TOPIC: Need to lose my real virginity. Help!

I mentioned in the introduction that I've been whores. Truth is, I’ve fucked well over 100 prostitutes, but am finally ready to lose my virginity to a real girl. I’m scared when it comes to actual sex with real women. I think this could be much different and life altering? What do you suggest I do I’m 29, and expect to lose my actual virginity by this year. I need help I’ve been around the world, but can’t seem to bang women without paying. My cock size is not small either. It’s a little above average 7.2 x 5.8. I wonder how much different the sex will be with an actual real woman.

Welcome to GLL.

That's a lot of whores. Some of the 'end game experience' will come in handy.

7.2 x 5.8 is basically what I am and you'll be considered hung by most women (certainly non-hookers)

Just do this -
www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/...ch-the-next-365-days

Welcome man. You've certainly have some experience under the sheets tho, so that's good.

How's your appearance/style?- could or use any updating

I like to wear nice v-neck shirts in terms of my style with black jeans, not a skinny fit though. My shoes, could use some updating. They are nice, but I’d prefer boots like chelsea or so. I’m thinking of rocking a leather jacket with a v-neck, and wearing some boots in my style - I like that look. Lately, I’ve been wearing lots of flannel. I know they’re “in” this time of year, but not everyone recommends them I guess. My appearance is as follows: My hair is roughly neck length, very short beard. If it matters, I am also white. I am 5’10 weigh 165 lbs., and have around 10-13% bf I’d say. I’m working on getting a 6 pack in the meantime. I have your ‘how to get laid in 5 weeks guide’, but haven’t read it yet.

post pictures --- censor out your face if you want

There is no "real" virginity. You already fucked girls. You just gotta prove to yourself that you can pick up a girl.

It's not that hard, you just gotta find one that you like and that she likes you too. And have some money to pay for the logistics. And you seem to have money.

Keep looking.

Firstly, I have not fucked girls or “real girls” for that matter. These were whores. A girl is someone you seduce for free or a girl that wants to fuck you for free. Any payment and this does not count regardless of what happens in the situation.

Secondly, some of you will go on to seduce 100s to even 1000s of hot girls, whereas others like myself will have failed to even reach this superior seduction status (S.S.S.)

Lastly, my goal and only goal in life is not to have an underachieving sex life. That’s why I’m here. I want to master the skill of one night stands.

Yes, I realize I need to chill but when you haven’t banged a “real girl” at this point in your life you start to feel inferior.

Other than my rant, you can see why I’d rather have 1 seduction than the 100s of whores I’ve fucked.

Yes, I only care about validation.

In the meantime, I’ve been working out to get my mind off of all this.

post pictures of yourself, we'll tell you where to go from there.

lets get this handled

I have not yet put together another online dating profile, but I will. I feel like my life has been one giant waste Chris. Here I am at the end of my 20s and have never seduced a woman. Yeah, the decade of my last life was strange I fucked 100s of whores - escorts and in brothels. Some were squirters or at least pretended to be, and experienced all different types of sex with over 50 different ethnic nationalities, but I knew this wasn’t real so to speak and was all a farce. i just wish I could have seduced 100 women from the age of 19 to 29, which would have been a realistic goal of only 10 a year. But I guess that’s what happens when you have no genuine confidence and strategic game (logistics come to mind, which mine suck at the moment). I suppose things could be much worse, being disabled, paralyzed, missing limbs etc. I had opportunities when I was younger, but I would always think how much of a failure I’d be in bed because I had no sex experience so I figured just paying for experience would help me in the long term.

Nowadays, I’m not as shy towards that aspect but my social interactions are what messes everything up. I’ll add as a sidetone, that I’ve hardly done that many approaches maybe a total of 10. The most I’ve been able to do within the last 7 months going on 8, is have a total of 3 make outs with women ranging from 6.5 to 7s just from being at the right place, at the right time mostly venues. One of the girls, last November I thought this was going to be it, the “real finale.” I was overly confident, and figured I’d seal the deal that week and didn’t want to feel “needy”. But no response, nothing. It got me back to one of your article’s in that some women will makeout with you, give you their number and have absolutely no intentions of meeting up again. I guess this is why screening and going for lightning fast One Night Stands are the most realistic long-term option, once you have enough experience banging regular women from Online Dating sites or so. I’ve never had any sort of success online just from being out. I somehow can’t enjoy socially typing on a phone or computer, but I guess that’s the most realistic option at this point. Just so you know the most action I ever got besides paying was fingering a girl 5 years ago who was a 7 in my books in the jacuzzi, but I thought about putting my penis in her but she didn’t let me. So that is the most action I have ever gotten is just fingering.

So I have a plan of action I’m going to be doing this week:

1. Get a haircut

2. Get a new job, I’ve been laid off for about a year

3. Get back to the gym. I’m currently 160 lbs at 13-14% body fat, but figured I could slim down some to about 12-10%. I heard excellent for my age is 12.8% so that should be another goal. I am a 32” waist size. I don’t feel massively obese, but feel I could get more cut and athletic.

4. Approach more and put together / work on my Online Dating Profile (as much as I dislike online dating) that Rooster provided.

Got my haircut, I’ve been implementing online dating, and approaches. Most of the approaches I’ve frightened girls off, but that’s okay in the meantime. The online dating is still going to shit, but I think I’ll just massively harass tons of women in order to get that golden notch.

Well, I ended up doing some cocaine with some girls and ended up fingering one of them while the other one jacked me off. I still haven’t gotten laid yet. They were visiting so I doubt I’ll see them again. Still a virgin, hope to have that changed by the end of the year. I will fuck a “4” if I do not get laid for free before I am 30.

As a side note, this forum has some great resources to get your cock bigger etc.

Lycanthrope wrote: Firstly, I have not fucked girls or “real girls” for that matter. These were whores. A girl is someone you seduce for free or a girl that wants to fuck you for free. Any payment and this does not count regardless of what happens in the situation.

Secondly, some of you will go on to seduce 100s to even 1000s of hot girls, whereas others like myself will have failed to even reach this superior seduction status (S.S.S.)

Lastly, my goal and only goal in life is not to have an underachieving sex life. That’s why I’m here. I want to master the skill of one night stands.

Yes, I realize I need to chill but when you haven’t banged a “real girl” at this point in your life you start to feel inferior.

Other than my rant, you can see why I’d rather have 1 seduction than the 100s of whores I’ve fucked.

Yes, I only care about validation.

In the meantime, I’ve been working out to get my mind off of all this.

Sorry it took so long for me to answer.

First, I was there and I know how you feel. You are right.
But what I'm trying to say is that whether you paid for sex or not, you still had sex. And that helps. It would be worse if you never seen a vagina in your life and go for the first, you'll feel more insecure.

So, yeah, you gotta fix this until you can go on with your life. I'll tell you that after having a lot of sex with the same girl I'm almost satisfied. I don't want to look elsewhere, in other words, I don't want to be the master of one night stands that I wished before. I had a one night stand once, and liked it, of course, at the time. But she wasn't very loving... She left the next day, and I ended not liking it....
Fuckbuddies are awesome. If I had 3 to fuck whenever I want, I would feel sexually complete. That, and the ability to talk to any woman I want in the street in order to potentially fuck her. I don't want more.

Go ahead, don't bother in improving too much, rather increase your chances by meeting girls, in real life or internet (internet can be frustrating, so do cold approach). Like I said, its not difficult, you gotta find one that already likes you as you are.

And stop saying that you are a virgin, cause you are not. With that attitude you'll never score!

See:
www.dictionary.com/browse/virgin
So you had sexual intercourse. YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN

I was overly confident, and figured I’d seal the deal that week and didn’t want to feel “needy”. But no response, nothing.

Forget that about being needy. When she likes you, you are not needy. You can call her anytime you want. What you have to avoid is being a total idiot that gets mad when she doesn't reply the messages.