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Just need some tips whether to begin the transition to more of a short/buzz cut or grow my hair out super long.
Currently rock a 0 mid fade on the sides with a weird combover on top. The left side of my hairline is in an ok spot but the right side is receding deeply and magnifying my widows peak. Posted some pictures of some angles.
The 2nd to last picture is from 2-3 years ago when my hairline had not receded as much as I artificially cut my widows peak and just shaved it to make it more even, that is now impossible to replicate but I am considering cutting back my widows peak a bit if i go for a short cut.
Picture in the blazer is if I let my hair just grow out a bit more, it was a linkedin type photoshoot for my club.
Your body fat % is likely the biggest thing holding you back right now. Focus on that first.
Never forget to smile, because today you've been given a chance to be alive.
2019 Lays: 9
Ultimate long-term goal: 50 lays (10/50 so far)
At least 10 8+'s (2/10 so far)
At least 20 7+'s (4/20 so far)
Sleep by 11pm
8-% bodyfat, high protein diet
Clear up acne - proactiv, low sugar, drink water, sit in sun 3x week
Get a better haircut
Whiten teeth 2x a day
Gym 2x a week
Your hair in the suit looks just fine. Thinning on the corners, like yours, doesn't look too bad compared to other types of pattern baldness. Women say Jude Law is still attractive. When the thinning gets far enough, I think it's best to just go fuzzy or full shaved.
Some ideas here,
in the 2nd half of the article.
1) Do the AA Program
2) Work on losing between 5-7 pounds. I would say 10 pounds is too much.
Like other guys have suggested, you're not ugly at all. Where I disagree with them, however, is the degree of importance of your looks.
Your super sad face and unwillingness to approach are really what's holding you back from getting laid.
I hope that isn't your facial expression when you walk around. You look legitimately quite sad, to the point where I would like to give you a hug. I imagine girls want to give you a hug as well, but unfortunately, pity-hugs aren't a sign of upcoming coitus.
Sad = Dry pussy.
Tell us a little more about yourself. What are you doing with your life? How old are you? Are you in school? What are some things that you've accomplished, no matter how big or small?
If I had to guess, I'd say you work in a white-collar industry, like an accountant or something. If that is the case, be proud of yourself for actually being useful to the world. Not being sarcastic at all. Be proud of it.
Most people offer very little or nothing at all.
But anyway, none of this changes the advice.
1) Do the AA Program and start a log documenting each day.
2) Work on losing 5-7 pounds at the same time. It's not hard, just eat less or do more cardio.
Thanks for all the suggestions and input guys I appreciate it.
As for your question @Rousseau I work in construction project management(hence the stress and receding hairline haha) and work at a sports bar 3 days a week as a server/waiter and all day on weekends, im 26, live in the bay area, navy veteran.
Yeah I think maybe my issue is my lack of willingness to approach, all the times ive had action is from when a female shows a bit of interest first then I get confirmation and go in. I think that creates a barrier from getting the ~7+'s because there is such a bad mtf ratio in valley.
Im at around 6'0 ~200 lbs I want to get to 185-190, I think the really skinny looks is optimal not just for looks but for my bum knees.
Once again thanks for the replies guys, ive always used this site for reference but its nice to be a little more active.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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