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My main goal is to just improve my dating/sex life. I can't say that I have the goal of banging 100s of women, but of course, I want women in my life.
My main blockages I'd say are approach anxiety and my finances.
I was a complete virgin before I found GLL. I have been reading GLL articles for a few years now. A few years back, when I first found GLL, I was averaging about 1 date per month using what I read on GLL through online dating. I've also managed to push through AA and I've done a few hundred approaches in my life. I've gone on a handful of dates with girls from cold approach. In regards to getting laid, I haven't had much success with that given the amount of dates I've been on. This is mainly due to inexperience and poor logistics.
*How I found GLL
I found GLL a few years back, in my old PUA days. I stumbled upon a video of a creepy guy with a bandanna hitting on 18 year old girls. I thought it was weird at the time since I was balls deep in the PUA cool aid. One day, out of boredom, I clicked on one of the links on one of Chris's videos and I checked out the GLL website. I was immediately amazed at how logical and relatable the information on this site was. There were lots of straightforward and step by step guides to improving your sex life, and they were all free.
With that said, I'm in my last year of school and I need to make getting a job in my field as my number one goal. I've been seeing some bare minimum quota approach logs and I thought I would hop on that bandwagon to try to keep myself mentally sane as I try to keep consistent with the approaching regularly.
Big thing: your goal is extremely vague. Too vague to even do anything with it.
Lay out EXACTLY what you'd like to achieve in your dating life.
My first year it was to sleep with 15 girls, the second year it was to sleep with 30. Really concrete, and I accomplished them both. Quantify what you want. It certainly doesn't have to be "X number of girls", but it needs to be something you can actually measure. Otherwise, how will you even know when you've achieved it?
Count: 109 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
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