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I decided to write about some of my approaches, screens and feelings about it from time to time. Since I have been doing this almost 2 months now (mostly on the weekends), writhing about all approaches and tiny details aren't possible. So I wanna only write on something out of that I feel that something changed inside me or learned something new and wanna share with you and see whats your take on that...
today I texted "hey sexy, nice meeting you last night" I did pretty had screening (holding, rubbing, shoulder massage, long hug, neck kiss) last night out of a club but that bitch didn't text back yet. When I had her saved my number she even asked for my last name to save..seemed pretty interested but now seems like flaking..
Another bitch I met in a Russian club last night, danced with her lil bit then got her number, wont let me do anything more. I saved her name wrong, she was leaving the dance floor but returned and corrected her name. seemed pretty interested. She went back to her friends. after a while I went to check on her to see if I could apply some kino and possibly escalate and it turns out that bitch is married and only here for a day. Why she had to give the number and correct her name then, to get away from me? I didnt give up still tried but didnt go anywhere..thoughts?
had a coffee date with a black bitch for the first time off of okcupid. Wasn't attracted to black girls until recently. Actually now I like all kinds of girls if she has good body and if the face is not too ugly. The date went good, didn't screen or escalate because I knew she'd get lost and not DTF. At this moment I am positive that I can fuck her allowing some time and would like to keep girls like that on the side while working on other business , you can call fuck buddy. Touched her a lot though..grabbing hand, rubbing palm, teasing a lot, she was already shy and sorta not into it first time. I played a customized game as she is 30 y/o, kinda decent type, higher ed, with little feminist attitude. I told her when I date if I like the girl I need to touch her and feel her or it doesn't give me good feeling and I feel I am missing a big part..then she tamed. Date ended with 2 kiss and another on the lip
then went to cold approach in a shopping neighborhood, stopped couple of girls on the street and that didn't go anywhere. Weather was freezing as hell, windy and pretty much everybody was rushing. Also one thing I noticed that I tend to get better result in indoor approaches rather than totally stopping someone on their way to somewhere on the road. It is not that i feel guilty or something but I see those girls get away easily and keep walking faster. May be I look foreigner thats why. similar experience/thoughts?
Went to a grocery store in latina populated area..hit on 3 bitches, 1 walked away telling has bf. The other one is white single mom with 3 kids..i don't care.. she has a firm big tight ass, seemed into me, wont let me kino though but kept talking, wont give her number also and I asked for mine. gave it to her.
Then met the hottest cutie of the day a tall pretty Irish bitch , was little shy when I was doing kino first but later became normal, seemed super friendly..could be fake..was asking me lot of questions too, I asked her to go with me now for a drink, denied telling she has a bf i told her I don't wanna be your bf. she continued she'd like to go sometime later. I continued I will take to my place, tease you and chill with you, she was smiling..wont give her number either, wasn't also walking away..then was asking me so you wont leave me your number? I let her my card..
then went to tj max nearby and hit on the girl work there, was very receptive but found out she is 16, left just saying your are nice.
- all bitches had bf/ husband..would little different approach might give result in these situations? I feel like even though I try to do kino and stuff but may be I came across as bf material because during talking I always have little smily face even with sexually charged conversation. How thats gonna improve? How can I become the guy they just wanna have ONS and secretly fuck ?
- another my personal feeling I got today making intention always very very clear verbally if you do kino or not because I find many girls get confused sometimes. We live in so called "civilized" society and think I'm psycho or something with that screening and get scared. thoughts? Girls had only 0/1/2 relations think I definitely wanna be their bf. The conversation with the Irish girl changed when I said I don't wanna be your bf. Later I thought if i grabbed her butt little and told her I like it, that would make the situation better. How direct have you ever been in the first interaction? Making intention clear and being as direct as "we can have amazing sex" could make me come across more sexual?
p.s. like to address every girl I hit on as a bitch as I'd like them to be my bitch. Note that things might be different with you guys as I am ethnic minority and have little accent.
While did few approached here and there last week, nothing worked out. Friday the FILF texted me I left her my number the week before, working on her, dont seem responding well though, she will text like sorry..i was busy..will call you blah blah
yesterday did few drill in the city, met few inter sting bitches may be in total 7/8, i don't keep approach count. Got a number from a minor(realized after she left..she seemed pretty advanced, and responding).
met this Romanian girl, was very resistive in simple touching in the beginning, spent some time as she seemed interested , walked around in the mall at the same time kept kinoing.. as much as I could keeping her clam and with different excuses. We sat brought up the sex in the discussion, took her for a drink, then she pretty much opened up, kinoed a lot, strong eye contact, her face lit up so bright, hand became freaking hot when I was rubbing my thumb in her palm. She was looking down smiling and was saying what you doing? Anyway, she made it clear she have to go thought and I offered to drop her, when I parked in front of her place. She just jumped on kissing me while I was reaching for side hug( My approach for kissing on the first date usually first side hug, then turning it into a kiss saying something BS like you smell good, or I feel like kissing you), we made out, she complemented me I am a good kisser, she likes it and also said I smell great, she likes my colonge. Going to pick her up today from her friends place at 6 pm and plan to pull her directly to my apt ..will see how it goes ;D
dropping her last night went to a club and gave my number to 3 other latina bitches, even though during ride to her home I told I dont do clubbing anymore as she was asking
ya they rock bro, but I totally FUCKED it up. Have no idea why i did that, feeling like screaming and breaking everything now. everything was perfect, she seemed so much into me and was already started thinking about relationship, and stuff wtf. we started kissing on the couch at my place, i had her taken her couple sweaters off and was rubbing her pussy over the pant and was squeezing her bobbies too. We danced little bit, she said she need to go to bathroom, danced and kissed again little bit, I lifted and carried her into my bedroom threw in my bed, we started kissing again, i took her shirt half off and was kissing and licking her boobies(pretty good size) , i went down kissing and was almost smelling her wet vagina , then LMR LMR LMR. she was saying she doesn't wanna go further, all these BS, I was cool I didn't react like i was 18 and thought whats the deal she is all into me, she is pretty and I'd love to have her around for a while and would enjoy slowly while hunting for others. Anyway she continued all these BS that we will do it more later, its hard for her too to resist. I hate that all girls I meet find me as a bf stuff. If I just started fingering her it would have fucked her brain and shit, i know this shit but I kinda felt for her wtf , i am no bug but a piece of junk. We ate together then, later she was telling me she wants to go visit my country someday and will cook good stuff for me and shit.
dropping her on my way home, got a $120 ticket for tailgating an officer..my night is all shit and pissed off. Feeling pretty down at work today , at lunch went to nearby mall and hit on two chicks. One gave me her number, she is 19 pretty young thong and would be so tasty. Coming to work i texted her "cool meeting you", she is like "yeah!" , "what you doing toning/tomorrow"..no reply yet its been 2 hours.. I am all good for fucking flakes and rejections and shit man.
this same shit happened last month also with a cougar I picked up from a super market. I dunno what I'm gonna do to change it. fuck it
so after work the girl from the mall texted back, but she seems weird and extremely shy, i bet must be virgin and she doesnt wanna continue taking. Anyway, seems its not gonna work out with her. Have to regain my energy again and go for the hunt tomorrow. Too young is problem , also sometimes mature women gives hard time from some other stuff. I dunno man, I need to get laid ASAP, I haven't almost in a month since I broke up with my ex.
I've been doing the daygame 2 months, gll stuff solidly 1 month. I dont know man, where I did wrong? girls will come to my place, kiss, makeout, right before fuck LMR, they wanna hold, see me as a bf material..what can I do about it?
stuck in fucking blizzard here today, its gonna last until tomorrow night, looks like no business this weekend. this week did some approaches, went pretty good:
Other day hit to a Jamican girl and kholes , wont let me kino but was sticking around and smiling, also dont wanna give me number 'i don't give my number out' left her with my number asked to text me tonight and we can meet tomorrow, didn't get back..
hit on a hot Lithuanian woman but grew up in the U.S., sexy body and style 'Armani Exchange Area manager' very receptive, shy, exchanged numbers, asked to go for a coffee with me, she have to go, her sons bday, she then suggested may be another time in Boston city, I said fine. Said bye with a hug and big kiss on her neck. After a while i texted 'cool to meet you', she 'i am sorry, i am married and have a family, i am not interested, have a blessed day' WTH who wanted you to be nice and fake? texted her back a pict with a big dick in case you change your mind..
found a hot thick blonde cutie checking shoes in the macy's. Walked up hey i had to stop and come to meet you, you are pretty. She smiled, face turned totally red, i am holding hand and talking, she has a bf. I said I don't wanna be your bf, how about we have fun, life is fucking short. She is like yeah, i am like lets go we can grab a coffee, she is i have to go right now to pick up by bf. Leave me your number. I am like no I want to call you give me your number, she wont't so left her with my number with a hug and a kiss on the side of her head.
last night met this tall white seemed sorta bitchi/feminine chick at Walmart. Was very receptive, after conversation I said lets go grab a tea now, its 10 pm. she is exhausted came from work and said not now. she was looking for her business card in her parse and told me why don't you note down my number? she have to go and she has to work tomorrow morning. I said how about tomorrow after work, btw its a blizzard weekend here totally forgot, she said if the weather permits and stuff. I said I will text you and we'll figure out. she is like ya that sounds good, text me. left with hug and kiss close to the ear too. 30 mins later texted 'cool meeting you', not reply until this morning, then texted again hey, how is it going , wanna meet still? no reply , sure flake
Guys what the fuck I am doing wrong here? I am tired of FLAKES and bitches fucking nice with me..they don't have to be. I'd love to get more physical once i can get her going with me and stuff. But, all of them seems to me now they just wanna bail leaving their number. Looks? Last night I was probably in my best look with new all classy but cool stuff.
I decided not to take any number unless she is not from some FUCKING SUPERFICIAL culture/country. Comments appreciated..
Read "How to do on the date"-guide on
for breaking LMR. Breathe heavily with your nose, lick & kiss her, touch her tits then her pussy OUTSIDE the clothes to turn her on before taking them off.
I already did read those from his site man, real good stuff. Yeah, I admit with the Romania chick the slow escalation was my fault and didn't move quickly. But, I am little worried about all these flakes in general and women having bypassing me being nice. I mean may I see different result after sticking to it a while. I don't mind someone directly saying no rather that giving number and bail out. Did you ready my other approaches? I've a feeling at this moment I have to be more aggressive and physical from the v first moment? They'll know I am after (even though i say verbally) and not that nice guy wanting to be bf and will either leave or stay.
Flaking is everyday food for me, unless they are darker, sluts or milfs. Do you have the freedom to travel abroad? Do you enjoy the US aside from sex?
this exactly applies for me too. So far, all the non U.S. girls I've been with I didn't even have to put lot of effort. They would like me the way I am. Last time the Romanian girl would complement me on everything even though I didn't ask her opinion. Like i have a good face bone structure, I have nice lips she likes kissing v much, I'm relatively tall, my shoes etc etc. My last Moroccan gf used to treat me like SEX GOD lol and loved my hair and skin color.
I have to work the numbers' game REALLY HARD here in Ireland to get laid at least once a month.
I guess me too, so far not all of them are fake with me though, the other 20 yr old virgin U.S. white chick I made out in my car, was my fault too not escalating harder and dragging her to my place.
Do you have the freedom to travel abroad? Do you enjoy the US aside from sex?
Of course man. I can't wait to plan my next trip but it cant be long enough , I wanna do it with guys form the same league with similar mentality and goals like you. I don't have any player buddy here. yes, i like living here as I have a job i like and it pays real good which survives me to have a good health, style, and at least financially supports me to stay on the track to keep trying and get what i want.
I was already thinking to put an thread up here asking guys like you to meet up in some country and do mass drill and fuck new chicks every now and then and get tons of experience and pleasure, ultimately achieving some happiness & fun. Encountering a new girl and fucking her, so much pleasure who get it, he gets it no need to explain. My head is pretty fucked up now , I am already 31 and I don't have any plan to settle or get married yet. What date of March you going to Brazil? Where you staying and logistics?
Amir has a lot of experience so he can comment on his environment, but you haven't approaches enough to get a sense of what kind of girl digs you. I am sure you know, and like most of us, due to job, family etc. we don't have the freedom to move anywhere in the world to find the easiest pussy. The truth is, in every major metropolitan area, there is a niche for you. Most player find their niche after a while and stop mass approaching. For now, we still need to mass approach to figure out the lay of the land.
Age is pretty relative. You are in good shape at 31 y/o. I just tagged a white girl that's half my age. It was pure luck and numbers game, but hey, there's still plenty of pussy out there and I am not giving up yet.
I am always looking for guys to go to Vegas. Probably the best place in US to get laid.
Dont get me wrong, I definitely get flakes, everybody does, could be a million things, she changed her mind, u look too much like her ex bf, you talk too much like her dad, she met another guy who she likes more, she has a vaginal infection, she is psychotic, whatever.
BUT, generally I have to say, if my game is solid, flakes decrease. WHY? I think it has to do with creating a good impression (she needs to know what ur cool) and establishing a connection. Good impression is style, opening, use of voice, being yourself (using your own humor and what u like to talk about and what not) but establishing a connection is about SWAG what chris talked about too which means u gotta be able to talk about other stuff too and if your just grabbing tits and ass 1minute in-set, yea she's gonna flake if she isnt super outgoing, DTF, and a total party girl.
It reminds me of this PUA book I once read (dont read it, fuck the theory), I think there is some truth to his view on flakes: if you open super strong, you come across like a cool sexual guy and you escalate you have your DRIVE in place but not your INSPIRATION which is all about showing who YOU are (talking about yourself in set too).
So my advice to you is to make sure you learn to talk with chicks longer before going on escalating frenzy, talk about yourself and make sure that when she is in the train back home she still thinks about you and KNOWS what you like, do etc. Doesnt prevent flaking from happening, I think everyone experiences flakes, BUT we can decrease the flake rate.
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