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It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 25 Sep 2012 14:53 #2433

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I have transitioned from doing AA drills to screening women, getting their # and txt-->call->set up dates. That's why I'm starting this so follow my progress and hopefully get inspired.

I now have around 6-7 numbers I'm working on, but I would like to ask a question about today's #.

I got a cute very thin blonde chick's number in under 30sec at a fast-food joint cos she was busy working. How do I know she's not a physcho because I noticed her left forearm was covered with self-harm scars? Will this type of chick be safe to meet up and have sex with at my own place?

Even more importantly, do you guys have any tips for phone call anxiety, because I clearly notice it happening, because I'm not used to making phone calls to girls even though I can make fluent conversation in person now? I can speak on the phone without stammering, but inside I'm feeling stressed and anxious. My hands get clammy, heart beats faster, body tenses up. I do all my calls to girls from home and this is where it happens.[/size]

UPDATE: Just called 18yo blonde to set up my date for Friday 4pm!! SO HAPPY AHHH!! I didn't feel too much anxiety because first I told her: "I might be out of breath because I just came in the door". And there were no awkward silences, so good good :)

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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 25 Sep 2012 18:44 #2444

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yeah shes safe just fuck her, what are you afraid of... shes just a girl she does not posess a physical threat... only a physical treat!!! ;-)
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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 26 Sep 2012 06:27 #2454

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I have transitioned from doing AA drills to screening women, getting their # and txt-->call->set up dates. That's why I'm starting this so follow my progress and hopefully get inspired.

I now have around 6-7 numbers I'm working on, but I would like to ask a question about today's #.

I got a cute very thin blonde chick's number in under 30sec at a fast-food joint cos she was busy working. How do I know she's not a physcho because I noticed her left forearm was covered with self-harm scars? Will this type of chick be safe to meet up and have sex with at my own place?

Even more importantly, do you guys have any tips for phone call anxiety, because I clearly notice it happening, because I'm not used to making phone calls to girls even though I can make fluent conversation in person now? I can speak on the phone without stammering, but inside I'm feeling stressed and anxious. My hands get clammy, heart beats faster, body tenses up. I do all my calls to girls from home and this is where it happens.[/size]

UPDATE: Just called 18yo blonde to set up my date for Friday 4pm!! SO HAPPY AHHH!! I didn't feel too much anxiety because first I told her: "I might be out of breath because I just came in the door". And there were no awkward silences, so good good :)


Hey -- yeah you don't know if she's psycho or not. I agree with BT- its nothing you should worry about until she's a regular part of your life... and when she is (and you've fucked her)-- you'll hold the power whether she gets to get fucked or not.

Phone anxiety (maybe I should write something on this)
1) have a REPEATABLE gameplan- much like the interaction it's IN and OUT (set up a meetup, ideally within 48hrs), if you wanted you could jot down some bullet points of what to say. Phone chat only has to be as long as it needs to be. Get off the phone first (thanks David DeAngelo!)
2) she already likes you if she picks up, and possibly DTF if you touched her (even a little bit)
3) she's nervous too
4) she already likes you
5) Practice, exposure therapy, same principle as AA

if you want- you could call random phone numbers and start talking to people (ideally women) and ask them out. yep- random people, that you don't know. Just establish a BIG FRAME and proceed like you picked them up 24hrs. ago... talk to them like you've known them for years... funny I know, you'll be surprised how easy it is to call a chick that ALREADY LIKES YOU and you already know after that.

-- i got more suggestions, ill put them up later
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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 26 Sep 2012 19:49 #2479

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Thank you, Chris. I'm sure I'll get more comfortable with the phone over time.

But can you please help me with something else?

Now that I have gotten a total of 14 numbers altogether (6 of them today), I have a concern: I've been only able to set up 1 date for this friday, (btw didn't use the aggressive "hey sexy"). 50% or more of these girls are not answering back my first txt: "It was nice to meet you" etc. or my second "hey sexy" or "hey hottie". I might change that to "hey girl". My physical screening includes usually at least an extended handshake at least until she pulls away, and then a hug to seal the numbers I get. Lately also a little palm read. But 80% of girls react like they've NEVER been approached like this during he day cos in my country NOBODY DOES THIS, and I've heard this from several women themselves. They acts confused, try to walk away, say "I don't give out my number to strangers". So I make extra effort to tell them "I know this is not normal, but I don't care what others think" and "don't worry, this is not a TV show, there are no cameras here", "I know you've never experienced this before, but I just want to get to know you".

What's going on here, should I screen less hard (not say the word "sexy" much because I get the sense that these feminism-brainwashed girls are weirded out by that, and not read palms) to get more girls on dates where they might be more willing to engage in physical dialogue?

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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 26 Sep 2012 20:41 #2480

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true screening mentality is when you really dont give a fuck how the girl reacts.....so the fact ur questioning urself...ur not really grasping the actual screening mind-set. If that makes sense, cause when it clicks in & you've realized that you've been screening, the first thing you notice about urself is that you dont question urself anymore...like ur previous mind set did

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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 27 Sep 2012 10:13 #2506

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But can you please help me with something else?

Now that I have gotten a total of 14 numbers altogether (6 of them today), I have a concern: I've been only able to set up 1 date for this friday, (btw didn't use the aggressive "hey sexy"). 50% or more of these girls are not answering back my first txt: "It was nice to meet you" etc. or my second "hey sexy" or "hey hottie". I might change that to "hey girl". My physical screening includes usually at least an extended handshake at least until she pulls away, and then a hug to seal the numbers I get. Lately also a little palm read. But 80% of girls react like they've NEVER been approached like this during he day cos in my country NOBODY DOES THIS, and I've heard this from several women themselves. They acts confused, try to walk away, say "I don't give out my number to strangers". So I make extra effort to tell them "I know this is not normal, but I don't care what others think" and "don't worry, this is not a TV show, there are no cameras here", "I know you've never experienced this before, but I just want to get to know you".

What's going on here, should I screen less hard (not say the word "sexy" much because I get the sense that these feminism-brainwashed girls are weirded out by that, and not read palms) to get more girls on dates where they might be more willing to engage in physical dialogue?


Hey, these non-replies can be a lot of things. Generally, it's somewhere within the looks + style + social freedom, since those are 99% of getting laid. At the same time, there's definitely some validity to the small town/nobody talks to each other barrier too. Zuberi is dealing with it. He cut down on the "sexy" and touching and he goes out with the hottest girls in his region now. So I do suggest that, for starters.

Remember "being aggressive" is definitely relative, since you are simply "talking to someone you don't know" that's aggressive in your country. So no need to really throw a lot of physical/verbal escalation in there. You're on the right track.

I wouldn't put them on the spot with the "its okay, I don't care what people think..," etc. I don't know that- that is helping, it might be hurting. You can use a lighter version like "I know this is random..." and stuff like that.

If you don't mind, post up a picture of what you are wearing and give me a better idea of the size/culture of the town your in. There could be a bunch of things going on, but lets start there. 1 response out of 10-15, it's entirely uncommon right now, especially since you have just started and if you are going for a # from each girl in conservative town.

Not to sweat it, we'll figure it out and fix it as best we can.
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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 27 Sep 2012 10:54 #2513

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true screening mentality is when you really dont give a fuck how the girl reacts.....so the fact ur questioning urself...ur not really grasping the actual screening mind-set. If that makes sense, cause when it clicks in & you've realized that you've been screening, the first thing you notice about urself is that you dont question urself anymore...like ur previous mind set did


Yea, I'm a beginner at this so I often notice myself being in "Mr.FunnyMan" mode and it will take some time&experience for me to internalize the screening mindset and sexualize my interactions.

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Thanks for telling me that Zuberi cut down on the "sexy". I'll do that too. We both live in Europe - although different countries. My city of Helsinki, Finland has a population of 500 000 and 1 million in the metropolitan area. We have a drinking culture where regular people basically believe that only drunk people ever hook up. I don't drink. And yes, I noticed that just talking to new people in daytime is seen as super confident thing, and 2 girls texted me "you were brave cos you talked to me".

Let me clear something up. 5 girl out of 14 have replied to my txts (36%). 2/5 (40%) agreed to a date with me (1 by txt , 1 by phone) although 1 canceled because she flew to USA yesterday for 5 months. I will add her on FB and hit her up when she returns. One more girl I've spoken on the phone with will likely date me in 1-2 weeks cos she's home in bed and pain medicated due to an injury so she can't go anywhere for now.

Also, I will make a POF profile today. More options :)

Thank you for your encouragement - it keeps me going.

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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 27 Sep 2012 11:16 #2515

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no doubt man... keep us updated
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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 27 Sep 2012 18:17 #2531

Congrats on getting this far with the AA man. Yo. Scotty is right. No fucking cares about what happens during the interactions man. I'm trying to learn to let go too. I suggest doing variations dude. Try some insta-date type shit sometimes. Like at least move the chicks to 2 or 3 locations! Try same day lays dude! Put the moves on them. See how far you get. Remember to not 'verbally' be so aggressive, since the girls are so 'held back', and be 'physically' aggressive. Flirty and stuff, ya know? Try all of it. And try them alot too! See which ones work the most for you. That's usually how I get my techniques. You'll get the feel soon. Good luck bro!

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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 28 Sep 2012 10:27 #2592

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for those watching at home-- Horny beat most of his AA in 18days
http://goodlookingloser.com/forums/index.php?topic=77.msg2583;topicseen#msg2583

while this may be faster than most, it shows that it can be done pretty quickly

sometimes guys don't know how much approach anxiety they really have because the community has convinced them they have all these problems and they needs to do all this "game" shit to get girls

neither are usually true.

After you beat most of your AA, the next step is to fuck girls (and adopt a screening mentality, leave whatever bad, unnecessary habits behind).. after that- the next step is to fuck girls
both can happen in about 18days too, if you are making a real effort EVERYDAY... depends though might take 19days
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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 28 Sep 2012 14:43 #2633

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Wow... my date for Friday is texting excuses and not responding when I ask her when she's coming. She's 2 hours late, I'm sitting at home, pissed at that fucking bitch. I can't fucking believe these flaky 18-yos can't keep one fucking promise. At least I didn't comply to her insane requests to meet her downtown.

I spent AN HOUR cleaning the toilet, kitchen, and my room, and then I prepared a nice gameplan with pool and music and fun for her... now it's all gone down the drain! I swear from today on I will do not one goddamn nice thing to these hos before they suck my motherfucking dick. I have to kill all romantic & loving feeling because even the most sweet&innocent-looking women here are worthless entitlement-minded cum dumpsters.


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Re: It's my life, and it's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. 28 Sep 2012 16:11 #2643

damn dude that fucking sucks. i was actually going to wish u luck cause i know today your going to date that 18 yo from the fast food place. don't worry, girls that age can be fucking stupid and immature.
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