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Deltsbrah wrote: So u were a virgin bodybuilder before you found GLL? lol I read a bit through your journal sure doesn't seem that way..
I'm honestly curious to know what motivated you to change...
pain motivated me to change. One night I just started crying and felt so fucking bad about myself that I had to do something. I believe it was one of the worst emotions I've ever felt and I knew I had to do something. That night I called the only girl I had ever "dated" years before. The next day I went out and did approaches. I was so scared shitless, my heart was pounding and I could barely form a sentence but I did it. Despite making a fool out of myself it was still better than laying in bed at home crying. This was actually before I found GLL, but then I started looking for advice on how to pick up girls and stumbled upon Chris' videos.
It's a curious thing, pain. It can either make you run away or fight it.
And yeah... I know about the abs (sigh). I was actually in decent shape when I did the AA program which I think might've increased my results (see attach.). I was 80kg then. I'm much bigger now at 98 kg but nowhere near as shredd. I plan on getting the most ripped I've ever been for next summer, and that will be my ultimate attempt at becoming good at this getting laid stuff.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Im a loser just like you but the thing is im really motivated to change.
I can tell from my experience what made me actually want to change.
The biggest deal is actual desire to get girls, like i really want to fuck hot girls and i cant resist anymore... its not about because its cool to have a hot girlfriend so you can shot off or something ... i just wanna touch a hot girl, lick her... fuck her and all that good stuff.
I think SEXUAL DESIRE is the biggest motivator.
High sex drive = endless motivation
This all started happening when i stopped fapping and watching porn.... you really do change A LOT. I used to play video games and have those nerdy friends, i ditched them all and now i got other friends that includes cool guys that go to gym have girlfriends and good life... but unfortunately i dont know a single "player" guy that i could stick around with and learn from him.
And if your life is too much like a routine, Gym > work > sleep > eat > internet forums > repeat... it can also fuck you up, because you dont have any big problems and it can fuck you up. Because you kinda want to change, but the reason you are not doing anything is because you have everything to survive and are what Chris said "too comfortable" with your life.
This post is golden and changed me so much, i watched this like 5 times at least
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