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Hey everyone, just made an account on here after seeing a lot of solid advice on this site. I'm from Illinois, have lived here all my life. I just turned 18 in November. My goals are to finally lose my virginity, overcome moderate social anxiety(Have had for 2 years now, went through SSRI's and therapy, now off SSRI's since new years, even though they did help a lot.), and bang at LEAST 5 girls this year. I just started reading self-improvement articles today(on this site), and am going to do the entire Approach Anxiety program. My main blockages are obviously anxiety, used to have panic attacks before SSRI's also, but have since overcome them . My experience level is only to fingering a girl, and very experienced in making out.(Just can't transition into the next step) I found GLL after googling info on phenibut somehow.
A little bit more about me;
I'm a senior in high school, started lifting about a year ago. Very much into fitness, and starting to get into fitness competition and modeling. Which has helped me with girls a bit, but I am still awkward. I am 5'9", 160lbs, 10%bf. Currently cutting, going for 7%bf(Bitches love abs, right?) I'm pretty proud to say that I did not start lifting for girls, but more for myself and to feel better about myself. I go to clubs maybe 2x a month, and have a hard time going up to good-looking girls(in fear of being rejected), this doesn't happen so much after I have been there for maybe 2hrs, then I'll go after any girl and not give a fuck. I also do not drink, so I am always going for girls sober. I don't have any trouble with girls approaching me, I just can't approach them. I used to have pretty bad cystic acne, and now have scars which kills my confidence. Lastly I'm on NoFap/NoPorn day 9, which has noticeably boosted my confidence, energy, and motivation to get girls. Well that's basically it, looking forward to improving myself and overcoming anxiety with GLL.
For loosing the Vcard I highly suggest online dating. If you don't look at it as a whole but break up each step there won't be huge issues of anxiety.
First goal Set up some dates
Next goal go on the date
Next goal set up a date #2
Next goal of escalating as far as you on the date #2
If you aim on completing each goal rather than making it all happen and get laid at once, your anxiety will start to diminish. Overall you would need to continuing to set up as many first dates as possible, and get that experience. The more experience you get, the more easier it all will become.
Check this out if youre serious about getting laid:
By dates do you mean taking girls out to dinner? I don't currently have a job(Looking for one), and couldn't really afford taking girls on dates often. If you mean just picking them up and going back to my house for a movie or something, I could definetly do that. And since I'm following the AA program, is it alright to do days 1-3 all today?
Nah never do the dinner date. That screams boyfriend behavior. I like to grab a drink at a nice bar. 95% It's just 1 drink, so it's not expensive. Girls from online are a bit sketched out to go to random guys house from the internet who they haven't met yet. I wouldn't suggest pitching renting a movie until the 2nd meet up. (where you will then escalate to sex)
If a drink meet up is still too much $ then grab a coffee for under an hour with her.
That would be a good idea, but I am 18, and don't have a fake id(yet), and I don't drink. I think it would be awkward if I just took her to a bar and then didn't order a beer for myself, Or maybe I could get a non-alcoholic drink? Very new at this haha, and yes I definitely am not looking for a girlfriend.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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