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sometimes there is so much negativity in our life, at a point where we don't know anymore who we should blame the most, women for being so picky and attention whore or just life for being unfair to some people but very generous with others.
Talking about women, if they've become that way , it is because we men giving them the attention they don't deserve, there are so so many needy men out there who are pushing the ego of those spoiled insta women;
i can understand the frustration of many men especially those living in USA, i used to live in conservatif country than moved to more westernized countries .the more developped the country is , the more do women have a bad attitude;
i never saw that much hate against women neither did feminism caught my attention in my early years of life until i saw what is happening in the society.
it is going to be worser in the next decades ....
sorry for my english
Seems like he's already been brainwashed by some fucked up people/sites.
You would walk away if some woman was being raped??? That's some sick shit, good luck with the rest of your shitty life. I think prison might be an appropriate place for you to live.. Since you have nothing to offer to society and all that.
1# Get a hot girlfriend
- Get to 150 lbs
- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
- go on 1 date (done)
- get a regular sleeping schedule
- actually try and get with a girl (done)
- start TRT ( done)
Any guy who thinks feminism is a big problem and they're going to get attacked for hitting on girls is basing their opinion on shit they saw on the internet (see above), not real world experiences.
Get off of red pill and news sites and go out there and talk to girls. In doing the AA program I talked to 1000+ girls and gave overtly sexual compliments to 200+ girls.
Not one single time did I ever get a reaction like that. Not. One. Single. Time.
It's not feminism's fault you developed self esteem issues and can't talk to girls. And even if you somehow destroyed feminism forever, it wouldn't get rid of those issues. This is all such inauthentic bullshit. You don't hate women. You hate yourself.
MEN will betray every belief, memory and moral code as soon as some slut smiles at them. I've seen that happen with the few friends I've had and I never want to become that.
I was hoping this thread would inspire some guys who were really struggling with all this like I was. I made this thread so that the guys who are having major difficulties with 'gaining momentum' could find inspiration here and then TAKE ACTION!
In a flight on an airplane there are 2 very scary and relatively more dangerous phases - take-off and landing. In my opinion approaching is like take-off and finally trying to close is like landing. For a beginner it can be hard as FUCK.
Hard as fuck, for some maybe the most challenging thing you have done in life so far.
When I was 24 years old I genuinely though I was genetic garbage, trash that repulses all women and I would wallow in self-pity and disgust on a daily basis (I'm guessing in a state not too dissimilar to Deltsbrah).
it was a HERCULEAN struggle but I lost my virginity and gained a 1.5 year long relationship for my efforts.
I learned that approaching gives you feedback from reality. Most girls (all up to the point of that day I lost my v-card minus the crazy milf who would have fucked me but whom I ultimately rejected) rejected me and so there was some truth to the fact I was a '4' to most girls and not attractive enough to have sex with.
But you know what? I changed. I strived to become the best I could without holding back. This is what Good Looking Loser is all about and ultimately the reason my life changed forever.
MAJOR UPDATE: When my relationship failed at the start of the year, I decided to embark on my 'player' journey and achieve what I always believed to be the impossible. I am proud to say that after an extreme level of efforts I managed to bang 2 girls from cold approach and a further 11 from online dating - 1 more bang than I aimed for.
I dubbed it the Golden Eagle Project.
It was a lame reference to the movie 'The Eagle' with Channing Tatum where he plays a Roman general who dares to cross Hadrian's wall to retrieve his father's trophy from the blood-thirsty picts. I sought to retrieve my dignity. To bang every girl I should have banged in my late-teens and early twenties. Of course if I had been a 'normal' guy I would never have banged more than 4-5 girls anyway.
I took insane measures to become as attractive as I could including EAR SURGERY AND A HEAD TATTOO! Do I have any regrets???
Nope. Not one. TEN of my lays came after I had got both of those 'surgeries' done and I have never felt so confident about how I look.
Deltsbrah and anyone else who wants to lose their virginity but is struggling for whatever reason
I want to see stories here of success (or your own thread whatever). I want to see how my story (which was not easy to tell or broadcast on the internet by the way) inspired you to change. Take action! If you give up or want to make excuses don't post it on this thread.
@Deltsbrah I'm not having a dig at you mate, I believe I can genuinely relate to your mindset and I want you to be free from this pain and suffering.
One more thing
I hate western women. I don't game or try to get laid in English-speaking countries. In fact I only lost my v when I decided to pull the trigger and travel to Central Europe. Sometimes it takes desperate measures but hey ho it worked! My travels this year have taken me to Poland, Ukraine, Belarus, Czech Republic, Hungary, and Brazil. The girls in all of these places smoke girls from the UK/USA in every way but that is just my opinion
@Bastard - you are THE most motivating story in the journey of pick-up.
I am frustrated as FUCK. I don't think my obstacle are greater than yours, just different, and I have to seek my own path.
I don't have problem getting laid. But this year 2016 I was beset with with one health problem after another that shattered my confidence. Even then, they are just excuses.
You are the ONLY guy who did not make any excuses. You went balls out. Plastic surgery, moved to another part of the world. Giving up income.
I am still holding onto my precious high income, stressful, job which is probably a cause of my healthy problem . I keep getting distracted and side tracked. I fell "in love" with a girl that did not even live in my country and lost months staying in touch with her and visiting her. No regrets though, it was a lovely experience. But it does point to how I could not stay laser focused on my primary goal.
Anyway you put rest of us to shame.
Not that I don't respect rest of the successful guys here, but I always thought they are more a by-product of natural selection rather than deliberate effort. Chris always said GLL is meant to screen out the geeks. Well, it's the geeks that needs the most help.
Life is too short. I just saw a Japanese horror film of a middle aged psycho serial killer. This guy sit in front of the TV in his underwear eating carry out food every night. The guys who don't put in the effort to handle their social and sex life now risk going down that path. I know non of them will do anything horrible, but it is that loneliness, that lack of intimacy that drives a man to hate the world so much.
I'm sorry to hear about your health problems. Sounds like having a period of being in love was not a waste of time at all but maybe something you needed and something you will always remember as a positive experience. Are your health problems getting better?
It is easy to forget just how dark our thoughts can be when we get stuck (especially long term) in a bad mindset which makes success with women impossible (and has a negative feedback loop effect making you even less attractive because of the vibe of hostility we inevitably might be giving off). Sometimes it takes a miracle to break out of that black heart of darkness.
GLL may screen out the geeks if they are true trolls with no motivation to improve themselves whatsoever but even the most hopeless men could benefit if he applies himself. For a guy who is short and less than average looking to begin with, getting girls consistently could be as difficult as learning a language in terms of time and effort and he must find the self-believe out of nowhere to begin with until he gets some positive experiences. I guess that is why the AA program is so successful.
Right now I still struggle tremendously with girls, I need to approach 500 girls to get a day-game bang and the girls I bang from tinder average a 6 typically. But there is this myth that getting lots of pussy doesn't make a man happy. It certainly DOES make you happy. It made me very happy - considerably happier than I ever was before and it stems from the knowledge that everything I did, I did it myself and took what was mine.
@Bastard agree with SmoothOperator that you're one of the best inspirations for me on this site. Pretty much ready all of your Golden Eagle project and was great to see the hard work behind the success!
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