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Just turned 32. Height 5ft 9. Weight: 85kg (187 lbs), black hair
* What are your goals?
3-5 new lays per month
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be?
Fuck a whole bunch of 8-9s-10s at least 3-5 a month...Ive got money handled already
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
On and off for many years, since i was like 20..but not consistently at all. Ive been out with many "pua" type of guys over the years and went to some pua event thing a long time ago.
* What are you main blockages?
Im not a closer, I chicken out of closing. I also get stuck in my head sometimes and take some warming up on a night out
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
Have fucked a bunch of girls but nowhere near enough, all SNL/ONS. I've had loads of makeouts over the years and was finger banging a girl in some club at the weekend too, but that doesnt happen often. I dont do dates or online, I dont have the time. Its all club game. As I say im not a closer and dont go for the kill enough, thats my major sticking point. I go out solo and sober most of the time. I dont drink/do drugs. Had a horrible oneitis during my teenage years and lost virginity at age 20.
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Hey guys, im Impulse from the UK..I've been doing this seduction/pick up stuff on and off for a few years but havent really got it handled...so im determined to sort this part of my life out. Kinda been a long term lurker here and I read the journals on here quite a bit
Im 32 btw so a bit older than a lot of guys here, but honestly...that's just a number I still feel like a super young guy, there's only a short time space between 21 and 31 if Im honest, the time just flies so quickly. Time catches up and flies by when you've got work and other commitments to worry about. I have no regrets or anything though, it is what it is.
The flip side too is young 21 yr old girls like older guys, so its playing to my advantage more than anything, and I honestly feel im in my sexual prime and this is where my game can really shine. I also have my own business and property on the side so money isn't an issue and i can go out midweek, not just the weekend for guys who have jobs etc. A lot of my friends have settled down and got married....Im simply not ready yet for that kind of stuff. I want to be a player for a few years at least and fuck a whole load of girls..its something I've always wanted but I just wasn't committed and dedicated enough to get there, and got side tracked with work and other things.
In terms of how I grew up, I've had a difficult upbringing, my parents are from south Asia (ie the third world) so theyve always had a different mentality for me. I come from a hardcore religious family which doesnt help my game so its been a long journey to de-program things. I graduated when I was 21, lived in london for 2 years before setting up my own business. Also did roids on and off for a few years but wasn't sustainable for me due to work commitments. I dont have a 6 pack btw and thats been a major goal of mine...I want to bulk a bit more and trim my belly...
I'm currently going out 3 nights a week doing night game (clubs basically) but I want to push it and do 4-5 nights a week, and i'll be making a journal here to document stuff. The way I see it, if I want this shit handled, its now or never. And GLL seems to be the best place for guys supporting each other on this stuff
My goals are to get a consistent 3-5 new lays a month with 8s-9s-10s..its perfectly doable in my opinion if im going out so often and making those nights count. Im also off to Vegas/Maui this summer which should be fun, and also out in East Asia (Bali,Thailand,Singapore) which can be a turkey shoot for meeting girls. Im not interested in going for dates, I dont have the time..its SNL/ONS im after
In terms of my game, I would say im a sociable guy and I talk to a lot of people when out (maybe like 15-20 people) but im not a closer...I need to close more and go for the kill more. I could also do with more cold approaching....most of the girls I talk to are due to me having "interactions"...as in say I meet her at the bar or because she's sitting next to me..not because of actual cold approaches. So I want to be doing more of that.
Almost all of my lays have also been quick lays, like ill make out with a girl and then extract quickly..not because im doing any fancy game or anything.
As I say, my issue is closing...
In terms of style, I'll post a few pics up to see what you think..I have a few decent shirts but think my style can be improved a little bit
hey there Impulse I wasn't sure if I'd be able to read through the whole thing --- but it ended up not being that long. Good to have you here. One of my best friends is 32 years old and every single girl I've seen him meet, thinks he is mid 20's. No worries on the age man
Especially if you're in relatively good shape
5'9 and ~190 pounds with no 6 pack
change that to 5'9 ~185-190, jacked physique (including your coveted 6 pack) and you're good to go
I'm same height as you so i can relate
But anyways... you have a hell of a lot of work cut out of you. 3-5 new lays with ALL HOT girls a month is a sizable task. Looks like you've had your profile since back in mid-2016. Gotta get those logs started man, while your momentum/drive is strong. Posting "real life" photos of yourself will help to keep you accountable
we're all interested in making money too so if you ever wanted to share your experience with "starting your own business" and how that's went for you over the last decade... that would no doubt, be useful to the community
Yeh, I honestly feel 3-5 lays a month with all hot girls is realistic...Im a good looking guy (or so chicks seem to think, I do get checked out a lot), and I think a 6 pack and a bit more muscle will help me too. Ive had way way too many chances over the years with hot girls, only to fuck up as I was clueless
But...that is all about to change now
Just started my journal, will be posting regularly, plus will get some pics up
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