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So I've found gll go be very informative and a solid dose of reality after my ex about a year ago cheated on me and it ended badly. Since then I have slept with a few women (not my favorite kind of women) but doable nonetheless. I've been working hard in terms of losing weight.
When I broke up with my ex a year ago almost I weighed 250 pounds and I weight 190 now. My ex was skinny and hot believe it or not and I attribute this to the fact she thought for whatever crazy reason I was good looking as she told me I was constantly and desirds sex. Like all women though, they either find you attractive enough to have sex with or you're out.
I think some women even hot ones do find fat ugly guys physically attractive so to speak (my ex was roof of that) but I think it's few and far between versus a guy that's muscular, has low body fat, and is considered good looking by far more women.
I want to get down to 160-170 and ultimately get to 10% body fat as gll talks about. I'm just starting to do weights at the gym. My hairline isn't the best but from the advice of those here I'm taking propecia and I have been taking it for about 3 months. I'm basically working hard on looks related issues.
All of that said, I've always had issues socially. The few close guy friends I have try to help me with advice, but I feel social issues are an issue for me to some extent . At the same time since I'm not a big believer in "game" I'm starting to believe more and more more as time goes on that the biggest reason a girl will have sex with you is she finds you good looking period! Vs being super smart on social interactions. As of right now I do notice even now that I get more "smiles" from Random hot girls in public compared to what I used to get when I was fat. Is this a good sign or a sign worth noting?
When a girl smiles at you and makes eye contact with you and she's around your age does that usually mean she is physically attracted to you and should you approach? Those are questions I'm trying to get better with. My BIGGEST FEAR though is I started this too late. I was a loser throughout most my early 20s and now that I recently turned 28 I'm feeling like time is running short to attract younger women even if I get into really good shape. Is there still time in your late 20s to 30s to attract a lot of young hot women? What additional advice steps should I take from here guys? As always your advice is awesome!
Dude it's never to late!! When a girl looks you in the eye and smiles at you it can mean a few things. 1.) Her parents raised her right and she is just a nice person. 2.) She likes you.
Just take it in stride and chat her up if your in the mood. It's ok to not be smooth when talking ( might even be better ) but do not come off desperate. That is chick repellent.
Some dudes can pull chicks no matter how they look. I don't know why, but I know it happens. I do know one thing. A German women I was seeing was talking about her sex life with her ex husband and she said this " in the end I preferred not to fuck a fat man " . That kind of stick with me.
I'm 28 and last weekend I insta made out with a hot 19 year old and then another 20 year old on the same night. In hindsight, I almost certainly could've pulled the 19 to my car and fucked her, and the otherone I almost certainly could've fucked in the bathroom (I left my condoms in my jacket because I didn't think that this sort of thing was actually possible... I know better for next time haha). Maybe I'm just making excuses and ai should've rawdogged them both, but either way, the point is that as a man, you only gey better with age (to a point) and plenty of fresh young meat is out there, anxious to get pummeled by an experienced, older man.
The latest way I look is seen in the photo attached. I know that it's absolutely a horrible photo in the sense it's poor lighting in a kitchen I just had a friend take this randomly. I'm also working on my hair issues as my hair is too long now. I feel that I'm naturally an uglier/not good looking guy and therefore muscle and getting into even better shape can help mitigate that and make up for it. I'm also not good with style but that's the next thing I'm working on. I don't think/want to give up. About the only other thing going for me is I'm somewhat taller than most guys i.e. 6 foot.
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