TOPIC: Haven't won anything for 10 years. 21yo virgin, help me brahs

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Post pics. We can't help you without seeing what you look like.
Right now you're just words on a computer screen.

You sound like a younger me
(Was a 21-year-old Asian-American virgin)

"My #1 goal right now is to be able to get laid regularly without relying on money, status, or developing countries."
- If you're in college (and it's a social school with a campus scene), don't do cold approach stuff. Save that for when you're in the "real world", and it gets harder to meet people. I'm guessing it's late to join a frat. I'd recommend throwing parties with some friends if you have any

"did well in school but didn't score where it counted"
- don't fall for the Western societal koolaid. Career/money matters more. You can figure out pussy within a few years tops if you aren't retarded (you're Asian so I know the chances of you being smart are high)

Not trying to hate but if you think you're a "4", you might be worse than that. Post pics in the section that isn't seen by non-members or PM mods (I can take a look for you, too).

In response to your questions:

1. I'd say sub 10% would be more drastic. But everyone holds bodyfat differently (e.g. some people might have a semi-chiseled face at 15%)

2. Post pics

3. Gym is not something you can do all day. Nor is it something that gives you results overnight. Other stuff like style and hair you can see faster results.

Anyway, do AA program (or like I said, just be social on campus) while improving your looks. You have time to do both.

You have lower odds if you're ugly but obviously as you get better looking, your odds will improve.

4. Don't think I've ever been addicted to porn but common sense would tell me that blocking every site would work. Or for example, only using your computer in a place where others would see. Which means you'd be embarassed to open Pornhub or whatever with people around.

^ And fill up your time with stuff like studying, gym, hitting up girls, meeting friends, etc. There's a lot to keep you busy in college if you go and do it

5. You think too much

Good luck!

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It's hard to give advice on social skills, etc. without seeing you in action

I'm putting together some A to Z guides on social skills that should help a lot of guys

While I do think social skills (I guess the closest thing to "game") are overrated, a lot of guys (including my past self) are socially clueless. Especially as our society gets more and more removed from reality thanks to technology.

Whereas GLL himself seemed like a pretty normal guy getting into all of this but shy about pulling the trigger and such.

That all being said, in general:

In college (and I guess other "social circle game" situations), you don't really have to hit on girls that hard. Be friendly and likeable, have booze/maybe drugs, and make moves once people are getting drunk/fucked up.

If you do the "friendly and likeable" part (and ideally host the parties, etc. too), you should have at least a couple girls eyefucking you by the time everyone's getting turnt