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It really is nice seeing that this site has helped so many. Ultimately though, I'm going to refrain. It's just not likely to yield any usefulness for me and I'm already pretty set on following a detached path at this point. It just seems to be the better path for me. I truly appreciate your guy's help though. Thanks.
I'm reading through these introductions on here and I guess the thing I just don't understand is why most of these guys are even here. Most intros say "I'm a 20 year old guy. I've had 3 fuck buddies in the past year. I'm ready to start this program." If you're getting fuck buddies, then why are you here? Look I'm sorry, but I guess im just so far out of the loop of modern culture that I just don't get the norms of the kids today. I'm 27 and have never even spoken to a girl in my entire life for more than a couple of trivial words (i.e. saying "excuse me" when trying to walk around them in public). There's never been a single instance of a girl liking me or finding me attractive. I guess I just don't get how guys who regularly, or at least semi-regularly, get girls and get them to have sex with them and date them are here looking for a program to help them out with girls. The idea of me ever engaging in sex with a girl (or even talking to a girl for that matter) is such an alien and unfathomable concept for me. I don't see any stories or backgrounds shared on here that are even similar to mine. I just don't get how guys who get women think they need to do some improvement program.
Dude, either shut up and make changes - or leave. You said ""It really is nice seeing that this site has helped so many. Ultimately though, I'm going to refrain."
So either stop wasting other people's time and fuck off
Or decide you want to change and start making changes.
Right now you're just a drain on other people's time and energy - nobody wants to hear your pity party. You come from a shit place, cool. You're a 27 year old virgin, cool. Other people have been in that EXACT position and fixed it. You can too (if you WANT to).
Nut up or shut up.
EDIT: Also, "I don't get the kids today". You're TWENTY SEVEN. You're not 50 years old. Stop detaching yourself from other people by using language such as "I'm a special case" and "You kids these days" etc.
The concepts used to contruct the AA program can be used to help with any form of anxiety. It's basically recommending exposure therapy... You expose yourself to small doses of that which causes you anxiety. Over time you increase the stress stimulus as your body adapts and increases resilience.
A big step is to stop labeling yourself as being deficient and understand that you have the power to change yourself, you are not a victim.
You need to post photos so people here can see what you are working with.
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