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Currently in Portland OR, don't have a full time job but I am working with a team of people on a new business. I'm an environmental engineer and almost have a masters in engineering management as soon as I flesh out a business plan.
I'm 37 but I think I look much younger. I'm also slim and don't think the grey shows up.
I'm 5'11" at 158#, (you can tell you've got a hard gainer when he knows his weight that close) and I work out 2-5 times per week. I'm going more towards shorter heavier weight workouts to put on mass.
I have not been in a relationship for over a year or banged.
I have Day Bang by Roosh but haven't finished reading it. I've been pretty busy with Xmas, moving, and projects.
I feel shy talking to women. But really starting to realize it won't get better if I don't approach.
Welcome back man. 37 isn't that old. Important thing is you're tackling this now. Better now than when you're 65...
The AA program is a little goofy - but that's not until week 3 or so. The first couple of weeks are just normal "Do you have the time?" stuff. I'm on Day 6 and I can already tell this is one of the best/most important things I'll ever do in my entire life. It's worth it, trust me. It'll kill your AA, it'll make you WAY more social in general. It removes that "wall" between you and strangers. And it makes it feel like everywhere you go - the ENTIRE WORLD - is your playground. Good shit.
58 was the oldest I have seen. Goofy is in the eye of the beholder. LOL You know you have balls when you can walk up to a table full of hot women, that you do not know, and lay a condom on the table, then slowly look around the table and look them all in the eyes before you walk away. Your buds will think you are a God if you can pull that one off, and there is nothing stopping you but air and opportunity! If you can do it with confidence, most all of them will secretly want to fuck you as well, even if they don't act like it.
Getting the selfies with them is not really that hard, so the condom thing was my goal, and I have done it a few times now. I'm older, late 40s, and I spent all night Saturday night in a college bar working on my game. Mostly taking selfies while hitting on the younger girls. The selfie thing is just my way of having a reason to approach. I just tell them I want to add them to my collection of attractive girls and most are happy to oblige. None of them really blow me off, and several were hitting back on me. I didn't really try to take any home this time due to logistic issues, although I have had good success at this local place, particularly with the late 20s graduate types.
I have dropped my weight to about 18% body fat, and I can already see the difference in how women react to me. I started at 25% (lost about 20 pounds although I am lucky in that my fat is distributed equally so I never had a huge beer belly), and I didn't do badly even when I was 25 pounds heavier, but now that I have a flat stomach, more women come up to me first. I had several hit on me Saturday night. Losing that weight was hard, but it was the biggest boost for me of all the things I have tried to do. I think I saw about 3 women over 40 Saturday night, and two of the three approached me first.
My dream is to be about 10%, but for now I just want to get to 15%, but I have continued to keep my calories and carbs low with little to no new results for the past month. Not sure I can get much lower, but I'm going to up my cardio a bit and see if that helps or changes anything. If I could suggest any one thing for the older guys... get in shape and you are way ahead of 90% of the other men your age. I rarely see anyone over 40 that is under 25% body fat these days unless they are just sickly/nerdy thin.
Only one of my friends is less than 25% and he's 62 and only about 5'7" tall. He also does well with the younger girls, although he looks closer to 50 than 60. My height of 6'1" gives me a slight advantage in my opinion, but being shorter does not seem to hurt him really. I think the height thing is way over blown, and that it's more about your physique and attitude. When it comes to women my age, the weight thing is really big because those women do not see many well built guys their own age, so it gives you a 90% edge in my opinion over the rest of the crowd.
Of course this is all just my opinion, but it is based on the results I have seen with my own experiences. Dropping below 20% body fat really changed my face, as that was the one place I really looked puffy before losing weight. If I get to 15% or lower, I could get a full set of abs. Mine are just starting to show now, but only look really good if I flex them. The older women are just like older guys really... they lust over a hard body, even if they don't act like it openly! LOL Get them alone and they put their hands all over your stomach and ass!
Anyway, dropping body fat is a key component in my opinion! Anything else you can do to improve is just gravy on top!
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