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Hi, I'm Daffy and I'm 28 this year. I was a sexless virgin nerd guy who decided to end that status just over a year ago by having sex with an escort. Then I continued to have sex with prostitutes here and there but the sex was disappointing and I didn't feel like a human being at all.
I have been lurking on r/TRP for quite some time before that, stuck in "anger phase" until... last week (?). I found GLL through a comment on that sub and came here, listened to Chris's 45 minutes podcast. He gave off a very bro vibe and I found his intro piece on the AA program very convincing.
But before I signed on, I gave myself one last opportunity to cold approach girls by myself. It went very well, I've got 3 girls' numbers so far, and the interactions weren't as bad as I thought it would be. I tried cold approach before but was scared out of my mind because I was awkward, overthinking, and basically just froze up all the time. But last week, I could barely recognize myself. Not sure what came over me, but I think I started to get social all of a sudden, and life seems a little bit more beautiful.
But a part of me hasn't yet come to term with this 'new me' yet, and so I decided to get on the AA program. Obviously the high standard set for the AA program means I will have to go through it because I still have AA.
I am staying for Singapore but will move to Madrid in two months' time for my graduate program. My current goals are:
1. Follow AA program, and continue to do my own approaches. I feel that I can pretty easily talk to random strangers now, but I'm still awkward to escalate physically with girls.
2. Learn basic conversational Spanish
3. Lifting heavier weights. I currently bench 132 lbs, deadlift 154 lbs, squat 176 lbs. I am 1.70m (about 5'6"), and weighs 66 kg (about 145 lbs)
4. Become a better street dancer. I practice everyday + go to weekly class + cypher with other dancers.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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