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Sat Feb 15th - finally expanding my comfort zone in night game & Horny vs. hot neighborhood bitch verbal fight!!
Normally I only do daygame but tonight I took a small step for mankind, a big step in my personal development and went to some bars after midnight.
With Phenibut in my system, socialization felt ENJOYABLE, it brings a smile to my face more than usually. Everything FLOWS, and any negativity/hate totally bypasses my system unlike when I'm normal and it hits me as a feeling of heaviness or defeat.
And I have a funny story to tell you about verbally fighting with this fine-ass brunette outside the bar if you read on.
So, in total, I hit on about 14-15 girls inside & in front of several bars, and a few walking home from bars.
My highlight was this busty average-looking brunette from a "2-set" that I kissed twice at the first bar.
You could say I practised bitch management with this one very fine British girl with her friend outside the pub.
Basically, she wouldn't extend her hand for an introduction which I decided to punish her for and engage in some verbal argumentation. I don't recommend this practise unless you're a) physically secure, feel safe in the environment b) strong in your sense of self c) confident that you can spar verbally with a bitchy chick with attitude.
Anyway, after she refused to introduce herself, I proceeded to straight up tell her the way she was acting was rude calling her in very clear words a cunt
in front of her (girl) friend, and another drunken guy friend, whom I verbally handled.
With a smile on her face & without an actually pissed off voice, she proceeded to tell me to fuck off, walk off, stop talking to her, this & that etc but my problem is that I don't do what bitches tell me to do. I remained feeling absolutely fine, still, solid, OK with myself on the inside.
During this 6-8min argument, I did my best to try and make her admit that "she's not as hard on the inside as she looks outside", and I told her that I would walk away after she acts with common courtesy towards me and shakes my hand. She didn't, but she said "have a good night" as she was being dragged back inside the bar from her smoking brake by her friends.
I've read from many many field reports that these hot entitled bitches actually need plenty of drama to get their panties wet cos they get so many nicey-nice compliments all day that anything positive doesn't even register on their radar and doesn't work. I saw this on her face when I said my direct opener - it's like she didn't care. Like, you have to bring out the BIG GUNS and hit them with plenty of negative expressions that makes them invest in your emotionally when they start arguing with you. Yeah, I don't know but will test this more.
The great thing is that I felt Zero Anxiety whereas in 2013 I would've been scared to put a bitch in her place like that. But if you wanna be a Pimp, I believe you gotta hold your own. You have to ERADICATE ALL FEAR IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS, EVEN BAD CONFRONTATIONS!
Anyway, it was not a bad fight because the girl kept smiling and smoking her cigarette and I remained emotionally unreactive and unphased thanks to Phenibut.
Without Pheni, my frame could have crumbled and I could've felt defeated by her like I felt by my last date when at the end my date remained smiling and I felt down about the whole thing.
These kinds of experiences are what push my comfort zone, strengthen my reality and make me grow on the inside. These are my "drills", so to speak. Scotty has his point break drills too which are more hardcore.
But yeah, start an argument with a mouthy bitch. Start some drama. You'll live
PS. I appreciate honest feedback and it is crucial for the development of my social competence, thank you!
Same old story, every number is flaking like a snowflake because all these low self-esteem Finnish chicks are simply intimidated by my honest&upfront raw masculinity and sexuality which they've rarely if EVER come across because the Finnnish boys they know and date act like pussies.
In other news: I had a confrontation with another dude at the gym. Maybe 12-14 yrs older than me, a few inches shorter but I'm pretty sure stronger than me. There's a few strong-ass middle-aged guys at my gym that I've seen deadlift 3-4 plates. Not sure if he was one of them. So aaanywayyyyy.....
Apparently I had started Deadlifting with HIS barbell. At first I didn't stop my set and believe him, but then another friendly-looking friend of his came to back up this asshole's story so I gave the bar back to him. Then me and this asshole continued back-and-forth quite loudly for a minute while the whole gym had their eyes upon us, aaaand that was that. It didn't escalate into anything.
I handled it assertively but fairly, not calling him any unnecessary names although he did.... but only once. I felt no fear and my "anger problem" was in control, and I'm happy with the outcome of this confrontation.
As for the previous British woman, when it comes to rude bitches now, I honestly have no problem just telling them to fuck off and walking away. Were you putting her in her place to garner a positive, apologetic reaction from her though? If so, I think you were coming from the wrong place.
Improving my craft, my mission in life which is MUSIC takes precedence over everything else in my life.
Realizing the vision within myself is my primary goal now. I'll let girls into my life when I have time for them.
A wise man once said: "You can always tell when a person values himself. Improvement takes precedence over pussy."
And that made me go "Hmmm...." why have I forgotten about my music for the past 4 years... and concentrated on other things which have not left me with a sense of fulfillment that I had when I was creating music?"
So now I'm making an effort to overcome everything that holds me back like wasting time on time sinks & non-essential things/procrastination/video games/PMO/internet forums.
The end goal is to be fully and completely satisfied with myself, knowing that I'm giving a 100% in this one life I have and being able to truly say: "I love and respect myself".
The reason for that is because I've realized that I do NOT want to die without truly having loved myself and others (woman/women/the world outside myself etc).
Dude. You are a champion. That last post hits me hard.
Lately my self-respect and love have taken a little dip. And I realized it is because I have been having sex with girls when I don't even want to and letting me ego get in the way. I've built up this sort of "image" where I am at for being "good" with girls and I'm afraid of not holding that image up.
So instead of dating chicks I like, having a good time, I'm getting chicks for the status and image.
Time to go back to square one.
This journal is epic.
- I Overcame 11 Years Of Depression and Help Others Do The Same Without Worrying About "Thinking Positive" Or Taking High Doses Of Antidepressants
@TJGoodLooking: I'm glad you got something out of my post, and thanks for the big ups.
All this good stuff I ordered from Iherb (and Optimen multivitamin) should support me in making some gains at the gym, feeling good, gaining sexual virility and getting back in the game since I fell off this winter.
In addition to drinking only pure spring water like I've done for years, I also began filtering all tap water that I use to cook with in the kitchen with a good water filter carafe.
BTW, I don't believe in supplement voodoo stuff -just the basic things that work - so my pre-workout is only a caffeine pill or two.
Welcome back bro! Hope to read more updates from you. I wasn't a big fan of supplements either, but I just recently started using a custom intra-workout shake with maltodextrin and BCAAs, and it definitely gives me a boost to the workouts. I can lift more weight at the latter exercises and feel better leaving the gym.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
@Terminator: your workout must be long / intense. I work out 60-70mins at a time and I'm probably not conditioned well enough or strong enough to really get 110% performance from my body.... although I try.
23th April - Crushing my ego, easing into cold approach again after falling off. I need practise.
Talking to girls today and easing into half-assed cold approaching, trying out some different things to say, I wasn't comfortable or natural doing ANYTHING that I've succesfully done before. But if I've overcome struggles before I can do it again.
One of the worst things to experience in life is the experience of feeling anxious, in your head, not grounded, socially incompetent, non-charismatic, weird and not finding the right things to say to girls.... and as a result being #foreveralone. That is the demon in my closet that haunts me till the day I die if I don't keep socializing.
Sometimes I turn back to my dysfunctional tendency to isolate myself too much and never leave my home because I don't have friends to invite me to anything. This makes me become fucking weird or socially off and I end up hating myself.
But now the winter is gone and the sun is here. I have to look forward to the rest of the year which is the best time to make new friends and get laid so I can achieve a happy, relaxed and normal state of mind instead of being a recluse weirdo.
Anyway, I took some selfies with girls where I ended up looking like I had nervous energy, which I did.
I talked to a cute brunette in the bus who was into belly-dancing and she said: "belly-dancing is a celebration of strong women, it's not something we do to please men". That rubbed me the wrong way and I couldn't come up with the right counter to that dumb FemThink statement so I just talked about something else then semi-awkwardly went for the number close before my stop. No bueno.
God, I'm finding it difficult to not judge myself right now.
she said: "belly-dancing is a celebration of strong women, it's not something we do to please men".
I totally hear you brah on that..she was just messing with you as she knows you are interested and just taking validation saying arrogantly, could be she was mature enough to test your masculine core by saying that (they do this shit subconsciously) . But to that I'd reply with something like that "really? guess what makes you strong women, we men looking at your sexy dance. doesn't matter who do you dance for..would you dance for a group of chicks and feel the same strong women?"
@Omar: you're right. It's totally normal. It's life.... etc.
@stylish: she wasn't messing with me personally, she was expressing the femicentric hivemind belief that someone brainwashed her with. It wasn't anything to do with me personally, that's why ignore&dismiss is a good default option.
In case I wanted to reply, I could have said "you just earned your first ass-spanking", which - credit to Nick Krauser - seems like a great screening line that I believe I'll find great use for
I'd like to avoid derailing the seduction by asking her to logically explain her already skewed & dysfunction FemThink view like you suggested.
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