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I'm Judah, 25, from America. I'm here because I'm not the man I want to be and need a radical change to get there. I've been successful at nearly everything else I've put my mind to, but I've never been successful with women because I was a pussy and didn't put in the work to make a change.
* What are your goals?
Currently my only goal is to beat AA. I'm in my last semester of college and have not achieved even a decent sex life in that time. The next 4 months of the semester will be light on work and I will have time to accomplish this goal. The only other priorities are school and the gym. After I beat AA, I want to sleep with 10 chicks over the summer.
* What are you main blockages?
My main blockages are the excuses I have always told myself. I don't have enough time. I'm not attractive enough. I don't want to be intrusive. Blah. Blah. Blah. I've put off tackling this issue because I've always had something else to keep me busy and distract myself from having to face it head on. My AA is a huge part of that and I want to finally put it in the ground.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
Practically none until I found this site a few months ago. I know nothing about pickup and have never attempted a cold approach before. I've always been a self motivated guy, keen on self improvement and usually am working on developing one or two skills/hobbies, so consistent effort over time is pretty familiar to me. I've overcome a lot of personal hurdles in confidence and personal development before so I'm sure I can beat AA if I just stop being a pussy and get to work.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I grew up in a super conservative Christian house that really fucked up my understanding of sex and women so I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 with my first girlfriend. After a 2 year relationship I have been single since, sleeping with only a couple women. 3 is pretty pathetic, but the rest were fuck-buddies for a while so at least I feel I can keep them around once I actually get them. I've had many dates and am usually quite comfortable talking to women normally, but my big hangup is being aggressive and escalating things sexually.
+ Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
I found it just googling for pickup/game advice.
Overall, I'm a guy who has under performed in his sex life and I've had enough of my own bullshit. I didn't believe change was possible and that I was pretty much stuck where I was until I found this place and saw that I was wrong. The main thing fueling me is disappointment with my past but knowledge that the future will be different if I put in the work. That's all, I'll be back with results.
The forum is a bit dead these days what with the pandemic and all. But no reason you cannot post your own log to improve your style and tinder photos for example (if that is an issue). At least until its safe to go out and talk to some girls!
3 girls at 21 is not pathetic. Tons of guys are still virgins at that age so cut yourself some slack) Sure you can always do better but you'd already made your mind up that you will. Coming here was the first step!
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