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I’ve been in an almost 3 year dry spell. After I broke up with my ex I burried myself in work/gym/hobbies and somehow became an ultra nice guy and all game vanished and have been friend zoned more times than I’d like to admit. My friend turned me on to this site and I’m ready to make a change. Nice to meet you dudes, looking forward to giving this stuff a solid try. Any advice on articles or where to start on here would be appreciate! Cheers!
Dthug wrote: I’ve been in an almost 3 year dry spell. After I broke up with my ex I burried myself in work/gym/hobbies and somehow became an ultra nice guy and all game vanished and have been friend zoned more times than I’d like to admit. My friend turned me on to this site and I’m ready to make a change. Nice to meet you dudes, looking forward to giving this stuff a solid try. Any advice on articles or where to start on here would be appreciate! Cheers!
Welcome. I'd read all of good looking loser articles that pertain to getting laid. You say you've been in the gym for a while right. Well then you should have a pretty solid physique. Post some pictures of what you look like so we can help you out.
Another thing you should do is to specifically state your goals so we can better help you. I assume you want to get laid alot or maybe you want a girlfriend ? You weren't clear, but I hope my advice helps.
= goal achieved
Complete AA program by the end of Jan 2018.
Complete my web development portfolio by August 2018
Complete 100 approaches by 2019.
Get accepted into a college/university in Canada/USA
Since you've been in a dry spell for that long, approach this as if you were a virgin.
As such, you should work on "losing your virginity", lower your standards to the point where you can still get it up with a chick. Once you get some action going, you can progressively raise your standards!
There are articles just for that. Read them. Quickest way for you to get laid is to use online dating apps.
As you work on that, also start working on your looks. Show us what you look, and we'll go from there...
Start a log about your goal and progress so people can help you. Be serious about it and you'll make it happen.
If you post about your problems and don't follow the advice given, while continuing to complain to us, you will get banned!
Welcome, dude. 31 is not too late to start (you already know that, or you wouldn't be here). I'm 31; I found GLL when I was 28. I started from scratch
and have done a complete 180.
If I can, you can.
^ Agree with advice posted above. 3 years of no sex means you're essentially starting from scratch. For all intents and purposes you're operating as a virgin. My advice:
1) Read every single article on GLL
2) Tell us your goals.
3) If your goal is to get laid, post pictures of yourself so we can see where you're at. We have no idea what you look like; you could be obese (in which case we'd say lose weight as your NUMBER ONE priority). You could have horrific fashion, in which case we'd help you fix that. You could need a haircut. You could need more up-to-date style. Etc etc. We can't tell any of this unless you post pics (describing yourself is useless).
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I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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