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I wanna know if I'm average or better and how I can improve. I can't get earrings due to religious reason. I also want to know if theres anything that can be done to reduce eye bags. I included a bunch of pics for variety
Id say you are above average looks. I think you should smile more, you have big lips and you should be trying to draw attention to that. Idk how white your teeth are, but the whiter you can get them the better! I dont really see the bags you are talking about.
You style is kind of plain. You can add some jewelry thats not piercings with some silver for relatively cheap. White T's, chucks, CLEAN but simple shit is what the black guys are killin it with in my area (outskirts of la). You can google Dom Kennedy for some non-gangster styles.
You could really increase your look with a sick fade, but I recommend finding a down ass barber, check out this Instagram to see what Im talking about. You can use IG as a tool to find a busy /consistent talented black barber in you area, just know you may have to make appointments ahead of time.
I also think that nice waves look sick and show that you take time and pride in your appearance. With shorter hair, keeing it fresh is really whats going to make you stand out.
Moses21 wrote: Thanks for the advice on the smiling thing but I'm kinda self conscious about that due to my teeth not being the whitest
I really need to work my smile as well, so I get it. My teeth are even kind of crooked to top it off, but there is more to a smile than that. I was listening to a podcast the other day and heard Scotty say that this whitening pen is pretty legit. For the price, I plan to try it. What could it hurt?
Whiter teeth is a good investment. I know that the whitening mouthwashes work pretty decent, also the crest strips, but nicer teeth will cost money. In the meantime, just flash some teeth at these hoes. I agree with this below, you dont want to come across pissed.
dc7 wrote: You need to smile. If you look pissed off all the time or like you are "too cool" it's a huge turn off for women.
1) shave your moustache
2) Post full length pics with your wardrobe that you go to hit on women in. All I see are 2 very average t-shirts that aren't doing you any favours.
Yah, the mustache should get the boot haha. Its not a deal breaker, but I did think you could do without it from the initial view of the pictures. Same with the shirts, plain average shirts = plain average sex appeal. I second #2, put on some of your best gear and show us what you are working with.
Moses21 wrote: I shaved the moustache and I'm going to look into the teeth whitening tool. I have very plain clothes that really just consist of jeans and a. Random shirt do I have really average style.
Shaving the mustache helps for sure. I came across this last week in the archives, it will help to put things into perspective.
like NSA said, work on your style. theres plenty of stuff around on this website, try something edgy. black guys have the advantage that they can pull of things that a white guy wouldnt, or he would look like a tool. urban style would be cool
i think you really need to grow your hair a bit and get a cool hairstyle, OR start wearing a hat / beanie. the current hair is really hurting your looks, it doesnt work with your head shape
im glad you shaved the moustache. try getting a full beard instead, or just grow some hair on your chin + jaw, to accentuate (whenever i do that ,i keep it short, like 4-5 days of not shaving, for the love of god dont grow it into a full on chinstrap)
you have a round head so you need to work with that
For the smiling thing I have tried it and I basically try to have a small smile now because the pics show my natUral facial expression.
I started shaving off the mustache when I go to barber and I changed my hairstyle to a tape up.
I've only ever hit on a girl once and that was because my friends push me to. I have hugh anxiety levels which I've been trying to solve for years now and I think that I may come off as weird to people due to being avoided by women (been trying to figure this out too)
I have been working on my style though and I think it's better than before because my friend have been telling me I dress better.
I still don't understand why most women avoid me though (what I mean by this is that they are very standoffish and put distance between me when they see me)
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