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so first time i got laid was thursday, after all the cuddeling and foreplay i was wet in my pants, dripping a bit here and there but still fucked her,dripping a bit more meanwhile, until i wasn't hard anymore (no orgasm) and i thought okay it happens i was emptied.
Now i tried again Sunday, jacked off a few hours before going to hers (i thought then i wouldnt jizz in pants by hugging her, which i didn't really, and i fucked her but i couldn't get to orgasm part again! we did it for 2 hours in a fast pace mostly with condom and blowjob on me without condom, it was extremely exhausting but i couldn't finish. Then because of this she let me take it off and do her for an additional 1 entire hour more in many positions but still nothing, and she was so sore. My boner wasn't so hard anymore now after the 3 hours, and i tried finishing by myself at the toilet but also no sucess. What the actual fuck? i was always worried about finishing too fast my first time/times now what
There could be your problem mate, if the porn you used to watch has become dull, chances are a real life girl isnt going to match the level you need to 'finish' try doing what im doing and give up porn and masturbation for 90 days. let me know your results as im trying to fix this problem too! good luck!
6. Take up mma
7. be able to get more sex through online, daygame and nightgame
Cool. So you prematurly poped.. that what happened. and then your trying to jerk off to prevent it but thats killing your sex drive... maybe not the best words but I get it. You already tried jerking off first so tats not going to work. Try edging...
Seriously... Basically you jerk off but don't cum and see how long you can go... Its actually really fun too... you try to stay right on the edge for as long as possible, it feels great and gives you complete controll of when you cum during sex...
Now, try doing that for a bit, you know give yourself like 3 days, edge, see if you can get to 30 minutes... if you can... you probably beat that shit.
When you see this girl again, and she gets you turned on, makes sure to let her know she is turning you on and you have to pull your dick out. Its a great excuse and in general good life habit now you wont mess your pants, and long term it gets you into the habit of pulling your dick out with women, a habit that will benefit you in dating life in general tbh.
the boulder part is very, very wise
if you don't have a boulder, start with PENIS EXERCISES as soon as possible
i notice that i practically have a zero percent chance of busting if i'm anxious
i'm not anxious with girls anymore, but i'm still not living entirely in the moment --- i believe it is because my sex drive really isn't that high. (now that i'm supplementing maca again, i can already feel my libido rising, though)
so if you're anxious.. acknowledge that and realize it is going to affect you if you're yearning to bust
and yes, if you're going to be getting laid from this chick on a regular basis (once a week minimum)
you might as well hang up the porn, completely
i'm not a fan of NO PORN --- NO FAP, but if you're getting laid.. you might as well do that
since your "senses" are likely fucked up from a prolonged period of the two
a point even more important that getting a boulder- ensure you continue to see this girl
so based off of what you've said, i'm guessing your girl's confidence in turning you on is not that high
if i were you- i'd be clear with her about your "situation", and make her be aware of the fact that you very much enjoy her pussy, and that things are only going to get better
you better make her your fuck buddy, or expect to see your "progress" impeded significantly
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