanthrope wrote: Obviously, no one has been responding to my thread and realizes I am not a virgin. I guess that’s it, don’t help me on this forum. I’m out of here and will probably just hire a guru, thousands of dollars out of my pocket to take care of this nightmare.

I 100% agree most people should be dark triad and not help others such as myself. That’s the way the world works, should work, and has always worked. Suffering endured.

Congratulations. Just proves I am dysgenic and inferior. Well done, well done.

Help the truly desperate, as you can see my life is going down on a downwards spiral and will just keep getting worse. But who gives a fuck in the grand scheme of things. Help out some other crippled soul.

Hey man, I didn't read this thread but if your actually thinking of hiring someone hit me up, the guys I work with see results. Just give me a call and we can go over your situation, what you want to do, and if I can help you etc...

Update everyone.

I am working out at the gym feeling better. I am thinking of donating at least a year to get down to a six-pack in order to fuck my 4. I think this should help because right now I need everything that helps since I am quite sexually inexperienced and need confidence. I wish I just had some sexual experience to all this though. After that I will hire a guru.

Does anyone think I am sexually inexperienced? I am really considering of paying a guru to get this job done.