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Hey guys, logging on from Paradise Valley, Arizona, here... The name's Nick. I'm 25 going on 26 and you might say in crisis mode because I am getting older and my social life is getting worse, not better.
My primary goal is to reconnect with some of my old fraternity brothers and friends I haven't kept in touch with very well and to build my social circle back up--but I don't want to pull the trigger on this until I can contribute something. Who wants to hang with a guy who can't attract women and only creeps them out when he tries?
A secondary goal is to bring 10 girls home this year and sleep with at least three of them.
Anyway, I've been reading pickup/dating material off and on for about 5 years, but I am crippled by approach anxiety so I have really high hopes that this will help me deal with that once and for all. It seems like everyone in the "community" at least agrees it's a numbers game, to a large extent--that's a problem for me! Sometimes I do actually strike up a conversation, but it is not NEARLY often enough! Most of the time I freeze and do nothing and then get REALLY frustrated after that I didn't take the shot!
As far as experience level goes...hopefully my "score" by year can tell you something about that:
2007 (19) - 2
2008 (20) - 2
2009 (21) - 0 (one girl carried over from 2008, but no new conquests)
2010 (22) - 0
2011 (23) - 0
2012 (24) - 1 (an unhappily married woman in her late 40s I found on CL...hot enough, but I feel like a loser for going there)
2013 (25) - 0 (one encounter with lady from 2012)
I think you'll be going out on a lot of dates once you get into the AA program (online dating, manadatory).. thats good thing, if nothing else you'll have a bit of a social life. make sure we get a look at your profile.
i suggest you have #1 goal though. either beat AA or build social circle. dpeending on your schedule this summer/fall, id say do whichever you want more. you'll certainly find that social circle (lets be friends) stuff is WAY easier when you dont have anxiety
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