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first of all i wanna say sorry for my english, I'm from Germany, 28yrs old and live in Hamburg.
Before i found this Forum i did watch alot videos from GLL and i was really sceptic about these penis enlargement stuff, but i decide me last week to just buy a Bathmate Hercules standard version and im just about to use it for first time today.
My Goals are ofc to get a bigger penis and more confidence to talk to more womans or not been to shy in Bedroom, i never had a relationship to woman. Most Girls i know just keep distance to me because they think im to arrogant Person. In my past i played too much Games like MMO or just new games for about 5-6years and i just went outside to buy food or any whats required to surrive but stopped to play MMOs or spend most of time on Computer like 1 year ago. Since that i tried to change my lifestlye, wear better clothes and keep more attention to my Health by not eating almost everyday pizza or other unhealthy stuff. Im not ugly or fat but abit chubby, 1.75 and 92k and ofcourse i wanna loose some more weight like 25-30 pounds.
Well most likely if i not gonna change something soon i might be alone for rest of my life. Im no Virgin anymore just had some really weird situation and couldnt cum by been to nervous or just thinking too much about how i look or to not moan like a old Man. I could tell more about me or my problems but i guess i should start another topic or this will never end here. I got only a few questions:
If i use the Bathmate for 4-5 times a week i should be fine and get maybe some gains in next months?
Does it matter if i use Bathmate on moring or evening?
And the last question is using the bathmates for first month or untill get used to it only on flaccid penis?
Im sorry for long post and i really appreciate your Answers and Advices.
Nice greetings and have a nice day! Winz
Hey, my first step is changing my Metabolism and getting used to it for about 2 weeks, the plan for diet is going low carb or almost no carbs. I've done this alrdy once like 17-18months ago and got down to 82 kilogram and was just about to change my training plan from cardio-based to more lifting weights, but at this time someone in my family died and i got to a depression and couldnt do anything.
Before i gonna use tinder and other dating apps i`ll loose some weight i think. My clothestlye is not that bad @ all i think but i guess i should make maybe some pictures of it and u guys can tell me what u think about it. And yeah i read some routines alrdy and i gonna start with the normal BM routine again once my red dots are not there anymore and start with 7-10min sessions, i most likely did too long sessions and did overtrain (15-20min). I´ll maybe start a weekly-monthly diary for my gains and training progress.
I am a relatively new follower here so thought I would fill in the questions from ***ALL NEW GOODLOOKINGLOSERS FORUM GUYS--PLZ READ & ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS***.
Firstly, I am so happy there's a site and community like this one. All the mainstream advice I have come across in the past has always been the same: GARBAGE and unhelpful.
So a big thanks to Chris for genesising this and long may this live on and continue to help people.
If this works for me then I will make a vow right now to give something back and help others the best I can who've had/got the same problems.
* What are my goals?
Get ripped and jacked as much as I can organically.
Improve my style and sex appeal.
Beat AA once and for all.
Get multiple hot fuckbuddies.
Have a three/four/moresome with some hot ladies (definitely settle at 3).
Destroy all mental barricades and mind viruses that have haunted me most of my life.
Have sex with as many different types of girls as possible until I am stone cold certain I want to settle down in a relationship.
Meet Chris/Scotty at some point.
* If I could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What what it be?
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material?
2007-2009 - London PUA training approach course and bootcamp, David deangelo audios, style/gambler books.
2011-2012 - Another London PUA bootcamp, David deangelo audios.
2016 - Goodlookingloser.com.
* What are you main blockages? (if you don't know we'll figure them out)
1. Social Anxiety.
2. Approach Anxiety.
3. No Killer Instinct (game).
4. No Sex Appeal (looks/style).
5. Cannot tell whether girls do want to have sex with me, and would probably refuse to believe they did if they did for defence of being messed around.
6. Self loathing (More severe in the past).
7. Convinced myself NO girls are interested in me.
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years?
In relationship from Jan 2013 to Jan 2016, sex life with her was good but settled into the relationship too comfortably (on for getting engaged, living together etc) and wasn't happy.
I had a chance of a fuck buddy 3 years ago but she was a bit fat, her house was a filthy pigsty and her rabbits used to shit in her bed, it made me vomit and thus I put the chance back on the table.
That's it for the last 3 years.
* Where'd you hear/find GoodLookingLoser.com?
Can't remember exactly but it was somewhere on either BoldandDetermined or DangerandPlay.
Hopefully by answering them I can get to the bottom of what I want out of all of this.
I have spent a LOT of painful hours, days, weeks and months on dating sites getting pretty much nowhere. Either I don't take good pictures or I'm vile for women to look at, I've never always been given answers about this topic in life, but I need to be brutalised with some sharp honesty, I am open minded now to making whatever changes need necessary.
I am 32 and feel like a failure, 8 years of my life on aggregate have been spent sat in relationships, shying away from addressing my deficiencies head on.
I lost my virginity when I was 19 to a girl who in the end I pretty much hated.
I have lowered my standards considerably (even messaged BBWs, with no success even) over the years and am not interested WHATSOEVER in validation from my social circles, as small as they are.
That said, a line must be drawn i.e. she has to have good hygiene, in good shape or weight in the right places, good enough personality to talk to normally.
All things that aren't much to ask for really, since I keep myself in good shape, keep clean and am a reasonably good guy so I just simply can't settle for girls who are plain disgusting with nothing go for them just to get some legover.
I've been reading GLL for maybe 3 months now. First learned about the Manosphere/Red Pill about a year ago. I had decided to start the "Go Out Alone At Night" Program a few days back. I decided to officially join the community here and be a part of the forum due to something that happened to me a few hours back.
Here's my background: I was raised in a conservative Asian family with traditional values. My family was stuck in the mindset that they grew up in back in their home country. Part of this mindset is that good little sons and daughters should not date and should focus on their academics while growing up until some unspecified date in the future (I still have no idea when this is). As such, I listened to my parents and gained ZERO experience with the opposite sex growing up.
Like I said, I discovered the manosphere a year ago and have slowly been changing myself - exercise, carrying myself and talking more confidently, making unwavering eye contact with girls, approaching girls (somewhat - ive gotten a bunch of numbers, but zero dates), etc. The dieting/exercise accelerated and I began male enhancement when i found GLL.
This is gonna sound super lame, I'm definitely a Good Looking Loser as well, but I am 24 and until recently, I had never kissed a girl, been on a date, had a girlfriend (though this is up in the air now), or had sex. I'm pretty damn good looking but growing up, I listened to my parents' no dating mindset, then i studied my ass off in college and because I had no experience, I had no clue how to interact with girls in a sexual manner. Out of college, I worked hard and again suffered from no experience. Oh, and I'm a loner as well. Needless to say, I've really connected with Chris' history.
This is pretty fucking long, so I'm gonna try to wrap this up. I met a cute girl in December, went on an impromptu date with her (only touched her a lot, nothing else, but pretty sure initially at least convinced her I was a player), we texted and called each other like crazy over the holidays and halfway through January. She came and visited me (she lives in a different city), we spent the day and night. We kissed and made out, had sex, and she slept the night. In the weeks since, she's been cold and basically today I found out she never really saw anything between us. I was pretty head over heels for her since we talked so much (and about the future).
Super Oneitis. Now, I'm going to master going out alone, as I don't have any real friends where I live now, and become a player. I'll try to post on the relevant forum as I progress in the program, as I'm guessing Chris suggests.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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