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1.Lose my virginity.
2.Save up $10,000 to move out parents house.
3.Get a lean body from Brazilian Jiu Jitsu & Rock Climbing.
4.Get into a Trade Apprenticeship(Plumbing,Electrician, HVAC).
5.Make a side income($1,000 a month) from Science Fiction Writing.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be? (be specific)
Get into blue collar work and publish sell able stories for that moola. Losing my virginity is also important too.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
Since I been 17
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
I'm 6'1, 173lbs
My body is alright not skinny fat or a blob. The clothes I wear isn't edgy but leaning towards a more rugged look. My "game" is playful and not aggressive enough. I had plenty of opportunists to get laid from Asians,Hispanics, Black, and way older woman(21-38), but I always pussy out in taking it to the bedroom. Like I can't bring myself to get really sexual with a girl, before I'm thinking I'll scare her away or afraid she might reject the advances.
Social life is going to be improved when I start back my hobbies(Rock Climbing, BJJ). Overall, I would like to make new friends that would create more opportunities to meet girls.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
I'm a 21 year old half-virgin.
Let's start from the beginning. I didn't go straight to college, but instead worked different jobs. From 18 till 19 I had major mental blocks that put me in bad moods. Low self esteem, constant masturbation, and porn made things worse.
So before I hit the big 20 I went into sales. The experience I gained from commission-based sales improved my life ten fold. I could finally talk to people without stuttering or having a nervous breakdown.
Sales helped make me approachable to woman. I got plenty of numbers. Got some dates. It lead to my first kiss, and eventually it lead to me almost losing the v card.
Got invited by some co-workers to their house. Which lead to smoking weed and drinking lots of Hennessy. It was a good night that got more wilder. A co-worker called up a chick to the crib. He fucked first, then passed her on to me.
I was nervous as hell, but another co-worker convince her to have a threesome. So I ended up having my dick sucked, but never hit the pussy.
Good thing because weeks later my co-workers got gonorrhea from her(dodge a bullet lol).
*Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
Return of Kings(Roosh Site)
Get promoted to Blue Belt for BJJ
Start selling high ticket items.
Write & Publish six novels 0/6
Write & Publish thirty short stories 1/30
You can lose your virginity tonight if you really want to.
Go see a hooker, in another town if you like, tell her about your insecurities, be nice to her so she'll be nice to you.
You'll get comfortable, even if it's artificial that's very good. Do what you want to do with her.
I know how much of a burden it can be. Once it's done it's such a release.
I gave the same advice to another dude on the forum
I wished someone would have told me what I Just told you many years ago, so that I would had found acceptable and given myself permission to see a hooker.
It's Just sex.
The door it opens though is like life itself grants you to its marvels
Being able to screen 10 girls a day.
Get 10 CA lays.
Get laid. A lot.
What is your game plan in terms of losing your virginity?
Online game, cold approach, etc?
Make a concrete plan or you won't lose it.
I lost mine around 21-22 I can't even remember, the way I did it was by finally planing to lose it, before that I didn't really plan for it that's why it took me so long and that's why it has taken you so long.
By planing I mean I met a girl one night, took her number, and asked her out. From the moment she said yes I had only one plan in mind, drink some alcohol to make it easier on both of us and to take her to the back of my car after the drinks to escalate things as hard as she would let me and to ask her out as many times as needed to put my penis in her vagina. It wasn't smooth and I was nervious as hell but it worked.
So first date, took her for drinks, after drinks took her to the back of my car and took her pants off but she would only let me finger her that time( bear in mind it was the first girl I ever fingered as well) . Texted her a few days later, arranged the same plan and repeat. After the third or fourth date I finally put my penis in her vag and it was a glorious moment for me I felt like a true man finally.
Having sex is not difficult if you put your mind to it. You just have to find a girl who likes you and escalate.
You dont need a car to fuck her, dont worry about it.
The only way to stop being clueless is by experience. Start slow so you dont feel creepy. Start by touching her arm, her back and hands. Then go for the kiss. Then more kisses. Then her boobs. Then her pussy. You get the idea.
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I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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