TOPIC: i want to change ASAP!!

Hello everybody..
Hope you are all fine and ur executing ur goals and approaching ur dreams daily!

So..to keep a long story short...

Im a guy tht had enough!

23 yrs old never had a lady in life..never been in a relation..chronical PMO'er...Bumped into ''yourbrainonporn'' which brought me here..
Hope brought me here..I had enough  i want to change..coz i knw depe inisde me tht im way better then the present person am...but i feel like im in the stuck status...and im fed up with that i need to be the person i dream off...i deserve a better life then the life im living..i need ur support ur advice ur tips..

well maybe my past experiences were the ones tht built tht  failure mindset..
i was always bullied when i was young..i was fat..my family had issues and maybe tht built many psychological barrier..my escape was porn....but  the last yr i began to feel tht im not living the person i want to be....who here frm u guys got this feeling..when u have inside u alot of beautiful dreams  alot of plans alot of potential but nothing  in ur real life reflects hope of these things coming to life....and u escape in daydreaming and porn..

i admit it im coward when approaching to ladies..i cnt get my dreams come true till now...but this feeling made a huge opposite feeling comes to surface...tht i had enough tht i want to be the opposite person im now...
i want to be an ICON...i want to be super super confident...i love this quote said by will smith ''i can create whatever i want to create'' i want to live with this mindset...

i would love to here all ur comments..tell me were iam...tell me anything...

what im sure off..is tht i have this feeling although there is n evidence tht can support it nw..but i have this feeling is tht im special and i cn get wot i want..bt still im stuck...

Well cum!

I was basically in your situation last November, except older (26 now). Never kissed a girl, never held hands etc. Now I've had sex with 3 chicks (ages 22, 20 and 18), 2 of whom were hot. And I haven't really even been trying.

Do the AA program. It will fundamentally change you. Actually, no, it won't change you - you will change yourself by doing it. There are no limitations. There's nothing you can't achieve.

Welcome again Omar 

What's your game plan? Do you have an idea on what you want to focus on first(appearance, AA, online dating, etc)?

You got a dream? Protect it. Don't let anyone ever tell you that you aren't good enough or that you can't do something, not even yourself. Transforming the current you will be painful, but eventually the pain will subside and be replaced with something else. However, if you quit, it will last forever. Welcome brah.

First of all thanx to you guys for spending some of urtime and replying to my message it was encouraging alot... thnx for the motivation Ubermensch and terminator   you just boosted my hope again and sure guys i will be happy to tlak to u and get frm u advice...


And rooster thnx for asking  those questions..
well i think i will start with appearances..need to get things going well and about apporach im texting a girl i used to like from college but im taking things a bit slow..but she looks intreesting but im afraid to screw things up (shes so sexy) and am also a bit  afraid tht she get bored  or not interested after sometime..but i still have hope...

How da fuck do you do profile pic help a young blood out

wot do you meen??

Great. Updating appearance is usually the best starting point for guys to focus on.

What are you planning to start with - clothes, haircut, diet, bronzer, etc?

im planiing to go on a diet and ill go to the gym this weekend to start...ppl mostly say tht im not tht overwieght and it just need a 3months of hard work and displine so i ll do my best to get ready for this summer

Sounds good man. Always best to focus and put effort into 1 thing at a time- goals will be reached much quicker that way.

any specific diet/workout regimen you're considering?

Cheers

Just want to say something..although i cn say progress is very slow with me..and tht frstrating..ive been cutting now pron for 5 months but i still relapse but at least not alot..Porn and masturbation was part of my life...usually the minmum would be 2-4 times aday...so now its 2-4 times every 15 days!! its ok but im not satisfied..i did relapse 2day but im fed up and i will do the hard mode..of no PMO for the next 90 days..so the start is
from 15/5/2014-im clean..no PMO and iw ill fight thiughts t regain myself bck

as for the ladies..there this girl we talked but i want take our relation to the next step but im afraid rly to mess up i have her nummber we txt but the last time i tld her that i want to meet her..she was excited but after tht she tld me she was busy..i was disappointed and since tht day id ididnt want to tlak to her..so i dnt feel a bit pushy//but she still corsses my mind..and the problem is rly dnt want to screw it up but i feel tht things arent going tht good sicne we dnt tlak alot..so i feel she will loose intrest in me... i want regain control bckk..cvoz rly i fantasize her being with me..any thoughts or advices?