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Currently I'm having a massive anxiety attack, so I thought what better way to deal with this bullshit than to introduce myself to you lot.
I've never really been all that great at introductions. My name is Lucian, I'm 25, I've known about this site for about 4 years but never did anything with the information available. I've suffered from depression for 17 years, and have finally reached a stage in life where I can think of improving myself instead of being (as negative) all the time. I've always been an outsider, despite being liked by a lot of people my whole life. My clothing style contrasted with the in crowd, my hair was always long and wild instead of short, my taste in music conflicted with my peers' tastes, and I never really had any desire to hang out with anybody regardless of their attempts at being friends with me.
I've been celibate for 10 years. Yep. 10, years. The first 6 were completely by my own volition - I hated everyone and was extremely insecure about both my body, my penis (which is absolutely ridiculous thinking about that now), and my presence. I've always had trouble understanding why people liked me, and instead of just rolling with it I'd sabotage. The last 4 years, however, are not of my own volition. I've completely lost my ability to connect with and speak to people. Where once I had 6 girls at a time clawing for me, I'm now completely alone save for 4 friends and my immediate family. I shake after talking to people, especially women who show extreme interest in me.
I have a lot of goals that need to be met. I don't know if it's possible to change my life around within a period of time where I can still maybe enjoy my late 20's, but I'm bloody hoping for it. All of my goals below:
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* Beat my general anxiety
* Beat approach anxiety
* Be able to hit on, set up a day with, and fuck whatever girl I want.
* Learn to like myself so I can allow others to like me (huge problem of mine.. gave up a LOT of FWB's in HS because of this)
* Learn how to drive (I've tried a bunch, but my anxiety goes into hyperdrive)
* Getting the body I want (I'm 5' 10", plan on being 175lbs @ 10%)
* Building a business to make money for myself, instead of for others
* Fuck women outside of a club setting (drinking and drugs really aren't my thing)
* Get a comfortable social circle (I don't plan on being Mr. Social, just a solid group of like-minded people)
* Work towards becoming a 'Bull' (Thanks to my mother, I've got a massive cheating fetish)
* Live on my own terms
* Getting the dick I want (Currently 7.75" BPEL, working towards 8.5" BPEL)
Most of my goals involve beating my anxiety and being socially apt. I've decided to look into kratom as a temporary fix to this, so that I can actually take the steps to fixing myself instead of being bedridden and freaking out.
I just want to take the time to thank Chris for his contributions and for this resource. I hope to become a success story that can inspire other guys to make a change in their life and overcome their obstacles.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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