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You guys can call me Aych' or Mystiq if I meet you in Chicago I'll disclose my real name (we all know that one sociopath that wants to crash at your parent's place...)
I've been reading GLL since 2015 but never did the forum because many of you guys were too Red pill for me at the time if you can understand what I mean.
In terms of a once a month group online meetup, I think its a good idea, but to start... keeping it small (cap at 5-10) Let's set one up for this Month, chat me if you're srs.
In terms of what are my goals (long term, end of the year, etc)?
I've been in an LTR for 2 years in Illinois and at times felt I'm being leached for time and semen or less dramatic, I'm being pressured by people I know to be more Beta male.
Being in a monogamous relationship with a girl who's cute, half white, half puerto rican, but I "didn't dream of" and met on Tinder.
It was mainly a positive experience, as this was my first gf at 23 years old and I learned a lot about being man to woman and role exchanges and being aggressive when she is being a brat in bed (a few of you know what I mean) and yes, I subscribe to the philosophy that no, might mean, play with my p*ssy for a bit until I change my mind)
She's been back home in MN for the last 5 months because of covid-19. And from sexual frustration and feeling like she's trying too much to be a "savior type" always needing to interfere in my life "for my own good", and control my life from a cell phone in another State...I've opened up the topic of us being in a poly setup or a "situationship" more than what she as a westerner is used to, growing up privileged and white. (She's AMAZING and is open to it) I'm trying to go about this transition in the healthiest way for us both as I also care about her well being and would like her as an asset as well.
Goals for the last 5 months of 2020:
- 10 Blowjobs from new girls
- Watch my girlfriend kiss one of her friends
- Successfully get 2 new clean (has a birth implant), attractive girls in my life who live by God, and have values.
Goals for August 2020:
- Being able to screen 5 girls a day. [ ]
- New girls in rotation 2/10. [ ]
- Blog posts 1/25 [ ]
- Youtube videos 2/25 [ ]
Favorite opener right now: "Hey, do you know of any Yoga studios in the city?
"I work out and read books, I expect my girls to too."
Hello from the Midwest. I live in a neighboring state.
It's much easier to start an open relationship than it is to convert a current one. Honestly, what tends to happen in your situation (long distance and on the rocks) is you will both start cheating on each other. Eventually one of you will probably end it.
I don't try to force relationships anymore. I don't like wasting time or energy. Either a relationship is a good fit or I quickly move on. A major skill people need to learn is when and how to end a relationship. I don't know your specifics and won't fault you for trying to make it work. If it was me, I'd end it amicably. Friend zone her and say maybe you can try again if situations change.
I'd be focusing my energy on finding a better match who lived nearby.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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