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While our programs will have mad structure, it's not out yet.. so I want to give structure to this place so guys can get the most out of it (instead of never be seen or heard from again) haha.
After you introduce yourself, start a thread in one of these sections.
If you aren't sure if you have approach anxiety or not-- can you walk up to by far the hottest girl in the bar?
if no, you have approach anxiety.
Sections to start in- 1) Approach Anxiety Drills
2) Meet Her/Text Her/Meet Up/Fuck Her
There is no shame whatsover about starting from the beginning. In fact, I recommend it.
If your main problem is approach anxiety (for 95% of guys it is), we should focus on that and beat it. It's better to 90%/totally beat AA in 3-4 months than to pretend like you don't have it and approach girls for a year, barely get results and still have it.
That's what I would do.
I wandered around for 6-7 months doing a half ass job at approaching girls and pretending like AA wasn't an issue, I eventually beat it obviously but I could have beaten it in about half the time probably. Nobody that got laid had a decent approach to beat AA back in 2008 though.
So after you introduce yourself, start a thread in one of these sections.
(Multiple threads is okay, but just start somewhere and I'll work with you)
Where to begin
1. Approach Anxiety Forum
In general, If you can't approach 50% of the girls you want at any time, any place, in any social dynamic... you have AA. I set the bar pretty high because it definitely takes balls to give your permission use our aggressive stuff to its fullest effect. The mainstream sets the bar pretty low, if you can approach - no matter how safe your "game" is, apparently you don't have AA. That doesn't fly here because will teach to Get Laid, not to talk have safe conversations.
Social freedom is the MOST important thing. You can be good looking, have good style, have money and you'll always underachieve if you can hit on girls or starting playing it safe if they are sexually available.
I honestly recommend that most guys start here. After my 1st whole year approaching with Funny Man game, I got laid 12times... I still could have benefited greatly from these drills. The advanced parts of the drills are more ballsy than funny man game anyway e.g. "hey guys!!! i need a female opinion about pleated pants! i wont stay for long."
Again, be honest with yourself, this is about you. If you have anxiety, don't have too much pride and claim that you don't have AA/any anxiety... frankly, if you don't have any anxiety with women you probably shouldn't be here. social freedom gets you laid.
some guys will need to solely focus on the AA drills, these are the guys that can't hit on chicks too often. other guys will benefit from both approaching and doing the AA drills.
if you do the AA drills- do them
if you do approach and do the AA drills- do them, but do them separately (and ideally on separate days).
i actually recommend doing AA drills for at least 3 weeks before deciding where you want to go next.
2. Hitting on Chicks- Screening Girls
If you don't have enough AA that keeps you hitting on (and being fairly aggressive with) the girls that you want... start here. If it turns out that you can benefit from the AA drills, you can start up a log there too.
Again, remember what I said though, its better to kill 90% of your AA in 3-4months than to go an entire year running pussy shit safe funny monkey man game on girls and still have AA and barely get results.
3. I'm too sad/mad/pissed off/depressed/etc. Support Network
I'm not doctor, psychiatrist, etc. etc.
If you aren't able (or interested yet) in doing the AA drills, hitting on women, or improving your "game" but want some help/insight with other issues we (as in everyone on here) will try to help. Ideally, we will transition you into a more social life. If, for whatever reason, you have chosen to isolate yourself- that's fine, for now.. we are going to try and cheer you up, give you goals/dreams and get you more excited about rejoining society.
I've seen enough cases where guys think that they want to learn how to fuck lots of girls but in reality they just want to get their life together and have some goals. in order to feel the highest sense of accomplish, you should have goals.
I know there's a lot of people that "lurk" "creep" (haha) and read this website but aren't engaging just yet. If you are on GLL from 1am to 5am every night and are depressed, come tell us about it. I can't solve everyone's problems, but I've seen a lot/met a lot of guys over the years that had every psychological problem imaginable. Some of them get their shit together, some do not.
4. Other Goals/Issues/[GoodLooking]Losers
Some guys end up here with the only goal of getting a big dick, so there's a section for those things too.
The introduction thread was locked so I'm introducing myself here. Anyways, hello fellow lookin losers. I appreciate the creation of this community. Thank you Chris.
My name is Cody, I'm 24 and I reside in Victoria, BC (Vancouver Island, Canada). Couple short term goals I consistently work towards is gaining 20 pounds of natural muscle mass by March 1, 2015 and notching 10 more farm animals by January 1, 2015. The first thing I would accomplish over the next 12 months is gain 25 pounds of natural muscle. I have been reading Pick-up/ dating material since mid February, 2014. I started nosing through returnofkings.com and found the red pill lifestyle an interesting one, which then led me to goodlookingloser.com. My main blockages I am destroying is my average physique which is leading to my lack of confidence with the females. Over the past few years I had been in a 2 1/2 year which I've been out of since January, 2014 (Thank fuckin redpill!) I have only had one other notch since then. I'm here to change that.
Hey everyone, My name's Farhad and I'm a 20 year old college student in NYC. Long story short, I have AA and I've been reading/studying material on getting good with girls for a long time (years), but I've never actually been able to apply that knowledge in real life because of AA. I feel like this is holding me back so much, as well as in other areas because this is the #1 area of my life I want improved, so by not working on it I feel like I am choosing to fail. This is Why I've decided to do the GoodLooking Loser AA program and stick with it, no matter how tough it gets. I consider myself fairly attractive; Im 6feet, muscular, facially good looking, but obviously these things aren't the answer to success. My #1 GOAL for the next few months (besides school/work) is to beat AA so that I can become a real,, confident version of myself.
My name is Ante. Im 21 and Croatian.My goal is to start(and of course complete every damned bit) the approach anxiety program and eventually start approaching hot chicks before the end of 2014 without anxiety problems.In the meantime im working on getting bodyweight via eating better and doing home workouts every day with bodyweight.Its going bit slow,but 2 months after I started doing this,I dont feel skinny anymore and I actually look stronger and hotter,besides I am fairly good looking guy,I just dont have that hot body every girl is dreaming of,so Im working on it! Banging chicks is something I wanna do of course but Im not in a fuckin rush,that will come naturally after getting rid of anxiety I suppose.After this,I will work on screening and applying the GLL lifestyle comepletely into my life cause I like it!
I have been reading lots of sites and articles online over the past half year or so,but this one is the best ever.My main blockage as it should be known already from the text is approach anxiety.My experience with chicks is low,I have no problem talking to them,making out with them,but I never banged and made out with any hot chick in my life so far cause of anxiety..All the girls were above average,btw I fucked only 3 girls that were actually my girlfriends back in highschool,and I surely fuckin dont wanna have fuckin girlfriends,I just wanna fuck around.I have found this site accidentaly while watching youtube videos.Salute to all of you,Im determined to do this AA program and Im already happier than yesterday cause Im actually doing something!
Yo penner003! I just joined here too, been working out for about a year and a half, did the whole pua book thing too but if you want a work out buddy or want someone to go hit on chicks with let me know man I live 30 mins away from Vic!
What up guys just created this profile and plan on changing my sex life forever!
Anyways let me introduce myself,my name is Vladimir I'm from Belgrade,Sebia and I'm 19 yrs old,currently starting to go to college.
My current goal is to destroy my approach anxiety by following the AA program from start to finish.
I'm currently still a virgin and I'm sick of it so I wanna change that and have an abundant sex life of my dreams,starting with baby steps but i will make it I WILL PERSIST I ASSURE YOU!
I started reading self development and pickup material since 2014 getting into RSD(Tyler,Jeffy,Max,Julien Ozzie) and more lifestyle success self help.
I had some first GFs in high school,some awesome and some decent results in picking up chicks had pulls to my house and into a forrest once but never frankly had the killer instinct to fuck the girls.(started approaching since february 2015 to this point have approached a lot of girls but want to start all over again because I'm tired of all this PUA bullshit and want to be a real player).
The one thing right now i want to accomplish is finish the AA program and get to eating pussy.
My main blockage is my killer instinct to pull the trigger and take the lead so I fuck the chicks.
I wanna become that awesome cool dude that bangs a lot of chicks and has a all around successful balanced life.
Learned about this site from a good wing that goes out with me regularly and I resonated with Chris's material because there's no BS and he's helping guys for real.
I would like to share with you guys my future success stories and add overall value to the community.
Looking forward to sharing and seeing new ideas cheers
Hey dudes recently made this profile and want to add value to the community.
I'm Vladimir from Serbia,Belgrade,I'm 19 want to become a real playa like Chris.
I'm still a virgin and i will destroy the AA program to change that massively.
Reading self help/pickup material since 2014(approaching since feb 2015, 1000+ chicks)
Had decent success and relatively hot girls from time to time but never had the killer instinct to close when it came to the bedroom/sex wich i think is my biggest sticking point.
I wanna finish AA program for 12 weeks and get the sex life I always wanted,generally have a successful and balanced life.
Looking forward to exchanging value and success stories with you fellow awesome dudes so cheers
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.