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Jerking off vs watching porn has different effect on brain chemistry. Porn has a way more powerful effect... Also chaser everyone is different maybe you could watch porn and be fine. I do believe tranny porn cause me to do what i did. And i wouldnt called porn a past addiction. Only been off it couple of weaks. We all here to improve and better our self.

Bud, I just don't think there's anything wrong with fucking a tranny, if that's what you wanted to do at the time.

Ricks-85% of the guys I've been with have been "str8" identified. Thank God women are difficult.

Just posting in here again as I see too many people with the "sure go ahead and fuck trannies" logic. While I agree a man should be allowed to do whatever he wants within legal bounds, there's an entire dark side to this LGBT shit.

First off, America isn't truly as "gay friendly" as it appears to be - Political Correctness is mostly responsible for this illusion, A topic for another day.

A tranny is not and can never be a woman. They're essentially gay men with identity issues. You're having sex with men, which exponentially increases your risk of contracting numerous STD's, including HIV/AIDS. Something you don't have to worry about too much being a straight man - minus banging AA chicks here or African chicks in Africa. Going raw with a chick you're most worried about getting burned or at worst knocking her up (a lot of guys here go raw and have no fears at all) messing with trannies raw you're worried if you're gonna end up catching that virus or if not raw that the condom doesn't break.

Gay men (and women) are much more sexually promiscuous than their heterosexual counterparts. This is why it's so much easier to hookup for gays than straight people. However, this comes at a steep price, as mentioned above.

Guys if you're gonna mess around with this shit, I'm not judging you but understand what the fuck you're getting into. These links from our side of the internet while not directly related do provide some insight:

www.dangerandplay.com/2012/04/25/how-to-prevent-stds/

www.returnofkings.com/63900/brandon-bost...mosexuals-in-america

Ash: Thanks for injecting some good ol' homophobia into the discussion. The majority of gay sex is oral sex. Anal is not as common as some straight people think it is. I read that Return of Kings article once and was sickened by it within the first paragraph.

And now I've read the Danger and Play article, disgusting. How do you prevent STD's, don't be gay. Great advice. I'm sicker than I was before. Congrats, Ash, good job.

I'm not being homophobic. I clearly stated that in multiple times. I'm not gonna argue with you. I said the articles aren't directly related but they are full of facts regarding the entire sexual thing and what not. The cold hard truth is that HUGE risks to one's health and state of mind are being taken living that lifestyle. If the OP or anyone who deems themselves "straight" wants to live that way they need to understand what the fuck they're getting into. Statistics don't lie. To call someone a homophobe like a classic SJW for pointing out facts that MSM refuse to address that could potentially save another man's life is as idiotic as calling an older bodybuilder warning younger guys about the risks Steroid abuse a fearmonger,

We clearly disagree on a lot of things. The two articles you posted with all these "facts" are both anti-gay. Case closed. Done. Thanks.

Stating you're not a homophobe doesn't magically evaporate the homophobic things you've posted, with an overload of misinformation.

The real reason gay men and trans women have a higher rate of HIV and STD's is the result of sexual interaction taking place within a relatively small pool of people. This is why African American gay and bi men have a higher risk of contracting HIV than white gay mne, even though the studies consistently show that black gay men have fewer sex partners than white gay men do. It's because black gay men tend to have sex with other black gay men, creating an enclosed ecosystem where a communicable disease gets amplified rather than dissipated. This is then aggravated by the fact that African-Americans have less access to health care than white people. If an HIV-positive person gets proper treatment with the right drugs, they can stay healthy and reduce their viral load to an undetectable level. When the virus cannot be detected, studies show that it cannot be transmitted. So it's actually safer to have sex with someone who is HIV-positive but undetectable than someone whose HIV status you don't know. (But *never* take anyone's word for it!) But far too many in the US do not have their HIV under control, and many don't even know their HIV status.

It's also true that oral sex is far more common than anal sex among gay men. And oral sex carries a very low risk of transmitting HIV.

"A tranny is not and can never be a woman. They're essentially gay men with identity issues." And you base this statement on what?

Okay, the cultural landscape is changing rapidly, transgender people have suddenly become much more visible and vocal, and you're confused. That's understandable. But educate yourself, and not by reading misinformed homophobic crap on the web. The medical profession used to say that gay men were just confused - "it's a phase", "they just need to find a good woman", "they must have been molested as children". None of that was based on science, and neither is your claim about transgender people.

For reasons that we don't fully understand, some people have a strong feeling of not belonging to the gender assigned to them at birth - it's called gender dysphoria. What we do know is it's not just confusion - it's seems to start very, very early, perhaps in the womb. Very tiny children will tell adults that they are a boy or girl, and that pans out when they become adults and deal with their gender identity against the hurdles society sets for them.

So, my advice: Porn is not a problem, per se, and you can become addicted to it, but only in the sense you can become addicted to TV or video games or gambling. Anything comforting that takes you away from your current problems can be used that way. Porn is not addictive the way heroin or tobacco are addictive.

If you want to have sex with transgender women, I say don't worry too much about it. Sure, it must be jarring if you think of yourself as straight, but don't try to label yourself or see yourself as sick. Just play safe and listen to what's inside you until you understand yourself better. If you have anal sex (or vaginal sex if they've had that surgery), wear a condom. If you have sex with trans women or with men with any regularity, consider using PrEP - that's a pill you take daily that's been shown to be very effective in preventing HIV transmission. Use it with condoms, not instead of condoms, for added protection. You still risk getting some other STD's from oral sex and some, like herpes, can be transmitted during penile-anal and penile-vaginal sex even if you wear a condom.

And don't call them trannies. That's just rude. You are having an exchange of some sort with another human being, someone with worries and challenges just like you, and as transgender people, some much bigger than you are probably dealing with. Treat them with respect. After the quick Wham-bam-thank-you-Ma'am, stay and chat a few minutes. You might learn something.

And yes, I'm a gay man, and I have a number of trans friends - MTF (male to female) and FTM (female to male). And I see them being so much more real and comfortable in their skins once they embrace who they really are. Does that make me biased? It makes me more informed. I have no interest in having sex with them, that's not my thing. But for some it is, and that's okay.

I realized my post might be confusing. The first few paragraphs are addressed to Ash, and his comments about "trannies" really being gay men. The rest is addressed primarily to the OP. I just kept saying "you" throughout, not making it clear who I was responding to. Hope that helps.

@DownThereOnAVisit, thanks for chiming in. This forum gets ignorant as fuck sometimes LOL

Ash, if you want to learn about human sexuality from valid sources, you want to check out books published by legitimate people with credentials. Or use google scholar.

I like Mike Cernovich, but he is a blog artist not a sexologist or cultural anthropologist and his "scentific" articles should be taken with a grain of salt for this reason. Same with ROK, in fact Especially ROK.

You want to learn from people who study these
things for a living, not some random fuckboy on the jnternet.