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Girls are very interested but flake 02 Jul 2013 21:04 #43829

Hey guys!

A month ago I posted some pics of me in the "Look Good" section and all the guys said im good looking. Women in real life have told me im good looking, and I recently was asked by a photographer to do some modeling. Soooo..... if looks aren't my problem then I'm wondering what is.

Im approaching girls (day only. I sleep at night) and getting very good reactions. They laugh, escalate back when I escalate, they ask me questions and invest in me. Sometimes the chick will pull her phone out before I do and ask me for my number. Cool right?

Except I'm not laying hardly any of these girls. I'm not using weird ass pua tricks once I get her number. I simply text the next day asking her whats up or I answer their "whats up" if they text me first. Just have a very short normal conversation. Not trying to "dhv" or impress her. Following BoyToys texting rule I suggest a meet up within 10 text.

Ive asked about 5 chicks to have coffee
10 - 12 to meet me at a bar down the street
and like 15 girls to come over for wine and a movie.

Doesn't seem to matter what I ask or how interested they seemingly are, damn near every one makes an excuse why thy cant meet up or they agree to meet up and then flake.

lol, what gives?

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 00:17 #43873

Get on the phone with them right after texting.

I get flaked on all time if I only text, even for girls who were really responsive to all my touching. My opinion is that with text they are simply reading words and debating back and forth in their heads without your presence... they become doubtful/critical even if they were very interested in person.

With your voice leading them on the phone they will be more submissive I've found. Then you set up a time to meet on the phone and they're committed.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 00:28 #43877

In fact last week I had a girl reject me via text. I told her to meet me at 9 at this lounge down the street. This girl was super interested in person. But she sent me a text saying no way and that she was seeing someone "sorry."

I was about to let her go. But I wanted this one bad so I called her right after she rejected me on text. On the phone with my voice I had MUCH more control. The next night we hooked up. If I had stuck to text, it wouldn't have happened.

Getting on the phone instead of text does make a difference.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 00:43 #43878

thank you focus.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 00:43 #43879

I simply text the next day



ANother thing... if your interactions in person are only a few minutes, they may have forgotten about you by the next day, or their mood will change. My interactions are very fast and if I don't text and then call shortly afterwards, some girls will forget it happened. Then it's starting from square 1 again.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 02:57 #43895

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No matter who you are...or how good you are with women you will get flakes...that being said...as simple as this might sound...screening is the key to eliminating flakes...you have to become more selective with who you exchange numbers with...and potentially touch girls a bit more bravely/inappropriately

I try to suggest a meet up withing the 2nd or 3rd text to be honest...the girls that aren't interested can/will get lost...you have to realize you aren't trying to impress the chic you are trying to figure out as soon a possible if she's is dtf...this can usually be figured out during the initial interaction...I can only speak for myself...but I realized the answer to eliminating my flakes was to get out my comfort zone and become a bit more selective (aka let girls go that you realize they will waste your time) and screen harder

Screening minimizes flakes because the girls that aren't interested will not allow you to escalate on them...and will throw you an excuse if you try to meet up quickly...or will throw up opposition to a number exchange

Listen to Chris' audio on phone game...and screening...it should change things for you...I don't want to sound like a dick or anything but maybe the girls aren't as interested as you think AND/OR maybe you aren't screening to see if they are sexually available..I've had girls tell me I'm cute but not be available sexually or attracted to me...even though they were interested in the conversation/interaction

Keep working hard and give us an update my man

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 03:07 #43898

No matter who you are...or how good you are with women you will get flakes...that being said...as simple as this might sound...screening is the key to eliminating flakes...you have to become more selective with who you exchange numbers with...and potentially touch girls a bit more bravely/inappropriately

I try to suggest a meet up withing the 2nd or 3rd text to be honest...the girls that aren't interested can/will get lost...you have to realize you aren't trying to impress the chic you are trying to figure out as soon a possible if she's is dtf...this can usually be figured out during the initial interaction...I can only speak for myself...but I realized the answer to eliminating my flakes was to get out my comfort zone and become a bit more selective (aka let girls go that you realize they will waste your time) and screen harder

Screening minimizes flakes because the girls that aren't interested will not allow you to escalate on them...and will throw you an excuse if you try to meet up quickly...or will throw up opposition to a number exchange

Listen to Chris' audio on phone game...and screening...it should change things for you...I don't want to sound like a dick or anything but maybe the girls aren't as interested as you think AND/OR maybe you aren't screening to see if they are sexually available..I've had girls tell me I'm cute but not be available sexually or attracted to me...even though they were interested in the conversation/interaction

Keep working hard and give us an update my man


Thanks but I should have been more descriptive.

I pretty much ONLY approach hot women who give me strong eye contact (and sense im good looking that is a lot). I introduce myself, shake hands and then hold her hand (or at least attempt too) much the same way Chris and 60yoc do it. I'm sexually aggressive to screen out the girls whos not down to play.

So thanks but I dont think what you wrote is the problem. :)

I'll try calling instead of texting and see if that works.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 03:29 #43900

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probably nothing you did....keep up the good work....all of sudden it will start pouring into your lap...imo.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 04:46 #43922

So... string of bad luck? Okay then. Thanks!

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 03 Jul 2013 15:59 #44010

I don't think there's anything you can do.

http://www.boytoystory.com/women-dont-make-sense/

Women will flake for millions of reasons: ovulation cycle, bad day, wasn't attracted to you at the time of the date, etc. Take boytoy's advice. Don't try to understand flaking and other bad behavior.

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Re: Girls are very interested but flake 06 Dec 2013 21:37 #80343

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What would you guys reply to a flake text saying she might have to cancel on me because of a family death although she seemed ok earlier while texting me and not mentioned anything about it before?

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