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Hey guys, I've finally decided to start taking action and stop fucking around waiting for my life to improve because lets be honest this doesn't happen by itself.
I'm 26 with below average social skills and live in the small town I grew up in with less than 5,000 people. Up until about a year ago I was in a very dark place. I avoided moving forward in my life - Instead living in constant apathy, fear and anxiety and pretty much staying inside my tiny comfort zone and escaping how I felt with video games, mindless internet surfing, drugs and porn. Never really taking action towards anything meaningful.
This last year has been massive for me development-wise. I've been hitting the gym 4-5 days a week, eating healthier, quit porn/masturbation (Nofap), reduced smoking weed from almost everyday to 1-2 times a month, cut back on the amount of video games I've been playing and started working on my social skills and coming out of my shell by just engaging in small talk at the gym and at the stores with anyone. I know I've still got SO MUCH work to do but im chipping away at it day by day.
I know these years should of been the best years of my life, but all I can do is look back at them with regret.
As much as my ego hates to admit it - I am terrified of attractive women. Throughout university and college I probably missed so many opportunities because I've always been a good looking guy but its tough for me to even make eye contact, let alone approach them. I go into complete fight or flight mode which makes holding a normal conversation almost impossible without coming off borderline retarded and weird, so I'm going to give the AA program a stab soon.
I've known about GLL since 2014 or so when I discovered it back in university. I lurked and never took any of it very seriously at all. I want to get this part of my life sorted out and start taking action before its too late, something Ive escaped doing and put off until now. I'm hoping that deciding to even sign up here will help me stay somewhat accountable.
Looking forward to posting here and being part of the community, because I've felt pretty isolated.
- Gain 5lbs of muscle 0/5
- Start the AA program (Day4) 0/1
- Improve general social skills
- Continue reducing porn/drug habits
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