TOPIC: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever.

I txted about 16 girls in total. 1 has gotten back to me, but didn't answer my call. Should I just hit her up tomorrow?

yeah- text her something like- 'hey sorry ive havent given you a call, been crazy busy- hows your weekend"

Some that haven't responded to my texts I sent: "hey mystery girl, what's up/what's happened to you" or "guess what? I saw your clone in the city today". These are translated from Finnish so not those words exactly. Are my txts good enough or something wrong with them? I know they're not proper screening txts but I use those less because I can't really filter out any girls because they are already not texting me back

yeah im not a fan of those texts, for obvious reasons
but there's usually not something 'wrong' with the texts... the girls just usually weren't available

try this one instead "ur sexy"

Thank you for the feedback, Chris. I'll try those texts.

I just realized something pretty profound about my game. I have to be objective and statistical about my results. When I do things the GLL way, only about 12% of my short&direct day game approaches net me a number close. Out of those numbers, 5% result in lays (1 lay). So 95% of my numbers are a waste of time = flakes. 200 approaches @3mins per approach so far means I've spent 600mins / 10hours in-field talking to women to get 1 date, which led to sex. There is a chance that another lay would've happened without bad logistics.

Why? Reason number 1 for flakes is not building (emotional) comfort&connection. This can't be done in 2-3mins, so the girls that are initially into me won't respond to my txts and calls because of this. They still feel they "don't know me". Now that I finally realized this, my eyes have been opened to the fact that I need to go for full 20min+ interactions and insta-date whenever possible.

This is going to be new and exciting for me, because now I get to unleash my whole magic personality the first time I meet her, and if she's receptive and has free time, we could go for hours and hours and we could end up having sex that day! All this without needing to play stupid txt/phone games over days/weeks.

I guess only extensive field testing with another 200 approaches this style will tell me whether I'm right or wrong about this.

ssk08, those latinas and south europeans sound mighty tempting: I love light brown skin + big round ass/tits on a woman. I had a date with that type today, actually. No happy ending  though, which made me feel emotionally flat and disappointed, I can't help it but I know I'll get over it tomorrow. It helps when I remind myself I'm gonna get pussy again on Thrusday.

Horny's 2nd date
This was my 2nd date from cold approach, and it followed the same basic template as the first. We moved from a public location to my private location after about 50mins. The difference was, I think we didn't feel as much romantic/sexual connection, my own sexual feeling/arousal was missing (shouldn't have masturbated yesterday but pressure was too much), and she didn't reciprocate as much as the first chick.

We were laughing a lot and having fun, and she let me hold her hand, touch her arm/shoulder, hug, touch hair, hi5, massage calves, massage shoulder, back, arms, little kiss on her neck, but when it came to the part where we still have all our clothes on, she's relaxed on my lap and I massage her chest/boobs she said she felt uncomfortable, she has to leave and she has to meet up with a friend in 30min. Nice excuses but she just didn't wasn't DTF in the first date.

Is it true that if I don't feel genuine arousal/get a boner when massaging/hugging/touching her, I'm not creating the right sexual vibe?

She got up quickly to put on her jacket and there was nothing I could do to stop her. She didn't seem upset, she was still smiling maybe out of politeness, but I walked her to the train station, gave her a hug and said "let's keep in touch". Maybe, maybe not. My emotional state and my expression/flow of conversation wasn't as good and free as it was on the first date. I STILL was the one doing almost all the talking. She didn't give sufficently long answers: I couldn't get her to share. I have never been on a date with a girl this beautiful and delicious, though.

Question1: Should I kiss her lips before I massage boobs over her clothes?
Question2: Any tips on how to get her to meet up again and want to bang?
Question3 about retention: the 1st girl I banged texted me that she misses me and wants to know what I'm doing. I realize that I shouldn't contact her every day and I should ignore some of her txt/call, but should I say things like: "I miss you too" or "It's gonna be so romantic when we do X together. You're gonna have my strong arms around you tomorrow. etc." or does that stuff hurt retention. Thanks.

Sorry, I wasn't clear enough in my post: We moved from a public location to my private location after about 50mins. She left from that location after about 50mins. the date lasted about 100-110mins in total. I didn't remember to use that great hip hold.

Thank you for the tips, man. I think it's a good idea to "feel her out" before going into my provate location with the movie question or something similar to get an idea how DTF she is. If she's a "no", better move it to another day.

It would feel good to get to squeeze big boobs and thick asses soon. 


HELP: girl #1 who I had sex with and who I wanted to be my FB just texted: "I can't see you anymore. But it was a nice time being with you. Wish you the best"  I mean.. WHAT THE FUCK!? We had plans for a fun day tomorrow, including sex. Should I call her and tell her to stop being so moody? I actually texted her yesterday something about "melting all my emotions away" but maybe she took that too seriously and is now trying to help me feel some emotions of anger/fear/loss again?

I replied to her after 5hours: "Why are you doing this to me" to understand wtf she is saying this. I know this sounds like victim mentality but I think this is better than blaming her hard: "Stop being such a drama queen bitch" which would've been my option #2.

Now she replied: "Soon enough you will meet somebody better than me. Trust me on this, take care". The end?

The only honest women on this planet are whores.

UPDATE: I've made friends with local GLL user "Tomas" and we're meeting up downtown tomorrow.

ssk08, those latinas and south europeans sound mighty tempting: I love light brown skin + big round ass/tits on a woman. I had a date with that type today, actually. No happy ending  though, which made me feel emotionally flat and disappointed, I can't help it but I know I'll get over it tomorrow. It helps when I remind myself I'm gonna get pussy again on Thrusday.

Horny's 2nd date

Question1: Should I kiss her lips before I massage boobs over her clothes?
Question2: Any tips on how to get her to meet up again and want to bang?
Question3 about retention: the 1st girl I banged texted me that she misses me and wants to know what I'm doing. I realize that I shouldn't contact her every day and I should ignore some of her txt/call, but should I say things like: "I miss you too" or "It's gonna be so romantic when we do X together. You're gonna have my strong arms around you tomorrow. etc." or does that stuff hurt retention. Thanks.

other question; Is it true that if I don't feel genuine arousal/get a boner when massaging/hugging/touching her, I'm not creating the right sexual vibe?

hey ill be doing a video just for you in a few hrs.

1) either way
2) phone rules, exact same way every time until you bang her (set up plans via phone, not text)
3) it depends on the girl and how she views you... and who likes the other more. If she likes and thinks you are player and you fuck lots of girls, you can tell her whatever you want and being nice is usually best. If she doesn't, most nice gesture can come off as desperate. if you do thats stuff, just be sure you are doing it for the right reason (genuinely want to put a smile on her face) rather than to "check" on her to see if she's going to flake.

thats why I like setting up plans via phone.. the girls rarely flake
if they didnt like me they wouldnt pick up, most of the work is done..

other question: No. dont worry about sexual vibe. the fact that the girl wants to fuck you is enough.. physically u can amp it up later, give her alcohol if need be. youve seen my videos, I almost play down my sexual vibe on approach.. I'd look like a maniac at 6-2 220lbs coming off that way too much... doesnt hurt me so long as I touch them a little bit and they like me

Ok, thanks for clearing up some of my confusion, Chris.

-I met up with GGL user Tomas yesterday, got to know each other, walked around for 2h talking to girls every now and then, getting new experiences cos this was my first time hitting on chicks as a 2-man team. Got 2 numbers, neither of which replied my "nice to meet you" text so far. I felt like I internalized some concepts that I've learned here better by discussing with Tomas. I intend to help Tomas get some socialization practise by inviting him to meet with my group of guy friends.

-My busty latina from "Horny's 2nd date" replied to my "hey, you wanna see a movie at your or my place" text with "I feel that we're a little too different, so I don't believe that we should see each other anymore..." Basically she gave me the same rejection as girl #1 (that I banged). This time I'm not gonna start arguing her. I'm thinking about just texting her after 5-6 days: "you have delicious tits" because that's what I REALLY wanted to say to her, and now I have nothing to lose anymore since I never even "had" her... but BOY did she have sexy curves with that olive skin. I actually wish she worked as a whore so I could pay to go fuck her right now.

okay, im getting a feel for how girls are reacting/seeing you..
this is kinda hard on the internet.. ya know

stuff is different for every guy, so "advice" is kinda pointless sometimes if we don't know whats going on

--- "...we are too different," could it be that these chicks are seeing you more as 'boyfriend' or 'project' moreso a guy who will fuck them??? thats big in this game
i had an issue with that and beat it in a big way.

Mhm, I'm nodding my head in agreement now. It definitely is possible they're seeing me in a BF frame because of my personality, which is not naturally bad-boy/playerish... I never developed/had those characteristics. But I dress in a black leather jacket and jeans to kinda look like one. And I don't wear my glasses anymore, even though I did on the date with the busty latina because I couldn't get my contacts in, if that matters.

OK, let's try to figure this out - why does Horny come across as BF material instead of player/FB material?

All this stuff is coming to my head right now, let's see: I don't drink/smoke/do drugs at all, I've never had a girlfriend/FB - and so I miss the validation, caring, loving and attention from women that I've been wanting my whole life, I wanna cuddle with them and wake up next to a soft naked girl on some mornings, I'd hate to think that I'm causing some girl to be heartbroken, I was never a bully but I was the one that got bullied, I'm interested in meditation and spiritual stuff.

I actually listen to chicks when I have conversation with them on dates, I've never told them "shut up" and rarely cut them off, I talk about some deep stuff and share a lot  about my life, my family and my life experiences with girls on dates, I am naturally caring and considerate and want to make other people's lives better and happier when they interact with me, I never was sporty/outgoing/aggressive as a kid like other boys, I didn't have a strong masculine father figure. I had to develop my masculine, bold, sexual side from role models like guy friends, some PUA teachers and the vibe Chris/Scotty put out in their videos and how they speak.

OTOH, I did touch the girls a lot on the dates, not so much on 1st approach (hanshake, arm touch, hug), and I did keep constant eye contact and didn't look away like a pussy. I did initiate basically every move/logistical pull and plowed through their objections like a man etc. One thing I didn't do is verbalize sexual intentions like "You are so delicious/ sexy. I want to bend you over that table so bad right now", because I thought that might trigger their anti-slut defense too easily.

So, how did you beat this issue, Chris? I think you might have written an article, I can't remember right now.

Haha, I wanna go and have fun in the red light district at least once in my life!

On another note . YEEEEEESSSSS! Girl #1 who I had sex with and who didn't want to see me anymore texted me: " Hey Horny, I'm sorry for being rude to u, but I miss having fun with u. Can you forgive me and hang out with me again?"  YEAAAHHHH!!! I'm SO surprised and happy I actually got a full boner after reading this text, I'm not kidding!

And another cold approach girl I haven't had a date with yet called me yesterday - Friday night - at midnight. She apologized that we haven't been able to set up a date yet and she's been super busy. She was tipsy and in a downtown bar with her friends and I didn't really get a feel that she wanted to come over to my place either even though I didn't ask directly, cos I don't have any experience with this situation - cold approach girls (booty) calling me at midnight. Any tips for this situ?

Anyway, I was tired & going to sleep, so I told her I'd call her and arrange a time for us to meet next week. I hope she's horny to meet me then.

Thanks for the story, ssk08. I have yet to escalate with a girl in front of her friends during the day, but I'll probably have to do that soon.

Last Sunday I met up with girl #1 for the 2nd time, and we had sex at my place after going swimming, which was very fun and arousing as I had a boner for almost the whole time because I was touching her skin and being physically close to her in the pool and having her sit on my lap... OMG it was soo hot for me, and my horny gestures and words made her giggle. For now, our FB relationship seems to be going well. We laugh and enjoy each others' company, but I'm trying not to make her fall in love with me too much, because I don't want her to start imagining me as a monogamous LTR BF.

Horny's 3rd date

Tuesday I had a date with a tall, hot blonde who seemed cool, although not DTF that day. We split the cost of the date when we ate some pizza, then walked around my neighborhood with me holding her hand/hip and at one point I stopped, pulled her hips/body close to me and went for the kiss, but she said "no" and turned the cheek, but kept smiling and being in my arms as I locked my eyes on her eyes and lips, so I'm gonna escalate on another day. At the end of our date she said she wants to see me again. Maybe, perhaps

This time I was able to let her also talk and not try to talk 90% of the time. But I think my conversation with women is too much like my conversation with guys, which is: talking about life situations, family, careers, relationships, dreams/goals, culture, our city/country, somewhat logical/serious issues, whereas I THINK I should learn how to connect with her on a more flirty/emotional level and not so much with certain topics/issues in mind.

Should I be bringing up topics/asking questions this personal on dates: 1.How many boyfriends have u had? 2.What's the craziest place you've ever had sex? 3.What is your favorite sex position?

And Dickie, you're probably right, I just missed an opportunity due to inexperience. This girl even texted me starting with the words "hey there, handsome..." yesterday and I'm trying to meet up ASAP when she's back in town. This is the path of learning. Damn, I will get it next time.

She was tipsy and in a downtown bar with her friends and I didn't really get a feel that she wanted to come over to my place either even though I didn't ask directly, cos I don't have any experience with this situation - cold approach girls (booty) calling me at midnight. Any tips for this situ?

She was totally DTF man

The only honest women on this planet are whores.

lmao...this made me chuckle to be honest