TOPIC: Ask ssk08 about anything! (Slaughtered Extreme AA in ~4 Months)

which importance do you think muscles really have?does muscles matter?

IT ALL MATTERS but these are the top 4 (some of them overlap)-

1) Balls (anxiety, social freedom, confidence, inner game)- Most important by far. If you can't approach or relax once you do.. it will be hard to be successful. Body language (~92% of communication is a product of balls) Importance Scale 99.9/100

2) Looks- This includes a lot of stuff. Height, complexion (face), body, white teeth, hygiene, grooming. Importance Scale 90/100

3) Style- Also important, reflects high status, sexual vibe, coolness, boyfriend material or player. Importance Scale 86/100

4) "Game"- By game I mean the verbal, physical dialogue, leadership. Not the inner game (confidence/balls) stuff. You don't need "great" game, you just have to know what your doing pretty well and manage emotions. Importance Scale 85/100

if you are/have an above average level of these 4, you should be able to bang 15-20 girls a year, so long as your talking to chicks obviously.

Hey SSK, so you mention that you feel "pussified" when you get into a long term relationship. I'm actually from the ybr forum also, and I am in a summer relationship right now. Its apparently the best way to get re balanced.

So what do you mean by pussified, just like caring too much about only one person?

I used to be that, when I was all-out loyal notlookingatothergirls despite girlfriend doing bad things. I don't think I become anymore.

I did 75% of the drills on the street, 25% inside malls. I was in the UK so it rained half of the time. The gains are bigger the harder dynamics you throw yourself into, but the risk of skipping or quitting is also higher. High risk = High reward.

I had sex with at least half of my girls despite being a bit nervous on the approach or first date.

Hi ssk08,

I just started the aa program and I having trouble messaging girls. I freeze and eject. I do this in real life too. How do I overcome this flight response?

Make the drill easier, ask where the post office is, or something else that creates "less excitement", go to places in the city where there are not a lot of people and ask less attractive women. Then work your way up.