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FS-Ronin wrote: move on dude. set some goals and focus on them. Your thinking about and focusing on unproductive things that are completely a waste of time.
You are focused solely on things that are in your past, and there is zip, aka, nada you can do about them. You can't go back in time and change it, so investing your emotions there is a waste of time. You recognize and accept it, and then you notice, huh, you know what, I can't predict the future either, 5 minutes from now, or 5 years from now, so no better time than the present to live, and shape the future the best I can, and take whatever comes my way.
How do you stop hating on girls? First, hating on them, is really hating on yourself, if you look deep, and why won't this girl be with me, or why won't that girl fuck me.. If your plan is to find some 'game' to 'trick' some woman to being with you, despite all this broken stuff in your head, it's not gonna work.
You stop hating them when you are 100 percent you, and you start to engage women that way, and then you realize, shit, this women is really into me, not because I 'tricked' her, or did something that 'made' her like me, she just fucking likes me, and that's fucking awesome.
Hell man, Your in your 20's still? I didn't start fixing this until my 40's. You got your whole life ahead of you. Go take it for whatever you want to make it look like.
1 - 23 year old, one night stand from bar
1 - Gym buddy lay
7 - Lays from online dates, (4 First date lays, and them some repeated lays after)
1 - Night club long game
1 - 24 year old met through mutual friend
--- wrote: I get why you HATE girls.... and if you're at the bottom of the barrel, it makes sense.
Still we have NO IDEA how you look like, and what your vibe/personality is.. so all these words are useless, really it is.
The biggest reason for your lack of results is probably
1. Lack of sex appeal
2. Being a pussy
Those 2 traits combined are brutal, and that's why you probably NEED to use your financial ressources to get laid right now.... and havn't ever fucked a woman without paying for it.
Trust me, these obnoxious aggressive arrogant assholes w. above average sex appeal FUCK these HOT girls.....
while you probably stand at the side-line and hate on them.... and wonder why your low sex appeal and nice guy-passive feminine vibe doesn't get you anywhere.
You need to make some lifestyle changes, and develop...
Really, you can't really half-ass this.
Otherwise you're lost forever.
yes, it is anger, rage, frustration for being a pussy and lacking sex appeal, I know you are going to say, WELL THEN STOP BEING A PUSSY THEN, DEVELOP SOME SEX APPEAL THEN!!!!, it's frustration of my horrible past, yes I know I obviously can't change it, but it's a matter of needing motivation to take action to fix my issues with women now, and stop feeling regretful over not taking action earlier, being jealous of how I feel it is easier for girls to enjoy their teens and 20's than it is for guys with minimal social effort, less social effort than what we guys have to do, yes I know they are girls and we are guys, who cares, blah blah blah, they have a different set of cards they were dealt with, i'm sure they are jealous of us guys on how we don't have to deal with periods, pregnancy, child-birth, it's just a classic case of the grass is greener on the other side
been away from this site for a few days, had to take some time off, well the good news regarding taking action, is working out at the gym again and going to therapy, I feel it has relieved some of the resentment and bitterness, but I know I still got a long way to go
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