TOPIC: Designing a wardrobe around blue jeans and an overcoat?

Hey all, hope it's going good for you.

So yeah, I've got a black felt overcoat I like to wear with black shoes, blue jeans, black belt, and white t-shirt (I don't wear the coat on really hot days, of course). Does it work? If so, I'll be buying enough "stock" to keep a weekly rotation.

I'm reading up on some of the "style" stuff, but I really don't want to follow GQ or anything, and prefer my own styles. Still, there has to be a trade off to account for "edgy-ness" and etc, so I'm just wondering what you guys think.

I have no wardrobe atm so I want to buy it right the first time, you know?

Let me know, thanks!

Hey Pintero - take a picture of those items (with you in them)

There they are. Pic #3 is my current (only) Dating Site Picture.

Let me know what you think.

Bump. I go shopping during the weekends, so I'd like some input before then.

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Pintero hear what makaveli recommends you, he knows what he is talking about If you set your goal to look better, this can be done in just a few days, and the drastic changes it will make are incredible. Believe me, people you already know will go like , and those who don't will go like and you'll feel like

F*ck... I was replying but hit the "back" button and lost it all. Now I have to go to work, but I'll reply to this after. Thanks for the help.

So the quote button is broken, it says something like "Error, cannot display the Error page, MySQL" or some-such. (for moderators)

Anyhow, I will reply in normal-font, the original post in italics:

Hey Pintero, nice with some pictures..

Let me be totally honest.

When i see your pictures i get a negative feeling.. Now i don't know about your vibe, but when i look at your pictures i get the feeling in my stomach that I would try to avoid you if I saw you.

Yeah that's understandable. When I took those pictures, I was feeling really ashamed and self-centered. Much like "I'm not good enough so have to improve" kind of feeling. I don't really like the idea of having to "improve" because it pre-supposes that I am "not good enough". Anyhow, that's probably why.

HOWEVER, I must say that I've noticed a thing or two in my life. First off, it seems that people (especially attractive women) respond very good to me when I'm in a negative/hateful state. I don't know why, and have even fought against that reality for a while, but I'm consistently shown that the more I embrace my negative feelings and persona, the better things go. I seem to "flow" when I'm like this, whereas being "positive/happy" is a tremendous effort and f*cks things up for me.

Secondly, I've found that the less I try to impress people or "be attractive" or whatever, the MORE attractive I am, the more I impress people, and the easier and better my life is.


Your body is fine, your face is fine...
How tall are you?

I am 6'1" with shoes, 6' without. Currently 160 lbs, but working out every weekend.

Your hair really sucks.. It looks like you don't care at all..
You look pale.. i dont know if its the light, but you could easily get a better tan that will make you feel happier and make you look more healthy.

Well I don't care lol. That picture is actually what I look like about 2 weeks before I cut the hair myself. I buzz it at 7/8 for the hair, and 3/8 for the beard. I do have a STRONG tan (people notice) but have VERY pale skin underneath. I work outside and so have a farmer's tan. Only my face and arms are brown, the rest of my body is white. I get kicks out of showing people the stark contrast and they seem to enjoy laughing about it. I can own my "flaws" and use them to propel me in some situations. For example:

I once was flirting with a girl for a solid half hour (she was a soap-saleswoman). I was wearing the clothes in my original post up there, and had a beard/haircut much as that was, maybe slightly shorter. Anyhow, I went on and on with her. She kept bringing up her boyfriend, and I compared myselkf to him as if HE was a GREAT guy, and I was a nothing. Eventually, her banter about the BF turned to bashing him, and hinting she wanted me to take her away. Finally I left (couldn't close, though she kept hinting she wanted me to). TWO WEEKS LATER, I was in a mall talking to girls again. I entered a store and hit up a group of girls. One of the girls in that group was the soap-girl. Her jaw was ON THE FLOOR. She runs up to me exclaiming "YOU! Do you KNOW what you DID to me?!?" Then proceeds to tell her girlfriends all about our little encounter. This was on the opposite end of the city too, btw, as I always hit up different places when I go out (which isn't often).

Today again, too. I went to the mall and flirted with a sales-woman. Had another good-vibing talk with another babe, and got looks and smiles everywhere I went, and this is what I looked like today:

https://www.flickr.com/photos/126693396@N08/14787783964/

https://www.flickr.com/photos/126693396@N08/14603430900/

My problem is, I can't close. Can't even go there. There is an immense power knowing that the woman won't do anything, and that it's up to me. I prefer enjoying the interaction rather than stepping into the mine-fields of shit-tests and drama and everything, and would rather just have fun.

Your eyebrows look terrible... go get them fixed.. it's easy..

Lol, what's wrong with them (aside from the uni-brow)? And how do I get them "fixed"?


Your shoes suck so bad it hurts.. if i wore those shoes, i'm sure i could never get laid no matter how good i was looking.. SHOES - it really tells something about you.. and your shoes are telling me that you are NOT getting laid, and that you DONT "get it"..

Well like I said: I don't get it, but I'm willing to get some good shoes and anything else if I feel comfortable wearing them. At the same time, I was wearing THOSE shoes whenever I go out, even when I get these crazy reactions from girls.


your coat... Burn it. it makes one feel like they are talking to a geek or neo from matrix..

Lol, like I said, I was wearing this exact outfit while making some GREAT progress with girls in the past. One even touched me all over constantly and complimented me on it ceaselessly. It's a nice polarity thing, I think. It's like, it's so bad, but I'm so confident, that girls go CRAZY for me. Maybe factor this stuff in before you hand out the judgement.

Speaking of geeks, though, I also wear a "Splinter Cell Convictions" shirt and get good reactions from the ladies as well.

Your body and face - LOOKS GOOD... but you will not get laid a lot with that style...

Ok, like I said, factor some of this in. I'm not going to change the style just because you say so, but I will change a style to anything that makes sense. I'm willing to meet you half-way if you can explain or at least acknowledge that this "style" doesn't seem to be hindering me. I, personally, think that it is ME who is hindering myself, NOT the style.



let me ask you... Who are you? what do you like?
Where do you work?
i don't wanna suggest that you get a club player style if you are into computers and programming ...
It's good if your style is somehow matching your life

I'm me. lol. I like video games, nature, mountains, trees, plants, cigars, rum, porn, madonna, Bob Dylan music, poetry, Alan Watts' philosophy speeches, cheating (finding ways around so-called "rules" or "barriers"), making fun of things, taking women for granted, and treating them like shit.

I work in construction and hate it, but am currently paying off about 16,000 worth of debt to then start investing. I want to have a real-estate empire that consists of lots of properties both in Canada (where I live) and Brazil (or somewhere like it, where I intend to move). I want properties near universities to have access to fresh, young pussy, and I want to smoke cigars and drink rum while enjoying the tropical breeze.

I'd say I want my life to be explorative, and free. I want to be able to go to malls and such just like today, just having fun, fucking around with (and fucking) the girls I meet during these adventures, and live completely spontaneously as I make money from investments and rentals on the side. I very much want to be free of making money, and have it work for me. I want all this while I'm young too, not when I'm 60.

So yeah, there it is. Let me know what you think, and thanks again for the help.

EDIT: I also read something on this forum. The idea of making your house a "haven" for the girl. Something she doesn't have in real life. A refuge, a place for fantasy and sex to permeate and flourish. I want that too. You might ask "But, how can that be when you actually ENJOY treating women like shit??" I think the best I can describe it is I like to treat women like they are my PLAY THINGS. If I treat them good (said thanks to the girl today, for example) it's because I WANT to, not because I HAVE to. If I treat her like shit, it's because I WANT to, not because I HAVE to. Either way, I like to be in a state of total indifference, but I find it fun to exert my control over a woman. Make her do things, dress up in things, just control. But not in a "do this" kind of way, in a "can you do this?/challenging-almost: "are you ABLE to please me by doing this?" kind of way.

I ask a woman if she can do something to see if she is WORTHY of my time, rather than because I'm powerless and need to "ask" as a beta might.

I'd just like to be able to exert it MORE than simply with girls at stores. I think it's something to do with feeling like I WILL be catered to by this woman because it's her JOB, but when the SEXUAL attraction makes an appearance, the game is over. Wish I knew how to duplicate this with random girls not working anywhere. For me, with normal girls, it's like I'm taking them away from their life, which is infinitely more important than me, while a girl working somewhere is already obligated, so let's have some fun.

Hey man, nice and honest response.

I will respond deeply in 5-6 hours. I'll post some style suggestions that i would think might match your persona.. Maybe i'll call Sam from the forum and ask him to get his opinion -- he knows a lot about style
right now i'm at work and on my smartphone, and yesterday was busy.

Honestly, i think you have very good chances of getting laid a lot. Soon.. And when you start closing, it gets easier

Be wary of gauging reactions from girls selling things. They are trying to sell things

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