TOPIC: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever.

Omar Little wrote: Props on the date, but so much PUA bullshit in this post

Hahaha. True with the PUA-side.

@axis-v

thanks for commenting. There's more to cum...

@Omar @Leopard

Do NOT get it twisted, guys: what I'm describing is aspect of communication, not PUA bullshit. You sound really dumb for thinking that. In your retarded view all sociologist are PUAs. You see things not as they are but as you are. You're reading my posts like the Devil reads the Bible. Omar, You are trying to take out on me some anger you have toward clowny 2007 "who lies more" PUA robot monkeys and I will not have it.

You should understand that when I talk about the social dynamics between men and women it is not to do with PUA bullshit. Doing direct game does not mean you don't think and analyse what you're doing and how you can improve!

That kind of outdated, black & white, negative thinking has got to stop in my thread right now because what you're doing is not only disrespectful toward me but also to everyone else who has enough IQ to describe what happens between a man and a woman besides: "Bro, we met up and she was / wasn't DTF".

Great stuff man, truly great. Girl suggesting meet - what could be a better sign of interest? Only happened to me once so far.

I for one enjoy the in-depth analysis on your levels of communication. In almost all "skills" reflection is a big part in improvement and success. It is my belief - and I'm sure you know this better than I - that you can't convert a no-girl into a yes-girl no matter how good your communication is. But it's all a part of the package (looks, style, social freedom).

That's exactly what you're doing though, PUA routine shit. You're one of the originals on this site but your post looks like it's exactly from the RSD forum. Stop analysing and over thinking every line you say. You can talk about her hopes, her dreams, her family, movies, fashion, tease her, whatever you want, without it all being a goddamn technique!!!!!!

I'm not an ultra player but I got my current gf with normal talk, my last lay with small talk, my insta pulls /hand jobs with small talk. All with normal fucking talk.

Your reports make very cringe worthy reading because you analyse everything. I say this to u with the best of intentions, it's my last post on it. Keep reading daygame.com if you want..

axis-v wrote: The girl sound hot! Gotta love these feminine beauties. She also seems really into you, I am waiting the denouement of this.

Sorry to say, but after our 1st date, she never replied to my texts again. This has been the theme of 2014 but Imma bout to turn it around by taking more action!!

Monday July 7th - 2 instadates: an hour-long one and a 15-minute one + 40-minute phone convo with yesterday's number close.


Idate 1 - tall cultured brunette with some curves and lovely red lips
After approaching a dozen plus girls who weren't into me all that much, I noticed a tall lipstick brunette sitting alone in a cafe looking hopeful that a man would step into her life... and so I did.

This exchange between us gives an idea of how a strong frame turns a woman's attitude around: "Sorry I'm late, public transport was a mess (uhh... I'm not expecting anyone) so what you're saying is you prefer to be alone instead of having company? yada yada talk talk (ok, I guess I have company now)".

After about 5 minutes I found out she's on holiday and has time to spare so I suggested we go outside for a coffee. She liked the idea, so we took the bus together closer to where we both live, walked near the beach, sat down for a moment so I could kiss her although she hesitated with the lips a bit and pulled her chin down at which point I told her: " come on, you can do better than that, you're jaw's too stiff, relax (so you're criticizing my kissing...) well yes, I think you can do better, I wanna bring you up, we'll try later". I took her number so we can see each other again this week. I told her I could bring da movies, she could bring da wine, and she liked that idea, so that could be our 2nd date.

Idate 2 - freckled redhead:

Then at a park, I came across a nice little freckled redhead with her ipad who lives only a block from me. I was gently holding her by the back of the neck after a few mins cos it's a dominant new move I wanted to use. Then I found out she was on holiday too and suggested we walk arout for a bit, so I mini-instadated her, and then took her number so we can meet again this week.

Very passable tranny fooled me:
I also hit on a tall girl at the bus who I walked with after we got out of the bus. Turns out she's going on a date... with a chick! As I asked her some more questions about that lezzie thing / her going on a date with a girl... she told me I've been talking with a tranny! Funniest thing that's happened to me all year from cold approach. She was passable though. Voice was like a woman's, she had shapes inside her blouse/shirt, hands were softer than most women's, nice nail extensions and all... *smh*

40-minute phone convo with yesterday's promising number close:
I don't usually do this, but later today I had a 40-minute phone convo with a cute young brunette I number closed in a clothing store yesterday. She was on the fence about meeting me again and if all goes well, that phone convo increased rapport and comfort between us.

My frame was strong and I felt confident to speak on the phone with no anxiety, so I took the opportunity to practise and get comfortable with just talking to girls over the phone. She whatsapped me after that to say goodnight and I told her the same. I accidentally insulted her by comparing her to an ugly-ass animal "walrus", but I suppose she'll get over it by tomorrow, and that balances out me giving her too much attention with a 40-min convo over the phone.

Hey man, some very good stuff going on here... Nothing wrong with talking to a girl on the phone for 40+ minutes... nothing at all. Also, if your getting instant dates from cold approach that is FUCKING AWESOME. Seriously, with a little more aggression those will start turning into INSTANT FUCKS.

Great attitude as well, respect.

Thanks man, lol at your comment about the doubting a girls sex hahahah

FS-Ronin wrote: Hey man, some very good stuff going on here... Nothing wrong with talking to a girl on the phone for 40+ minutes... nothing at all. Also, if your getting instant dates from cold approach that is FUCKING AWESOME. Seriously, with a little more aggression those will start turning into INSTANT FUCKS.

Great attitude as well, respect.

Thanks, Ronin. Now that I think about it, it isn't the length of the phone convo that doesn't sit right with me, it's the fact that most of it was spent on me convincing the girl to come meet me and qualifying myself as to why she should do it.

Years of loneliness and low self-esteem still effect my sense of self-worth and sense of abundance/scarcity. It's not often that I find a girl that's both a) attractive enough for me and b) seems "on" or as "DTF" as they come in daygame. And then if I feel like if that girl starts hesitating, is slipping away or isn't clearly a "yes", a green light, that I have to exert MORE effort, almost like "selling myself" so she buys. That's something I have to work on somehow.

EDIT: MY 1h+ instadate cultured brunette from yesterday texted me declining my invite to go for drinks today. "No thank you, but have a nice summer!" which in girl language means: "Goodbye forever!"

Hey buddy, I feel you. What you are going through right now is the toughest part of this whole process. You have the drive and the desire, thats the only reason I ever made it, so you will too... seriously. You also know what you need to do to get there, fix your sense of entitlement. Not much I can say to help except just keep doing what your doing, your going in the right direction and you are almost there.

Horny wrote: EDIT: MY 1h+ instadate cultured brunette from yesterday texted me declining my invite to go for drinks today. "No thank you, but have a nice summer!" which in girl language means: "Goodbye forever!"

While I'm sorry to hear that, it's actually a very sincere rejection. Be happy you got that instead of "not today, I'm busy".

About the tranny: haha what a mindfuck that must've been

Walruses can be beautiful in their own way, but I guess that doesn't make for the most flattering comparison

Terminator wrote:

Horny wrote: EDIT: MY 1h+ instadate cultured brunette from yesterday texted me declining my invite to go for drinks today. "No thank you, but have a nice summer!" which in girl language means: "Goodbye forever!"

While I'm sorry to hear that, it's actually a very sincere rejection. Be happy you got that instead of "not today, I'm busy".

About the tranny: haha what a mindfuck that must've been

Walruses can be beautiful in their own way, but I guess that doesn't make for the most flattering comparison

Yeah, I'm fine with women being honest with me and not wasting my time with games. PS. I later noticed that she put a smile after the word "walrus..." so she found it funny.

FS-Ronin wrote: Hey buddy, I feel you. What you are going through right now is the toughest part of this whole process. You have the drive and the desire, thats the only reason I ever made it, so you will too... seriously. You also know what you need to do to get there, fix your sense of entitlement. Not much I can say to help except just keep doing what your doing, your going in the right direction and you are almost there.

Thank you for the encouragement, dude. I have gone through a lot of internal processing to try and figure out how to break out of this plateau and dry spell. But at the end of the day it's best for me to just keep approaching regularly and trying some new little things and keeping a positive attitude where I focus only on the positive, only on the things I want (receptive girls) and not on what I don't want (girl who aren't interested. they're forgotten about as soon as I turn my back).

I will always choose to live a life of "oh well, at least I approached her and gave it a 100% even though she wasn't into me" rather than "what if I had approached her... WHAT IF?". I believe failure and defeat is nothing but a temporary experience.

Without a community of men who show that you can succeed with women, that you can get laid off cold approach, that you can attract women without fame & money, I wouldn't believe that a man could do this shit, so thanks Ronin for showing the way and everyone who keeps posting Lay Reports, that's where the money is!


Tuesday July 8th 2014 - Cold approaching in the sweltering heat.

Polish girl duo: My opener was just to walk to the one who's having a little "tourist photo by the statue" taken by her friend, and put my arm around her shoulder and say "cheese" as the friend snapped the photo. Loved their friendly, sweet feminine vibe. Picked up the sexy little one in my arms and let her friend take another picture. They were taking a boat back to Poland in less than 2 hours and were not spontaneous enough to kiss me on the spot so no chance of fucking.

Finnish blonde walking hurriedly to meet her friends: 5mins of talking and number close.

Finnish summer dress brunette walking with her girl friend: receptive, having fun with my cheesy hand-holding as I walk her to the tram. Number closed.
Our text convo:

her: was there a camera somewhere haha
me: we all have crazy thoughts, feeling and ideas but only the bravest of us fulfill them
her: well I have to give you points for that approach! I was perplexed!
me: thanks, so do I [this is a little.... "launguage game/trick" in the Finnish language to implicate that someone said "I love you" and to tell them "I love you too" back in response to someone complimenting you] will you secretly sneak out for a drink with me when you get over your flu
her: we have to sneak out secretly? who are we hiding from? and I have to ask, did you really just spontaneously stop and try it with me??
me: "your mom, I'm afraid she wants me all for herself"
her - now switched to Whatsapp: "You're quite clever! and mysterious...."

Horny,

This thread is great,

Do you have another thread on how you overcame AA in 28 days like Chris says in the first page? Link is dead.