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Hi, my name is Luke. I've been on the website for awhile now. Been listening to the podcasts for even longer. Heard about GLL when I was probably 15 and recently re found it a few months ago. I'm 17 now. My older brother (21) was hardcore into GLL around my age too. I guess he never put anything into practice for awhile, however, because he didn't loose his V-card until he was 18. Fueled by an overpowering drive to stick my dick in literally anything and a healthy amount of coaching from my brother I finally couldn't take it anymore and made it happen at 16. I lost my V-card to my neighbor who I met at Church. To this day she still had the best body of any chick I've seen naked. She was 16. We had sex twice before her mom found out and I ended contact. Having lost my V-card finally, years before my brother who I respected greatly, I felt like a God. Soon after, I got a girlfriend from work and was having sex probably 3 times a week. She was nothing special but she was my first gf and I loved her. Took me a long time to get over her. After 4 months I knew I was "above" her and started to scheme on how I was going to end it. I'm guessing she saw it coming bc she started talking to my manager. Yeah, a 24 year old meth head looking guy. WHAT A WHORE. Anyway, I ended it after I found out. Shit was rough for awhile but I got over soon enough.
Now to get to the post title. All through the above I wasn't into GLL but had many of the concepts in my head from other sources (certain MGTOW sources that actually had good shit at the time and my Brother). As I said, I re found GLL around 4 moths ago. I had recently gotten into a heavy self-improvement mindset as a result of no new girls since my first gf which I had left roughly 5 months prior. What a Dry Spell... I was also just getting my test levels back from a crazy cut I went on after my gf. I've been lifting since I was 14. I shredded over 30lb in two months. What a Fucking Idiot I know. I wanted to get shredded and I did. Lost a ton of muscle too tho so never do that. I'm back even heavier than I was at 25% bf now at around 12% bf. With my gainz coming back, looking like the reincarnation of zyzz himself, and my test levels returning. I had that Killer mindset and drive to fuck girls Like I had when I lost my V-card. I was listening to GLL every fucking day for hours on end. For probably a month or two I just listened. I approached some girls at the store and asked for their numbers. Not crazy difficult but pretty nervous. Never followed up with any of them. Here is where the post title comes in. Two months after GLL became my 24/7 I started a new Job as Wendy's. I had one goal. I was here to fuck these girls. I took everything I learned from GLL and my natural charisma and put it to work. Yes, In the work place. Long story short, after two weeks I smashed one girl in my car in the parking lot. Week three I was making out with another girl (the hottest girl at the store) in the lobby when It was closed due to covid. We ended up in the girls bathroom where I had her against the wall and was fingering her. Another employee saw us when we were kissing in the lobby and I guess told the manager after we had left (What a dick). Bc the next morning I and the girl got fired. Totally fucking worth it. One of the best stories I have. I think the guy who told on us liked the chick. It would make sense. Sorry for the long post, keep doing what you want guys.
The biggest learning experience was; the night before I went into the fire and made out with her in the lobby. I was going to do it. I could tell she was down and everything was right, but I pussied out. Felt like shit about it. But the next day I ignored the anxiety and as soon as I put it into motion the anxiety was gone and I was just doing it. It’s all anxiety beforehand about what could happen but then it’s just execution when you’re doing it. Yes you should, but stay off the cameras lol
Like the process of escalation? Or logistics? For escalation.... I’ve already screened any girl I have in the car. If we’re in the car “listening to music” then in my mind it’s already sealed. It’s game over. I start by touching on the leg under any pretense possible. Maybe she’ll give you an in like talking about a bruise (happened a few times. Or a tattoo maybe. Or literally just start touching her leg. Escalate escalate... then you go for a kiss, then you’re making out. Start feeling her thighs then her pussy. Little bit of over the pants while making out. And by then I’ll usually just tell her to get in the back seat. The back seat is always my go to. At 5’9” 165lb lean I almost always have enough room to do whatever I want in the back seat. And I’ve done it in 3 different small cars. Doggy is difficult but can be done if you’re both into it enough.
A funny anecdote and tip. Every time that I’ve done this with a new girl.... since I lost my V-card. I have used One song to “set the vibe” for the girl and for myself. It’s a crutch for me at this point but it always get’s me comfortable and in the right mindset. “Let me know” by Juice World. When I know it’s time to start escalating I’ll play it to loosen up the vibe and get comfortable. I might say out loud that this song loosens the vibe and makes me comfortable or I’ll just turn it on and start singing. Whatever. Doesn’t matter. It helps me and if it does you or you have a song like that. I say use it. It’s worked for me every time
How do you screen them? I got a date this friday, thing is I dont know if this girls just dtf or if shes looking for a boyfriend.
We're gonna go for a walk in the park. I plan on bringing up her previous boyfriend, then asking did yall break up because of the sex? That way sex is on her mind. Then take her to the car and just make out with her and keep going from there
Are you looking to date this girl or just smash? I would very much advise against bringing up her boyfriend. As in absolutely not. She will almost certainly bring him up herself anyway. Don’t sound jealous at all and definitely don’t try to compare yourself to him. That’ll come off like a little bit of jealousy or insecurity. I just wouldn’t. When a girl brings up an ex I usually make sure and not insult or put him down at all and move on with the convo. The reason is lurking on the subject of another guy who used to fuck this girl comes off heavily as boyfriend material.
Sex will be on her mind if she is attracted to you and you lead with physical contact. I.e, leg or shoulder touching, kiss, hand in thigh, making out, rubbing her pussy, fingering.... (in that order usually). Walk in the park is good pre-tense. I’d suggest getting back into your car when you can tho. That’s where you can have sex. Either don’t get out of the car at all or say it’s to cold or maybe make up some story that you’ve been standing a lot today and want to go back to the car. Whatever, just set your self up for success here bro. And success is telling her to get in the back seat and fucking her. You could start making out when you’re walking tho. That could work at first. Talking talking.... touching her.... grab her hand... “what a great night to be out here.....” then pull her in for a kiss. Honestly bro it doesn’t really matter how you do it. Just make sure and touch her. And to get back to that car, where you can have sex. Once you break that physical touch barrier it all becomes a lot easier. you establish that you’re both able and comfortable with touching her body. THIS WILL GET HER MIND ON SEX. Don’t worry about bringing up an ex or whatever lol. Booze help a lot too if you can get that. It’ll help you more than anything. But it’s not necessary. And stay safe driving if you have booze. If you do have drinks, that leaves an hour or two that you have to come down before you can drive. What are you both gonna fill that time with? Well sex of course. Let me know how it goes
Screening - An over all flirtatious presence with the girl, keeping it interesting. And most importantly, I’ve touched the girl for an extended period of time or in a slightly non conventional way. Something that isn’t just a normal tap on the shoulder a friend might do. If she agrees to come listen to music in my car after that then it’s clear to me she is interested. Fuck I might grab her ass or slap it. It just depends on the situation and vibe. Just touch her bro
Well it was wack. Went to the park, went on a walk, 5 minutes b4 we get to the car I ask her does she want to watch a movie at her place while getting a drink. She says no shes gotta be ready for work tmrw or something. Said cool lets get bobba or whatever. Went and got bobba, brought her back, and we went out seperate ways.
Next time a girl pulls this shit im just going to end the date. i dont see any point in hanging out if shes not going to at least be sucking my dick
I’m not familiar with what “bobba” is. Could have been anything bro. Maybe she just actually had work early in the morning. I feel the same. If my goal was to smash and we end up not I feel like I just wasted the night. You still gain experience tho. She could have had time to suck you in the car.... we’ll never know.
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