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I recently started practicing yoga with the intent of getting the flexibility to learn a press to handstand. So focus is on my practice, but I've noticed some gorgeous women in the class, I don't know how to bridge the gap.
I find it easy to talk to anyone within 10 feet or so, but I don't feel that aggressively approaching women across the studio is appropriate. In bars it's easy for me to talk to women, but in this yoga studio there is almost no social interaction at all. I know they've noticed me because I'm a giant man is a roomful of women. How do you introduce yourself to women when the scenario is students just sitting there meditating quietly before class? After class, everyone just seems to quickly leave. I didn't see anyone socializing. If you don't happen to sit next to them, it just doesn't seem like there is an opportunity to converse. Or at least, how do you approach across a maze of yoga mats? I'm interested in building a social circle of like minded people, but it seems I'm the only one. If I start chatting up one of the women, everyone will know because I'll be the only one talking. I'm willing to do this if it's my best option, but I'd rather not make the other party nervous. How would you approach this situation? |
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To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities. "Bruce Lee". I would force my way to converse with whomever I was interested in.
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I understand the attitude, but it would seem that wanton approaching would burn the opportunities quickly.
Once one is labeled as, "That Guy" it would seem difficult to meet anyone afterwards. Apparently in yoga, the women know many of the guys just come because they think it'll be "easy to meet girls" so they are already on guard. Being 1 of 4 men in a class of 50 people, I just feel I'm at the center of attention. Am I just being an AFC or are some places just difficult to pickup? I can't tell if I'm just afraid of being a douchebag or if some circumstances warrant a slower approach? Sure, I understand "escalation is sexy" on a 1-on-1 basis, but would you want to be the 4th girl approached by the same guy? How would you create an opportunity here? |
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there's no such thing as a difficult place when it comes to screening chicks dude. if ur afraid, face it head on and get out of ur comfort zone, its the only way. personally, i rather look like douchebag then to look like a pussy. girls love douchebags ![]() Sex is the motivation for everything.
never be a bitches "friend" make your intensions clear, you win some you lose some that's life. Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power. |
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Get to class early. Stand out front on your phone..call some buddies and just bullshit if you can so you don't appear to be that creepy lingering guy.. Wait for the girl you want to approach and walk in with her and spark up a conversation..
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It is actually pretty easy. This is what I was doing 2 years ago and will probably do it again when I will have time too.
This is not instant sex method tho. You are in a class of girls that you will meet again and again, and I guess that you want to have sex with a lot of them so you can not burn yourself by doing one really aggressive approach like we like to do here, why? because if you get rejected, all the other girls will see this. Girls wants what other girls wants. 1 girl rejecting you in this class = fail. (or not there's always some exception ha) So this is what i was doing. 1. engage conversation with 1 girl at the end of the class (no aggressive, no sexual) and then integrate other girls in the conversation. Befriend them a little bit. 2.Once you have a small group of friends, invite them for some after class fun. (no not sex) Coffee, tea, good restaurant. I found that girls in yoga classes can be separated in 4 category: -Fitness girls -hippie/granola girls -overweight girls that want to get in shape -Girls that have no clue of what they are doing here Find what type of girl the girls you are talking to are. If most of them are hippies, just tell them that you have found a good organic restaurant or vegetarian restaurant and that you should all go. I love this one because most fitness girls will have some interest in those kind of places too. If they are overweight (those are the most easy to spot ![]() If they are the type of girls that have no clue of what they are doing here, I don't know. I do not have a lot of experience with them for some reasons and did not have much luck with them. 3. Go to the place you choose and talk a lot with them. Control the conversation or it will turns into girls stuff really fats and you will have nothing to say. 4. While talking, it is important that they know that you are not gay. Mention on of you ex, act really masculine. 5. Have fun, you are with a group of sexy girl bro and they all know you are not gay. BOSS. 6. Next class, talk to your target on one on one and tell her the usual stuff. That shes cute and blabla. Get her number and set up a date. 7. attend class... notice that the group you created are all sit near each other, they are now friends, and you are a part of the group. Most of the time one girl suggest that we go to the same restaurant or do an other activity all together, do what ever you want, your date is set. I usually thought that it would be better to go because if your target goes and not you, they will talk about you ,and the target will tell all the other ones that she has a date with you. (this might burn you with the other sexy girls of the group) BUT I discovered that most of the time the target already mention that she had a date with you in the lady locker room while they changed to go to do the activity. 8. Go to your date. One shot one kill. Make it clear that you are not creating a relationship here. Give her the best sex she ever had by using a lot of the tips that are available on here. 9. Girls talk. She will tell to the group how good you are in bed. Other girls will hear. You are now the yoga class pussy master. Girls with look at you and the DTF girls will look at you like they want to suck your cock right now. Talk to them. Set dates. Give them the best sex they ever had. Restart until it does not work anymore for what ever reasons. 10. Change class and repeat. You are now the yoga class pussy master. If for what ever reasons you did not give her super good sex, it might be harder to do the final steps. But hey, at least you had one ![]() Might not be the easiest or better way. But I have had good results with this. Also it is really satisfying to have a group of horny women looking at you like they know that you can give them what they want ![]() I have had most of my lay counts by doing this and had to stop because of some time restrictions. pros and cons of doing this: pros: -you get the best sex available -get you self esteem way up -did I mention that yoga girls are awesome? -AWESOME. cons: -might create some drama |
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This is really sounds like sage advice and can be applied in other social situations where you see the same faces over and over again. The “Pussy Inspector”/aggressive stuff is designed for one on one interactions, but would backfire at the yoga studio. I go to a periodic “networking” (read: singles events for professionals)event and see a lot of the same faces each time. I wouldn’t want to burn a bridge at these events and be “that guy” at these events, so I stay conservative, yet somewhat flirty and plan shit with girls outside of these events. At the risk of sounding like a PUA, I think you need to calibrate your techniques and aggression based on the circumstances. A periodic event (like yoga, a sports team, a Meetup), play the slow burn game. She also wouldn’t want to appear like a slut in front of the others…..an approach on the street or bar, get aggressive/Mr. Pussy Inspector. 4/1/13: Body Stats- 5'11", 190 lbs., mesomorph, muscular body, no abs (20% BF), doing GLL Fat Loss Diet
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walk in the class figure out which chick is checking you out, whether it be before class, during or after. Talk to her after class and screen her. Rinse and repeat. Worked for me while in college yoga class
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When I read this I literally busted out laughing. That was GOLD man I love it. I'm going to my yoga class tonight, hopefully this time there will be more girls my age there rather than 50 year old ladies. |
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yeah that's a problem I have gotten too. I did a couple place before finding the right ones. Ask the person you do the inscription with if there is a lot of young girls in the classes. Will save you money and time. They are usually honest and tell you if their classes is full of old women or of young girls.
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Thanks for the advice. I would but I get yoga classes free at my gym, and I'm doing it more for flexibility. There are a lot of other places I go where I can talk to girls my age.
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Did the advice work for you bro?
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