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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 19 Jun 2015 16:35 #209682

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I don't have any experience with girls, never kissed, never held hand etc...
I did go to a couple of hookers so I have kissed and fucked girls, I'm just a virgin in terms of doing it the right way with normal girls.

From reading the lose your virginity series, Chris says to take it slow and go on several dates before you make moves. Kiss on second date, fuck on 5th date etc...

I know this is just a template and shouldn't be followed to the letter but since I'm not technically a virgin do you think I should do the whole kino thing and kiss on first date or should I follow Chris' advice?

What about things I should do, shouldn't do? Any advice?
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- Get to 150 lbs
- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 19 Jun 2015 18:00 #209694

Well, your not 'technically' a virgin if you have been with some hookers, you know what a pussy looks like, feels like, etc, so that's not a mystery to you. :)

My advice, really is to try to have no expectations, just try to be loose and be yourself, don't try to analyze the date as it happens, things she says and does, nor try to manipulate any of that either.

What's your date choice, something fun? If so, just have fun, as if she was a buddy, if the moment comes where you can touch, go for it, if it doesn't, don't worry about it. If you try to fumble through kino and kissing on the first date, while anxious about the date overall, you may not get the second date.

Really, the take it slow approach I'd advise, not sure how old you are, but you got time brother, so enjoy it!
2015:

1 - 23 year old, one night stand from bar
1 - Gym buddy lay
7 - Lays from online dates, (4 First date lays, and them some repeated lays after)
1 - Night club long game
1 - 24 year old met through mutual friend

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 19 Jun 2015 18:17 #209696

Just be natural dude. PUAs would tell you a bunch of shit you need to do and say. Get some physical escalation in there and just be yourself. Like Chris says a lot, it's not a matter of what you say but what you look like and how much you touch her.

Just don't stress too much, she's probably more nervous than you.
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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 21 Jun 2015 20:43 #209927

If you're in any sort of doubt, just do the programme as it's set out. I realize that you're in a different situation from guys who actually are virgins, but the programme is designed so that it works for everyone. You'll end up wasting more time wondering about which corners you can cut here and there thanks to your experience than you will if you just follow the instructions as if you've never had sex before.

Chris knows what he's talking about, and if you start messing around with his programme - even for perfectly valid reasons, like the fact that you're not actually a virgin, then you no longer have the guarantee of success that you'll have if you do exactly as he says.

I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, and I'm certainly not lacking in sexual experience by this point, but I'm considering following the 'Lose Your Virginity' instructions if I ever break up with her just to get some more experience getting together with girls the normal way.

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 21 Jun 2015 21:30 #209931

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Hey Stevie, what are some of your expectations for tonight? If you wanna get laid show it from the start, but cause you're on date just keep escalating, push throught it, you never know what can happen!

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 28 Jun 2015 22:53 #210898

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I went today since she cancelled last week. I don't know how I did it but it went pretty well. I took kratom before I went and I think that helped a lot, I barely had any anxiety. Usually I'm a nervous wreck.
She seemed really into me. She wasn't the hottest girl though, about a 6.

We met in front of MCdonalds, went to a bar to get a drink. At first I was really unsure. she seemed kinda mad, I thought maybe she thought I was ugly or crazy or something but I pushed trough. After a while she started opening up a bit, sharing more about herself etc...
There were a lot of pauses but I didn't really feel awkward about it. She did most of the talking, I just basically asked the questions. She started asking me stuff herself once I ran out of ideas. I did try building some rapport and that went pretty good as well. I was pretty chill throughout the whole interaction.

After like 10 mins I started getting a boner which lasted almost throughout the whole date, no idea how this happened, I guess I was horny because I felt like I had a chance. At this point I actually wanted to touch her.

We were sitting in front of each other and her hands were far away so I couldn't try anything. I eventually came to sit next to her. After a while I asked her to give me her hand, she did and we held hands for a bit.

Once we parted ways I kissed her on the cheek, she looked me in the eye as if she wanted more but I pussied out. I was way to tired to try something at that moment.

I'm definitely going to try and lay this girl, she seems like a sure thing. Hopefully I can get her to be my FB.
1# Get a hot girlfriend

- Get to 150 lbs
- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
- go on 1 date (done)
- get a regular sleeping schedule
- actually try and get with a girl (done)
- start TRT ( done)

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 02 Jul 2015 02:23 #211322

well done bro

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 02 Jul 2015 20:06 #211428

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Rooster wrote: well done bro


thanks man



Where should I plan the second date? I don't feel like I still have much to say to this girl, I just wanna try and kiss her and then fuck her on the 3rd date.
Should I take her on a walk somewhere or go to the movies?
1# Get a hot girlfriend

- Get to 150 lbs
- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
- go on 1 date (done)
- get a regular sleeping schedule
- actually try and get with a girl (done)
- start TRT ( done)

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 03 Jul 2015 00:17 #211461

Do you have somewhere to eventually take the girl to fuck?
Ideally for a second date a go-to option is at your place to 'watch a movie'. That way it gives you an easier option to escalate since you both should be cuddled up on the couch
So you could do this, or do something first with the plan later on to watch a movie or have a drink at your/her place.

Since you you're a bit newer at this, it's cool if you take it a bit slower and just have fun with it without a plan to get in her pants asap. Like go to a beach, lake, walk somewhere, or a cool drink, etc. Also - flirt, be playful and go for the kiss if you can.

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 03 Jul 2015 13:29 #211555

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Rooster wrote: Do you have somewhere to eventually take the girl to fuck?
Ideally for a second date a go-to option is at your place to 'watch a movie'. That way it gives you an easier option to escalate since you both should be cuddled up on the couch
So you could do this, or do something first with the plan later on to watch a movie or have a drink at your/her place.

Since you you're a bit newer at this, it's cool if you take it a bit slower and just have fun with it without a plan to get in her pants asap. Like go to a beach, lake, walk somewhere, or a cool drink, etc. Also - flirt, be playful and go for the kiss if you can.


Yeah, since I'm new at this I pretty much plan to kiss her on the second date. I guess we'll get a drink and then take a walk or something.
3rd date I'll ask her to come to my place or I'll go to her place if her friends are out.
1# Get a hot girlfriend

- Get to 150 lbs
- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
- go on 1 date (done)
- get a regular sleeping schedule
- actually try and get with a girl (done)
- start TRT ( done)

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 08 Jul 2015 03:45 #212060

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What about going to the movies? My main goal is just to kiss her, I don't feel like we still have much to talk about anyway. She even mentioned she might like to go the movies so that's probably a good idea?
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- get a job
- fuck 1 girl in 2015
- kiss a girl
- go on 1 date (done)
- get a regular sleeping schedule
- actually try and get with a girl (done)
- start TRT ( done)

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Going on my first date tonight, need some advice. 08 Jul 2015 04:24 #212062

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I used to go on movie dates when I was a newbie. I found comfort in the fact that it's the social norm to cuddle the girl at a movie and I didn't have to talk very much. Win win back when I was starting out. Movies can get expensive but if you're just starting with this stuff ya a movie is a great idea. I've landed some of my best and hottest fuck buddies after taking them to movies for a date.

Nowadays I try to spend fuck all on dates and go to a local bar to grab a drink on the first date and just try and drag them back to my house but when I was 20-21 and my goal was just to get a nice first kiss in on dates movies are good. I used to pick the best reviewed horror movie currently playing and take them to that. Worked like a charm. Ahhhh memories.

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